Family affection is indifferent, but why are many people still willing to trust their relatives?

Family affection is indifferent, but there are still many people who are willing to trust their relatives, which is completely dependent on family affection。In my bones, I think that everyone is a blood relative, so I will have more trust, even if I am deceived once, I will still give one more chance, but if it is always like this, even if it is a relative, I can only become strangers in the end.

In fact, when it comes to family affection, people are often emotional and have definitely become less rational. After all, home is a place to talk about feelings, not all to talk about business or rationality. The way to deal with your loved ones is to think about a little bit of affection.

So even as a relative, the contacts are not particularly frequent, and there is not much friendship, but it is always due to the blood relationship, and it will not tear the face.

So compared with ordinary friends, even if I feel that my family is very indifferent, I still trust my relatives more than people outside. Because here there is a concept of oneself and people outside. It is because of the existence of family affection that relatives are always automatically classified as their own people.

Compared with the outside, it is clear that most of the people prefer to trust their relatives.

Now the outside world is not so simple, even good friends who have been around for many years may put themselves together, even colleagues who usually have a good relationship may make small reports behind their backs, these things are very common. Since the outside world is full of so many intrigues, when I return home, I must hope to be more calm and at ease, and I don't have to worry about it anymore and don't have to be calculated and careful.

This is the sense of security that home and relatives give themselves, and they want to return home when they are wronged outside, so they don't want to worry about these things when they return home, which is also from the bottom of their hearts that their relatives and relatives will not harm themselves, and it can be said that this is one thing that everyone is more willing to believe. Even though there are quite a few relatives in reality, people prefer to believe this, which may be a comfort to themselves.

Although family affection is relatively indifferent now, in comparison, the reliability of relatives is still higher than that of strangers. So many people would rather trust relatives they don't know well than strangers.

This is because, after all, relatives are people who have the same blood as themselves. They think that even people of the same blood as themselves can't be trusted, so who else can they trust.

Because the most trustworthy thing in this world is the relatives who are connected to their blood, if the relatives can't be trusted, then no one can be trusted.

Because after all, everyone is a family. It is related by blood. And China has a tradition of such blood relations. So many people are still willing to trust their relatives.

Although family affection is now weaker than before, relatives are always closer and more credible than outsiders, and there are inextricable links between relatives, so the credibility between relatives is still relatively high, so many people are still willing to believe in their relatives.

Although family affection is relatively indifferent, after all, blood is thicker than water. In this society, if you can't even trust your relatives, who else can you trust? There is also the fact that after all, the monk can't run the temple if he runs, if the relatives run away, then there are his relatives, and the family can theorize.

After all, it's more credible than a stranger.

It is human nature to desire family affection, even if family affection is indifferent, relatives are the existence of a special type of person in this world.

In real life, the reason why some people have no friends and are very indifferent to family affection is not that they really don't want to make friends and don't need friends, nor that they don't value family affection, but because they are too simple and direct, not good at dealing with people, and don't know much about dealing with people.

As time goes by, the more frustrations they suffer, the more reluctant they are to take the initiative to make friends and take the initiative to maintain family relationships.

A person's life, in the final analysis, is actually a one-person journey, and from beginning to end, you are alone in your world. The reason why some people have no friends and even family affection is very indifferent, is because they see this clearly, so they would rather make themselves appear unsociable and make Ru Nai appear cold by nature, rather than wronging themselves and forcing themselves, to live in other people's worlds, and become a supporting role for others.

Hello! 1. I have experienced the lows and peaks of life and recognized the cruelty of human nature.

At the peak, many people will know you, at the trough, you will recognize many people, and when you have experienced many things and many people, you will understand that the world is hot and cold. Although there are not the most people you know, only more, but it will be full of hypocrisy, and the contacts are only based on profits, when you need help, most of the people you originally knew will disappear at best, or they will fall into the ground. In the face of the reality of human nature, you will recognize the cruelty of human nature, and for the rest of your life, you will consciously keep your distance from the irrelevant people around you, and you will not crave worthless socialization.

