I ve been with my girlfriend for more than two years and it s my fault that he chose someone else, 5

Updated on psychology 2024-06-11
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Maybe he wasn't sincere to that man, but moved, because of that man's thoughtfulness. Then you should be considerate to her, don't be nice to that man, he must still have feelings for you, come on, chase him back, good girl.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Now that you have feelings with others, what do you still miss her?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Look at so many of your words to know how much you love him, and it's her fault that she doesn't love you. It's okay, it's normal to fall out of love.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's similar to your situation, but it feels completely different.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I'm going to use that money to chase another nice girl.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I feel like your girlfriend is a little bit bad, really, don't mind. It feels like her feelings are unreal, have you ever wondered why she is still with you? Who exactly does she like?

    I don't believe that a woman can fall in love with two men. I don't believe that her body gave it to you, and it won't give it to other people who she says she feels. Come to think of it, at least the man would ask for it, right?

    It's not good to drag on like this, you're passive.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I'm sure you've been tricked.,Did you ever hurt her.,So she must have gotten your heart first.,Dump you now.,You'd better find your happiness as soon as possible.,Sometimes it's like yours isn't.。。。

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I believe that every man will have a headache and be more entangled when he encounters this kind of problem.

    It can be seen that I like your girlfriend very much, and I don't want to separate, after all, more than a year of feelings.

    But you have to accept the reality, you mentioned that your girlfriend has moved several times and changed jobs several times, but why her ex-boyfriend still finds her, I don't believe you told her ex-boyfriend. Then there is only one possibility, their connection is not broken, and you can also understand that it is not broken. At least there has been contact behind your back, and when you change places a few times a year, the contact is quite ordinary.

    If she cares about you, then when you see her coming to her in front of her, your expression will not be happy, but only a look of jealousy, and you will still not change when you see it, and the contact is still so ordinary.

    My contact is that what you should consider at the moment is not whether it can last long, but to directly propose to break up!

    Of course, if you really can't put it down, you can talk to your girlfriend alone, put everything on the table, and talk about it well. If you don't change it, you can't bear it anymore.

    The so-called thing is not three, then it is also a score situation, this kind of thing is unbearable, no matter how much you like it, this is also a big hidden danger for you in the future.

    This is my personal opinion and I hope it will be helpful to you.

    Finally, I wish you happiness and all the best!!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    First of all, the landlord is a lover! Rare, really rare!!

    Secondly, whether it is a husband and wife, or a boyfriend or girlfriend, no relationship is the hardest!

    Fourth, if you don't come out, after all, it will delay the lives of two people, and the landlord must make a timely decision!

    Fifth, the landlord can also consider seeing if the two of you have a chance to go further (such as becoming a real lover or getting married).

    Sixth, if the fifth point cannot be realized, the landlord will have to come out of this specious feeling! Otherwise, it's a disservice to both!

    Finally, I wish the landlord a happy day, all the best, and the whole family is healthy!!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't focus on emotions for the sake of focusing, put more mind on your career, a successful man, a man with both emotional intelligence and IQ, will exude more charm and make girls like it. She likes you, which is the foundation of your long-term existence.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't mention this matter here, but try to find an opportunity to chat with your girlfriend with a tentative and purposeful understanding of your girlfriend's plans for your future life, and see what she thinks, so that you don't have the bottom of your heart.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Actually, I think this thing, love has to come step by step, and it's impossible for you to become fat in one bite. He has just cut off contact with his ex, and it is normal to have a little contact in private, and you have to be tolerant. But I think you and him should have an open and honest conversation, and if the two of you really don't fit, then break up.

    After all, twisted melons are not sweet. It's better to find one that suits you. Not only to suit yourself, but also to love yourself, to be considered really good.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    How to redeem him who says he doesn't love you?

