What is the moment when you feel that life is really unfair?

<> I have a word file on my computer, which records the following sentence: I understand the cruelty of the embankment of a thousand miles destroyed in an anthill.

This sentence was written after my calisthenics final exam this year. At that time, the mood was very desperate, and the whole person's mentality exploded.

I'm actually not very good at physical education, but my body is quite coordinated, and dealing with things like calisthenics is basically a small case, and learning this kind of thing is still relatively simple for me, basically the teacher will do it once in front. Compared to those in the class who are not particularly coordinated, I think I am one of the better calisthenics dancers in my class. So I took it for granted that I could get a good result in the final semester, and even my classmates thought so.

However, there is definitely a turning point at this time. Our final exam is a row of five people, and then we do a whole set of calisthenics together, and the teacher will score it. In fact, my usual standing position is relatively close to the right, that day the teacher moved me to the far left, I can't understand what is going on, I seem to have suddenly panicked, my brain is blank, halfway to jump, I did a wrong action, and then I can't connect, I sent about five or six seconds to adjust the rhythm and finished a whole set of calisthenics in a daze, at that time I only had one idea in my heart:

I'm done. I said to the teacher, "Teacher, I just played a little abnormally, can I do it again?" Teacher: "I can see that you are a little abnormal, what's wrong with you?" "Because I'm usually in the first row, the teacher is always watching when I practice, and I believe the teacher knows what level I have.

That's not going to work, then you have to do it all over again, everybody wants to do it all over again. "But you know that I am really out of tune, I silently nodded to the teacher in my heart, and stood in the back row, and I almost wanted to cry at that time. I can only comfort myself, it's okay, it's not a professional class, it's just over.

In fact, I don't understand why I don't want to do it again, many students who fail calisthenics, the teacher asks them to do it again in the next class, and for me who has a very high score: no, you can't do it again.

Suddenly I understood the despair of a thousand miles of embankment and collapse in an anthill. So I, a person who has never missed a class in the past semester and listened carefully and practiced carefully in every class, finally got a score that was the same as that of a person who couldn't remember a few movements without coming to class.

What can I say? I can't say anything.

Life is unfair, some people come from a good environment, have a reliable rich father, less than others struggle for more than ten years can enjoy a great material life: but at the same time life is also fair, with the relationship of a rich father, since childhood, there is less tempering and tenacity of muscles, compared to growing up in a poor family, there is a lot less willpower and ambition to work hard.

One of the fairest things God has given everyone is that everyone has only 24 hours in a day, and everyone has the same amount of time every day, regardless of wealth or salary. Although everyone has 24 hours a day, their lifestyles are different, some people live their lives to the fullest, while others live their lives on the go, so everyone accumulates experience at different rates, and it is for this reason that there is a gap in the future.

Heroes regardless of their low origin

No matter in which era, there are success stories of children from poor families, if such a successful person was born in a wealthy family since childhood, there is no guarantee that he can still have such achievements, no matter whether the hero is from a low background, because from past experience, there are many successful great people who are born poor.

Ma Yun once said: Life is fair, even if you suffer a lot, as long as you persevere, you will definitely gain, even if you fail in the end, you have gained experience that others do not have. 」

Self-made stories are there in every era

Don't blame the world for being unfair because you haven't succeeded, there is no shortage of self-made successful people in this world, such as Wang Yongqing, the founder of Formosa Plastics, Mr. Shi Zhenrong, the founder of Acer, and so on.

No matter what era it is, there are self-made success stories, although our background environment cannot be changed, but through personal efforts, we can change our own lives.

Create your own life

Lin Huaimin once said: Everyone should create their own style, don't have to catch up with the fashion, go their own way, maybe lonely, you have to pay a lot of price, but it will be worth it. Opportunities are created by yourself, and when others don't give you opportunities, you must be willing to create opportunities for yourself.

The environment will never be as good as we think, pessimistic people are subject to the environment, positive people can adapt to the environment and change themselves, as long as they are willing to work hard, everyone can create their own life.

What do you mean by being unfair?

What about the self-aspect? Are some people born in a good environment, and some people born in a bad environment?

Are some people very wealthy, and some people very poor?

Some people have healthy limbs and extremely high IQ, while some people have mutilated limbs and are not flexible in their minds?

This may indeed be an injustice.

However, this is not only the case with people, but also with nature.

Everyone has a role to play. In this society, in this world, without any kind of people, the world cannot function normally.

What is the standard by which unfairness is measured? The criterion for evaluating fairness is subjective and conjectural, and people from good backgrounds may also feel that other people's parents are more amiable than their own. In fact, people are like this, if they want something, they will naturally want to ask for something better and more.

And so the idea of fairness was developed.

But as people with lower standards of living continue to improve their standard of living, they will still feel that people with a higher standard of living than themselves are higher than them. It will feel unfair.

Maybe there is no fair or unfair distinction in the world?

Born unfair because the world needs to be unfair.

But you can change it, and the high quality of life of others is earned by the efforts of their relatives.

If you work hard, your descendants can live a "fair" life.

So those are unfair because your relatives don't work as hard as other people's relatives ...

