How are the girls who insist on getting married now?

Will the girl who marries regret it?

It all depends on what kind of boy you meet and what kind of in-laws you have.

1.From a practical point of view, you must be cautious when marrying.

If you don't know 100%, you don't need to get married in a hurry.

Family backgrounds are differentiated.

The thinking patterns, living habits, and visions of the two are inevitably different.

This boundary will not disappear just because you love each other.

If you can't reach an agreement in the early stage, hidden dangers may be buried.

And there are no more than three outcomes.

1. The man is submissive on the surface, and he takes the woman's money behind his back, "making a mistake that all men in the world will make".

Second, the man's wolf ambition, taking advantage of the woman's ascendancy, and finally soaring to abandon his wife and children.

3. Men are weak and women are strong, and boys are prone to inferiority complex under long-term pressure.

And because of low self-esteem, he behaves in some kind of extreme.

I believe that no one wants to encounter these three.

2.In addition to prudence, we must also know how to give in both directions.

Many girls who marry marry do so for a simple reason.

He was very nice to me, and he was better to me than my parents.

When we start to think of being good to ourselves as a plus, the relationship may not go far.

Just like building a house, "good for you" is the foundation.

If you can't even reach the basics, what is the meaning of being together?

This good has to go both ways.

When you enjoy this unilaterally, you also have to think about it:

Why is he so nice to you?

Feelings are not charity, if not profitable, why?

If you really don't ask for anything in return, how long can this good last?

Many people's pursuit of marriage is 1+1 2

However, you need to accept a high probability of 1+1 2

You chose Him, and you accepted all that He had.

Then don't complain, but deal with it together.

And put away your sense of superiority.

Only when a relationship is in a reciprocal relationship can the emotional communication be more accurate.

In reality, many couples like to say nothing when they are arguing.

The woman likes to condescend to marry herself and let herself have the upper hand.

Isn't this moral kidnapping? How can such a marriage last?

Girls who insist on getting married, I think it's better now, after all, they have obtained their own wishful husband, at least emotionally or ideologically, they have been satisfied to a great extent.

Because as a girl, the reason why she chose to insist on marrying is entirely because she firmly believes in her own vision and choice, and firmly believes that the person she chooses will definitely become the other half who can give her happiness in her mind, so she will make such a clear decision, so time has passed, and when they have experienced the same time as they get their love, they must be happier in their hearts, and at the same time they are happier, because at least spiritually, they get what they want, even in material life, The aspect is not as he imagined, hello so wishy-washy, then driven by emotion, he will definitely use his money to earn the material wealth he wants. In the end, you will definitely get the kind of happiness you want.

Therefore, the girl who insists on taking off the shelves will definitely have a better life now, because at least in terms of emotion, she is a winner, she has won the emotional victory, even if she has suffered from the participation of others and the contempt of others in the case of material scarcity, then, after finally changing the material conditions, she will definitely let herself live the life she wants.

How important is it to be a good match? My answer is just four words: very important.

The married girl's life after marriage can be roughly divided into two types. The first is that a friend once said that the life of a married girl after marriage can be roughly divided into two types. The first is a business elite like Li Fuzhen.

There is also a housewife like Luo Ziqun who was poor after marriage in "The First Half of My Life". In the former, men follow women. In the latter, the woman follows the man.

But either way, there will be some uncomfortable moments.

Perhaps the most uncomfortable thing is the difference in consumption outlook. A good marriage is the same three views. But in marriage, what two people have to face is nothing more than the triviality of chicken feathers, and it is more appropriate to say that the view of money is more appropriate than the three views.

And those who say that family wealth is useless cannot escape the fact that a person's attitude towards money depends largely on his family background.

We always say that the most beautiful love in the world is to be evenly matched, and the happiest marriage in the world must be the right match.

Because although a lifetime is not long, if you want to go through the ups and downs of nine curves and eighteen bends, you must always be equal in order to have the determination to get along with each other.

Getting married is a very important thing, so you must think carefully and try not to choose to get married.

It's not that you have to have a bad life when you get married, but there are really few people who can live well!

From the beginning, your relationship is unequal, maybe some men did not show it at the beginning, but marriage is very long, not a day or two, and since you chose to get married, you don't want to divorce casually, and wait until the relationship breaks down, the family is broken up and then divorce is hurtful to both parties, and in this process, the two people have experienced too much sadness and pain, all the good things have disappeared, it is better to leave some beauty in each other's hearts!

Summary. This concept is common among the older generation, but modern society has paid more and more attention to women's self-development and independence, and I believe that this concept will gradually change in the future.

The older generation thinks that the best destination for girls is to marry, no matter who they marry, as long as they are.

This concept is common among the older generation, but modern society has paid more and more attention to women's self-development and independence, and I believe that this concept will gradually change in the future.

Can you elaborate on that a little bit more?

This notion is outdated, anachronistic, and lacks the values of modern society, so it is not accurate. Women should also have equal social status, independent life planning, and diverse life choices. Girls can choose to marry, but marrying is only an important choice in life, whether it is Qi or for men and women, the only value of life is not to quietly break up the marriage, but to pursue the life goals they want to achieve, such as career development, parent-child relationship, social relationship, etc.

Therefore, we should break down outdated concepts, respect women's independent choices, and support women to pursue their ideal lifestyle.