    Cherish emotions. We were very happy for the first two months together, and I felt that he loved me very much. After meeting his parents, he became more and more cold, and he was also very critical of many of my behaviors, I was angry and didn't want to coax me, kisses and hugs became less and less, and I didn't meet positively. I often lose my temper when I get angry about these details, and he says he's tired.

    He said he was very busy at work, and he had to explain this and that to me all the time. The other day, I quarreled over some things, and after eight days of cold war, I called him and he insisted on breaking up. He said he didn't love me anymore and didn't have me in his heart anymore.

    I cried so hard that I couldn't take it. I went to look for him the next day, waited for him for five hours and he didn't want to see him, I kept looking for him in the rain. In the end, we talked together, he said that he didn't know when he stopped loving, his eyes were full of tears, I kept crying, buried in his chest, he also lowered his head and rubbed my hair with his chin, and his hands were clenched very tightly, and finally I wanted to leave, and said that I was stupid, would I not bring money to take a taxi.

    I could tell from his eyes and movements that he still had feelings for me. But he said that when he thought of me before, he was sweet and excited, but now he just feels so tired. He insisted on sharing.

    But I still love him and don't want to leave him, will he ever come back?

    Consult the teacher's response.

    Come and see why he left you.

    First of all, in an intimate relationship, pleasure = favorability and conflict.

    Affection concentration: A pleasant experience when dating. How much we give means how good we are to each other, but it does not mean that how much we pay is equal to how much the concentration of favorability increases.

    Conflict concentration: The distressing, frustrating experience of interacting.

    He said that he used to think that you were sweet and excited, and that was pleasure, and that was the concentration of affection at that time, and there was almost no conflict. But now that I think about you, I feel so tired, and the pleasure of being with you is gone, why? Because the intensity of your liking decreases with the time of dating, and the degree of conflict is rising, he is very critical of you, unable to accept your temper, cold war, and so on.

    People have the instinct to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and when the relationship with you is not beneficial but harmful, leaving becomes natural.

    Second, satisfaction with intimacy = pleasure level of expectation.

    Expectation level: What we expect from a relationship, from past experiences.

    The level of pleasure between you is decreasing, the expectation is certain, and the deeper he interacts with you, the more he finds that you are less and less like what he expects, and the more critical he becomes. Especially in the see.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    She is lukewarm to you, you are very good to her, love is mutual, you didn't enter her heart, she didn't have you in her heart, you better give up, look for true love, don't panic feelings.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You and your girlfriend for more than a year, you think he is good, but he is cold to you, for this situation, I think, ah, it is she who did not take a fancy to you, don't waste your feelings on him, waste is also boring, I hope you seriously summarize your experience, in the next love to find your true love.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Let's break up decisively!Although she is your new love, she is the old love of her ex, and for her, the clothes are not as good as the new, and the people are not as good as the old. Since you can see that she can't forget her ex, then don't have illusions, don't believe what she said before "love you", the reason is obvious, she has a hurdle in her heart, you don't need to wade into this troubled water.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    How to say that you can like it is not that you can be very good to her, maybe she is gentle and gentle to you in her own heart, and she doesn't care too much

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    No, your girlfriend hasn't let go of her ex-boyfriend yet, just like you said you helped your girlfriend move several times and change jobs several times, but her ex-boyfriend hasn't been able to find her every time, how does her ex-boyfriend know?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Whether it can last for a long time depends on both sides!

    She may be nostalgic for her ex!

    You may have a new love!

    The love affair is really the result of the efforts of both parties!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's not right for you to be together. She can't let go of her ex. You just let it go. How tired it is to be together.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Judging from your description, it's hard to last long, and if you want to stay long, you need to have a good talk with your girlfriend.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    We've been together for more than a year, and your girlfriend still can't let go of her ex, so forget it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Another day, if your girlfriend is domineering, you just ignore her once, and she will naturally look for you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    She's just used to it, and let her do it.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Just hang her to see if she will really go, really don't be together, if she leaves, then, she doesn't love you.

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