Can studying psychology really give insight into other people s thoughts?

Summary. In fact, everyone in the world cannot survive without the love of their parents, and some of her knots for her parents may not have been resolved in her heart until now.

How to gain insight into what others really think in their hearts.

Hello, I'm typing slowly, could you please wait a minute?

It seems like you want to know what someone really thinks in their hearts, but don't know how?

That's right, how to look at it.

Could you please tell us more about your current relationship with someone?

Normal relationship, sister-in-law relationship, I don't know whether to trust her or not.

What did she do that made you aware of it?

Feel like she's not acting on the inside and outward?

She said her parents treated her badly. But I don't think it's bad for her, I said that I used to beat her and scold her, which made me feel too resentful!

Sometimes, sometimes the words that come out will change after a while, the kind of person who can't figure it out.

Yes, maybe she just remembered her parents' badness and didn't see her parents' good.

In fact, everyone in the world cannot survive without the love of their parents, and some of her knots for her parents may not have been resolved in her heart until now.

Maybe she was adopted, and from the bottom of her heart, she hated her parents, of course, her parents did beat her a lot, but she couldn't help it, I wanted to be good for her! If you don't listen to reason, you can only fight!

You feel as if you shouldn't remember the bad of your parents, parents all over the world love their children, but the way of love is different, and some think that the education of beating is just the hatred of children.

At the beginning, the parents' intentions were good, and they wanted their children to become better.

That's right, maybe that adopted child has a bad mentality, that is, the whole world owes me, what should you do to me! She was abandoned a few times when she was young, so she didn't trust anyone.

Yes, they have long been psychologically planted with the seeds of abandonment, a high degree of fear and insecurity.

There are ways to observe the psychology of others:

1. When talking and getting along, you must understand the content and method of the conversation, and then understand the attitude of others towards certain things;

2. On the basis of understanding attitudes, carefully observe a person's demeanor, expressions, emotions, etc.;

3. Think about that person's attitude towards certain things;

4. Constantly analyze whether your inferences are correct in practical activities, and combine a person's personality, interests and hobbies;

5. You can learn more about psychological works to help understand the psychology of characters;

6. When understanding a person's psychology, we must observe more Zen, think more, and learn to observe words and colors;

There are ways to observe the psychology of others:

1. When talking and getting along, you must understand the content and method of the conversation, and then understand the attitude of others towards certain things;

2. On the basis of understanding attitudes, carefully observe a person's demeanor, expressions, emotions, etc.;

3. Think about that person's attitude towards certain things;

4. Constantly analyze whether your inferences are correct in practical activities, and combine a person's personality, interests and hobbies;

5. You can learn more about psychological works to help understand the psychology of characters;

6. When understanding a person's psychology, we must observe more, think more, and learn to observe words and colors;

Recently, I read a book on psychology that can help you see how others are lying. In this age of lies, it's not bad to know some ways to see through lies.

1.Look at the speaker's movements: Liars are generally nervous (as fools know) and always want to hide their hands because they are afraid that others will see something from their hands (they don't understand......）

Also, a liar does not dare to look directly in the eyes of the person who is talking, he will pretend to be relaxed, but generally will not be stable, he will involuntarily move, such as straightening his collar, rubbing his hands, looking at his watch, etc.

2.Listen to the speaker: When a liar speaks, he always likes to make long sentences shorter because he doesn't want to show too many flaws.

Also, liars will preemptively speak before the listener speaks and try to change the subject. Liars sometimes have incoherent words when they lie (this is more basic).

Some of the books have been said, and I have summarized some of them from practice, if there are any inappropriate points and things that need to be added, please point them out.

behavior, as well as eyes. Pay attention to his small movements, hands and feet. For example, if a person shakes his legs, we usually sit with one leg and the toes on the ground, and the heels move up and down, and the legs also move.

It shows what the person is waiting for. Another example is that when a person lies to you, his eyes generally dare not look directly into your eyes, and when a person chats with you and recalls something, if his eyes look to the upper right, it means that he is really recalling, and if the king looks to the upper left, it means that he is mostly making up. If you really want to analyze people's mental activity, then read more books on behavior.

To understand others is to understand yourself first, and if you don't know yourself, you can't understand the ...... others

Specifically, everyone has their own purpose for doing everything, you should first think about how you will react when you encounter something similar, and then imagine what the result will be in combination with the characteristics of others (such as: easy to be impulsive, love to avoid things, etc.).

This is to analyze the psychological characteristics of others, but I also suggest that you communicate more with your elders, their life experience is enough to enable them to correctly judge other people's every move, what you need to do is to learn their way of thinking, think about things comprehensively, and you will be able to grasp the psychology of others......