How to treat others the way they do?

To treat others the way they want to be treated means to treat that person himself in the way of others.

Source: Chapter 13 of Song Zhu Xi's "Notes on the Mean": "Therefore, the gentleman governs people, that is, he governs others in his own way." ”

Vernacular translation: Therefore, the punishment of a gentleman to a person is to use that person's methods, and in turn to punish that person himself.

Usage: as a predicate, object.

Example sentence: He is so bad, we must treat him the way of others, and treat him as a person.

A tooth for a tooth, an eye for an eye.

Depending on the situation, there are some people who do not deserve to be like him.

If you use the way of others to govern their bodies, pull down their own level, it is better to learn more things to improve themselves, life in the world, anyone may meet, if big and small things have to be treated in the way of others, life is not very tiring.

True love in life.

We just need a person I really love and someone who really loves me, and together, our life is complete. The most important thing in a person's life is not fame and fortune, not a rich life, but to get true love.

There is a person who loves all that you have, your sufferings and your joys, your tears and your smiles, every inch of your skin, every clean or dirty part of your body. True love is the greatest treasure and the only true treasure. What a regrettable life it is if you have never had the true love of someone for you after you have lived!

If this person has more contact with me in his life and does things that do not affect me much, I generally choose to ignore them, but I will feel unhappy, and if he is so kind to others, he may think that he is right. At this time, I think I can treat others in the way of others, and he has nothing to say, who made him do this to others, but if the behavior is very bad, I think we should try to stay away from this person, or solve the problem in a reasonable way.

It is not possible to govern others in the way of others, but this society is not as beautiful as imagined, you can't be blindly kind, people are good and are bullied, horses are good and ridden, you have to learn to refuse. You can combine different streams, but you also have to learn to be flexible, just don't touch the bottom line!

What kind of people should be divided, what kind of things, if it is to treat the enemy, you can't be merciful, if it is a small friction between strangers, it is better to turn big things into small things, and small things into nothing, because after all, it is better to settle grievances than to settle them.

In a similar scene, if you think about how that person treated you at that time, don't hesitate, follow his steps at that time, you can do whatever he wants to mess with you unreasonably, you can embarrass him as much as he embarrasses you, and you have to use the methods of the wicked to deal with the wicked, because society pursues the law of the jungle, which is very cruel, and you will find that it is really enjoyable to do so.

I don't think I should think about treating others in the way of others, and now I think, when is the time to repay the wrongs, and I have to get by, and I will not get the greatest happiness if I repay myself. It should be said to be forgiving and forgiving. Therefore, we should not treat people the way they should be treated, and there is a good solution to what happens.

Purely from the point of view of reason, it is possible, and it is necessary to treat others the way they do. But after thinking about it, you have to be forgiving and forgiving, otherwise how can there be big things and small things? When is the time for retribution, too much thinking will bring a lot of troubles to your life, isn't it?

I think it depends. If it is an enemy or an opponent, there is no need to do it, so at this time, you should still treat others in the way of others; But if it's just a meeting in the water, why let yourself be caught in intrigue? At this time, I don't think we should treat others the way they do.

Divide people, divide things, divide whom, use a standard to measure the whole itself is unreliable, people's hearts are basically in the left chest, a small number of mirror people on the right, but no one's heart is in the middle of the chest, what does it mean? People's hearts are biased, and partiality is normal, especially in interpersonal relationships.

Recently, I have found that it is too difficult to explain the right solution to people who don't understand the reason, can I try to answer them with their logic, but can I make them understand that it will not work? Therefore, I think that when necessary, we should still treat others in the same way as others.

In fact, this problem has its two sides, nine China and the United States now ** friction problem, we are used to treat others in the way of others, otherwise it will fuel their arrogance, as far as personal life is concerned, small things you take a step back, I take a step back, everyone takes a step back, many things will be solved, nine major things should be judged by laws and regulations? Don't be presumptuous and push yourself into the abyss, in general, you still have to look at things rationally.