When they are alive, in order to survive, everyone has to face the competition of others, and they have to struggle hard to get their own piece of the world. But many times, we try hard and don't get the desired results. Don't be sad, don't cry, don't complain, wipe away your tears, lick your wounds silently, and face the world calmly - because, in this world, there is no absolute fairness!!

Competitive sports are known for their claims of "fairness", but under the unspoken rules, "fairness" is only a relative concept. After all, all rules are made by people and enforced by people. And people are selfish, people's consciousness is different at that time and moment, and everyone has their own likes and dislikes tendencies.

It is impossible to achieve absolute fairness, and it is tantamount to whimsical to achieve absolute fairness.

In life, there are opportunities, ups and downs, joys, and pains, and everything will not be exchanged for fair treatment. The world is so big, there are so many things in the world, others get it, you don't have to fight anymore, it's useless; If you get it, cherish it, and others won't just take it away from you.

It's like love. Everyone has had a dream lover and sweet memories. But the world plays tricks, the dream lover has already become someone else's partner, and your partner must be someone else's dream lover. Let what you lose completely, and cherish what you gain.

It's like football. The level is high and low, the referee has a scale, the level is its own, the referee has a tendency to like and dislike, no matter what happens on the field, don't raise any objections, it's meaningless. After being sent off with a red card, it was more practical to quietly leave the grass and go to the stands to cheer for his teammates.

Don't try to be fair, because when the referee gives a penalty, it won't change it, even if it's ridiculous, that's the rule. Since you are born as a human being, you should abide by the rules of the world, and there are no rules without rules; Without the dignity of the referee on the field, the game will be interrupted and the little meaning that remains. Remember, there's no such thing as absolute fairness.

If the unfairness finds you, then let your heart be fair to accept the unfair "congratulatory gift".

It's like work. The position is limited, but there are many people, and the leader sees that you are pleasing to the eye, so he will use you. If you change the leader, if you don't like it, they will eliminate you, which is very cruel, but very practical.

Do the same amount of work, even more bitter and tired than others, but the salary in hand is a lot less than others, don't be sad, let alone psychological imbalance, you know, there is no fair thing, maybe someone is more pitiful than you.

When I live, I must live happily, and don't let life lose its due meaning because of the rules of the world. Being alive is in itself a contest between fairness and unfairness. If you think about this, you and I will have our own unique features in our lives.

Gates' 10 words for newcomers to the workplace.

1.Life is unfair, get used to it.

2.This world is not about your self-esteem, the world expects you to make achievements first, and then emphasize your feelings.

3.You're not going to leave school with a million-dollar annual salary, you're not going to be a VP with a mobile ** right away, and you're going to have to earn both by hard work.

4.If you think your boss is fierce, you will know when you become the boss that the boss has no job tenure guarantee.

5.Frying a burger at a fast food restaurant isn't cheap, your grandparents had a completely different definition of fried burgers.

6.If you don't achieve anything, it's not your parents' fault, so don't just whine about the mistakes you made and learn from them.

7.Before you were born, your parents weren't as boring as they are now, they became like this because they were busy paying your bills, doing your laundry, and listening to you brag about how amazing you are, so tidy up your room before you save the rainforest that was destroyed by your parents' generation.

8.There may be winners and losers in school, but it's too early in life, and school may keep giving you the opportunity to find the right answers, but that's not the case in real life.

9.Life is not a semester system, there is no winter vacation in life, and no employer is interested in helping you find yourself, so please use your free time to do this.

10.It's not real life on TV, where everyone leaves the café to go to work.

Do you know why it's because your relatives don't have a source.

There are other people's relatives who work hard How can you let yourself give super dao by themselves to the efforts of people who have worked hard for generations

Exceed? So there's nothing fair or unfair in this world, it's just that you don't work hard, and maybe some people can't get much success no matter how hard they try, but your situation won't be too miserable.

What is this.

Revenge complaining, my family system.

The situation is not good, their children are the rich second generation, what are we going to do, let our children become the rich second generation, the opportunity is always reserved for those who are prepared, what's wrong with poor academic performance, I don't study and rubbish, but I can still get more than 10,000 a month now, and it's very easy! It just depends on how you face these, what kind of heart you have to face these, what's wrong with being poor, I'm poor and ambitious! Don't be underestimated by others, come on, I believe in you!

Fairness is not absolute1, everyone has their own feelings, has their own preferences, which does not guarantee that a person will be fair to other versions of anyone. 2. If there is absolute fairness, it is difficult to explain: why there is a difference between barren and fertile land on earth; Why are Africans born with drought and famine, while Americans enjoy civilization and freedom?

In the face of an inherently unfair environment, it is unrealistic to ask for so-called "fairness". 3. Due to people's different backgrounds, different growth environments, and different levels of education, people's understanding of fairness will vary greatly. Fairness is only a relative concept.

For example, in a planned economy, people think that average is fairness, but what is the result? Employees lack motivation, and the company loses money, because the so-called fairness of egalitarianism is the greatest unfairness to employees who are motivated to work. 4. People's ten fingers are not the same length, how can they demand absolute fairness in dealing with people in a complex society.

It's this kind of unfairness that makes everyone struggle Different people have different ways to go back, isn't there a saying that God closes this door for you and opens another door for you. What others have you don't have, what you have that others don't, don't stare at a small place to make yourself unhappy, it's not necessary, just relax and go your own way