If you feel unfair in front of your loved ones, tell him how you feel

People live to experience joys and sorrows, old age and sickness, in order to understand what people live for? In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values. Life is very tired, very hard, because the society is very unfair, life is very helpless, sad and sad to cry, find something to do, it is not boring, because life is like this, no one's life is smooth sailing, as long as you work hard, it will be wonderful!

I'll give you advice, can you see it? 1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ...... 3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. 5.

Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale. 6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects.

For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it. 7.

Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water. 8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand.

For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy.

Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. Go for it! Finally, I wish you a happy life!

Life and sorrow, death and peace.

I'm on the top floor. Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and it is difficult for us to judge from your description, and your thoughts are also one-sided from your point of view. Isn't there a problem for others?

I have a brother and a younger brother, they don't pay a lot for the family, I haven't got a family yet, and I have contributed more than 200,000 points to the family for free, and just in time for our shantytown renovation policy, I helped the family live in such a house, which can be regarded as a building, because I contributed the most, my dad said, this suite will be mine in the future. My mother, once because of a little thing, said very sadly, if I can't get married in the end, they will help me with a little money, that is, a very small part of a house, only tens of thousands of yuan, and then this house will be divided equally between our three children ...... laterI don't know why she made that decision, I don't know where I am.

We got married and asked his family to take the money out to buy things for the wedding, and his family said that there was no money, because my husband was married for the second time and had a son, and their grandson said that it was hot and immediately bought an air conditioner for more than 3,000, I was very angry at the time, if your family really has no money, then forget it, I have money and pretend to be pitiful in front of me, I married his son and didn't want anything, just let them have a wedding, is it so difficult? My parents have already given in, they can save for them, and they will get married at least 100,000 yuan in Nanjing.

I remember when I was in cram school, I counted my symptoms every day, headache, dizziness, nausea, dry eyes, tinnitus, soft body, shivering, cold hands and feet, ......I count it every day, I am disliked by my family, I don't want to get sick, and I hope I can get better. Now, the disease is riddled again, this semester has been a month and a half, I have been transfused for 10 days, the back of my hand is full of holes, I no longer count the symptoms as I did back then, because I no longer have the strength to count.

When I was a child, I was often left at home by my mother, and then she took my younger brother to work and visit relatives, in fact, I knew that it was because my younger brother was young, but he was still unhappy.

Suddenly, I feel that the person closest to me is a person who doesn't care about people, and in addition to worrying about the baby during pregnancy, I also have to be disliked and not understood by my family. But for the sake of the baby in my belly, I have to learn to be strong! My psychological quality is really a little poor, I hope it doesn't affect my little baby, I still have to learn to adjust my mentality, others will not care about themselves, I have to learn to care about myself.

There is nothing lonelier than being spurned by family, disliked by lovers, and abandoned by friends. When people are most afraid, there is nothing more than the picture of their own pressure and fear, for fear that the next second will happen what they are most afraid of. In fact, the biggest obstacle is that I am not someone else.

People often say that "man's fate is destined by heaven," and sometimes if you think about it, God is really not fair to me at all, and people often say that "people are doing it, and the sky is watching." "That being said, but what about reality? I'm only 21 years old, and yes, I often complain about the dissatisfaction with life, the fact that I don't live in a good family, and the dissatisfaction with this society.

Yes, contentment and happiness, okay, I'll put aside the patriarchal things I experienced when I was a child and was disliked by my family.

In the past year, he has been disgusted by his family, in fact, he is disliked by his son. Because listening to songs only listens to Zhong Hanliang's songs, and watching dramas only watches dramas. Only Zhong Hanliang's topic will be refreshing, and all other topics will be drowsy.

I'm unemployed again, and after the age of forty, am I really going to be rejected by society? The road ahead is long, I believe in the arrangement of fate, I have never done anything wrong, I have never done anything hurtful, I have been hurt by my family, but I am still full of expectations for life, God is the fairest.

It feels too uncomfortable to be forced to find a partner, as if my family dislikes me for being too high and too proud, but is it wrong for me to pursue what I want, if I can afford a car or a house, do I have to go back?

My grandmother has a lot of children, and I must have a lot of cousins and sisters, and my grandmother is partial to the children of the third uncle's family, and if she has good things, she must leave them to eat