2. Although he is kind, he is not proficient in human affairs.

Many people will empathize, even if there is no sleek means of communication, the nature will be pure and simple, in the process of dealing with outsiders, it is inevitable that it will be calculated by outsiders with ulterior intentions, both may meet people in the city and may meet scheming people, so you will find that it is far less comfortable to be alone, saving a lot of trouble. The more kind people tend to be more emotional, the more they don't know how to be guarded, even if they are hurt by others, they just become more cautious, so they would rather be alone in many cases, and will not blindly socialize, only to be open and honest with people who value love and righteousness, resulting in most kind people not having many friends, and the circle is not very large.

3. The heart will distinguish which is more important and tend to live for itself.

Some people are unwilling to grieve themselves in order to pander to others, and it is a pain to please others in order to please them. Many people who seem to be out of place are not without good popularity, but are accustomed to living alone; It's not that the heart is cold, but the heart lives transparently, neither compromising nor wronged, just want to follow your own heart, while pleasing yourself, based on the present, looking forward to the future, and living your own life well.

Fourth, self-reliance and self-improvement, do not want to blindly rely on others.

If you don't rely on yourself, you will find that when you rely on the mountain, the mountain may fall, and when you rely on people, people may run. Therefore, in life, sometimes the greater the hope for others, the greater the disappointment. Since time and energy are limited, we should spend as much time and energy as possible on self-improvement, so as to make ourselves a strong support.

With the richer the experience, the more you will understand that it is better to ask for others than to ask for yourself, and you have to look at other people's faces, not only many friends will drop the chain at a critical moment, but also many relatives will still tend to be icing on the cake, almost never send charcoal in the snow, see through everything, walk on the road alone, neither feel lonely nor feel lonely.

Either he was born without many friends, or for example, the original family relationship was indifferent. In that kind of environment, it is difficult for him to develop healthy intimate relationships, natural family affection, and you have few friends, because the way he learns to treat friendship or love in the situation is hurtful, and in the long run, those friendships and love will stay away from him. Others are apathetic, or avoidant attachment, or the other person has done something particularly bad.

endangers the whole society, or the six relatives do not recognize it, and harm relatives and friends.

Quite simply, he is such a person, and he feels that he is happy in life.

I have one next to me. First, he will often alienate his friends.

Second: Always immerse yourself in your own fugue.

Third: no goal, super quiet.

I just don't pay attention to him now, super weird and cold. So I can't look for this kind of friend when I look for it, it feels like I'm sticking it upside down. Friend, it's normal to not understand this, who can understand, I can't stand it after staying with him for a day.

Why some people not only have no friends, but also family affection is also very indifferent, this is very normal, because many people are like this, I don't understand the relationship between people and things after they are born, so the technology is not good, and my mood is not good, so he is very weak in society.

1: Life has experienced too many changes and seen through the warmth and coldness of people.

2: I'm not good at dealing with people, and I don't know what people are sophisticated.

3: Recognize that the essence of interpersonal relationships is the exchange of interests and start to stay away from low-quality friends.

4: Live very clearly and understand that the world is your own, and will not force yourself to cater to others.

It is possible that this person is not pure-minded, very bad kind of person, so everyone is reluctant to approach him.

I will actively communicate and coordinate with my relatives, try my best to maintain the foundation of each other's marriage, and make the family warmer. In life, it is very important to learn to have good communication with others, so that we can get along with others, and it is also very important for the maintenance of family affection

Understand more about others When you communicate with others, it is best to learn to understand others, if the other party's personality is more sunny and cheerful, then we don't have to be too serious, and if the other party is a more serious character, then when we communicate with others, we must fully understand and respect them, to communicate carefully and carefully, if the other party is a friend who doesn't know much, it is best to maintain respect for appropriate communication daily topics. 2.Talk to learn to respect each other, when we encounter problems that we don't understand, we should ask others for advice, when communicating to respect others, don't talk endlessly, but learn to be silent, let the other party express their opinions more, when encountering things we don't understand, don't rush to express it, we should learn to listen carefully, and give people a humble and serious learning attitude.

3.When communicating with people about common interests and hobbies, everyone likes to exchange topics they are interested in and like to express their knowledge to others, so we must first learn to understand and listen to others' opinions, so that the other party can feel your sincerity and feel that communicating with you is a very pleasant process, because everyone hopes that they can be understood and respected by others, and more exchanges of each other's expertise and knowledge are precisely to understand each other and have a common language with each other. 4.

It is necessary to learn to listen carefully and carefully, do not interrupt others, and listen more patiently, so as to understand and respect others, and only in this way can we reflect our sincerity and modesty and courtesy, so as to gain true friendship. 5.When communicating with others, if we can properly express praise for the opinions expressed by others, this is undoubtedly to give the other party a feeling of respect and recognition, and the other party will also agree with our understanding and respect, and the other party will also have a new understanding of us, which effectively promotes the happiness and smoothness of communication.

It's true, now I feel that the feelings between relatives are gradually weakening, I want to say that the place where we live is getting farther and farther away, sometimes just walking around during the New Year's holidays, and some even don't move around during the New Year's holidays, and the feelings are slowly fading.

Feelings can only be promoted by frequent movement, and if you drift away, then it will gradually fade, and perhaps in the end it will become a stranger.

This year's Spring Festival looks very lively, and the wanderers who are working hard outside have gone home for the New Year. It stands to reason that during the New Year's holidays, relatives and friends get together, and Lala often reminisces about the old days and revisits the old family and friendship. But with the acceleration of the pace of life, the feelings between people are becoming more and more indifferent, and the interaction between relatives is becoming less and less, which leads to the gathering of relatives during the New Year's holidays has become a burden.

The embarrassing situation of "relatives becoming more and more estranged" is caused by many factors.

1. There is a lot of pressure in work and life.

With the pace of society accelerating, everyone's life is stressful. As the saying goes, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read. Because I am too stressed, I don't have time to take care of anything else.

Due to busyness, there are fewer and fewer opportunities to walk around each other's doors. Relatives are getting closer and closer, and if they don't move around for a long time, there will be less and less contact between relatives. The feelings between people are mutual, and if there is no contact and communication, the relationship that is close to each other in time will gradually drift apart.

2. Economic factors.

Now whether you live in the city or in the countryside, life is not easy, and everyone is running around for a living. There is a phenomenon of borrowing money between relatives in the market. On the one hand, they usually don't have much contact with each other, and they don't know each other's economic situation very well.

It is also possible that due to various reasons, the family does not have so much cash, or it is possible that because it is a relative, there are more scruples ....... If you don't succeed in borrowing money, you will inevitably feel guilty, and it is inevitable to complain. In this way, relatives are becoming more and more estranged from each other, and after a long time, they are indifferent to each other, and they don't even interact with each other.

Third, the stakes are at stake.

It turns out that relatives always help each other. But some people always remember how to be right about each other, how the other party is sorry for themselves, and they don't want to interact when they feel sad. It is not excluded that some relatives like to take advantage, and after a long time, it will inevitably make the other party feel uncomfortable, and in the long run, they will no longer communicate.

Fourth, the problem of distance.

With the flow of social population, there are more and more people who leave home to work hard, all over the world, all over the world, it is rare to see each other, and the time to play ** is becoming less and less because of busyness. I haven't seen you for a long time, every New Year's holiday, it's hard to get together, due to the different industries you are engaged in, the location is different, the lack of common topics, just a courtesy greeting, so that the family flavor is getting weaker and weaker!

Nowadays, people's life rhythm is getting faster and faster, busy with business, busy charging, busy with promotion, busy with fitness ......In a hurry, the affection between relatives was neglected. Because friends may be unfamiliar with each other, and business may be ruined due to untimely communication, but in any case, we can't give up this rare family affection between relatives, after all, blood is thicker than water.