I think it should be, I am a person who does not rub sand in his eyes, and if anyone causes me harm, I will treat them the way they do!

If there are repeated words, you can use the way of others to govern others, after all, no one is at fault, but don't treat him as capital.

Look at the character of this man! If you are not a good person, you must treat others in the way of others.

Don't, don't do to others what you don't want to do to yourself, tolerate each other, take a step back and open the sky.

It shouldn't be because we can know that it's fate.

I don't think that's necessarily true, because some things aren't just what you see.

In real life, everyone has their own life experience, and everyone has a different way of dealing with people. When you want to treat others the way they do, you may not know what the other person has been through.

Everyone's ability is different, and if you want to treat others the way they want to be treated, you may not have this ability. A few years ago, when I was working in a certain company, there was a colleague who was particularly domineering, and he arranged something that others had to do, otherwise he would yell and roar, and the leader was on his side every time, so everyone was a little miserable.

But if you want to take him in this way, then I'm sorry, you really don't have that ability. In the whole department, he is the one with the strongest business ability, and the most important thing is that he is still a relative of the boss, and the business of the entire department needs him to support, and the boss is also very optimistic about him, and working in this department is just a transition.

In fact, there are many such things in life, when you feel that you have been wronged and want to treat others in the same way, you do not have the ability.

It may not be right to treat others the way they would be, and some things are not as simple as you seem. In real life, we can always see the surface of things, and we always believe in our own eyes, but what we see in life may not be believing. There are a lot of things that are hidden behind the scenes, not something we can see or speculate.

As with many sensitive political issues in China, all we can see is the appearance, and behind the scenes, there are many games, and simply treating others as they would like not bring real peace to the country, and may make things more complicated.

As an ordinary person, I don't think it's necessary for us to think about this kind of problem, live our lives in a down-to-earth manner, and try not to let ourselves be wronged, which is enough.

Sometimes there is a right and wrong in life, as long as you have a clear conscience.

This statement is not necessarily true. In many cases, it is not feasible, and when others hurt you, it is most correct to protect yourself.

That's right, because it can also make others feel the hardships they have endured, and let them feel it too.

Not true, to give an ugly example, if you are bitten by a dog, do you want to bite back? And none of us want to be the kind of person we hate.

Generosity in no way means lowering one's self-esteem and putting up with one's anger.

People have obviously violated you more than once, and they are still forbearance for peace, and they can only indulge the other party's unscrupulousness. A tooth for a tooth, an eye for an eye; Only by treating others in their own way, and letting the other party experience the same displeasure, can they be jealous. If you respect your feelings, others will respect your feelings.

The kindness of others must not be disappointed. We must not get used to other people's faults. Don't tolerate small things, which is also the basis of a good relationship.

Don't be afraid to be alone, it's really cool to be alone and will attract people who really appreciate each other. Don't be afraid to do things yourself, your heart is strong, you can't do anything, you can do everything well, and when necessary, there will always be someone to lend a hand.

Only if you are not afraid, can you not panic. The heart has no pleasing meaning, the face is not flattering, not humble, not overbearing, not afraid, not panicked, crisp, neat, is the current state that should be achieved.

People learn to grow in difficult situations. It feels like I've grown up again, and I'm one step closer to the person I like, so good!

I did it today, and it's cool. It's just a little embarrassing, but when I think about people doing this to me, it's not embarrassing, so why should I be embarrassed? I'm sure she won't dare to do it again, at least in the future.

In other aspects, there are also similar things that have seriously affected the mood of others due to their own weakness. In the future, it won't!

Ms. Li of Qing accidentally fell into online dating** and was defrauded of more than one million yuan one after another.

However, what followed was unexpected. The fraud suspect who is overseas is also known as having real feelings.

Under the guidance of the police, Ms. Li took the plan and staged an anti-fraud drama, successfully guided ** to return to China, and finally ** fell into the legal net.

This is really the way of others, and the body of others! Online dating itself is unreliable, Ms. Li was deceived by her true feelings, and she was arrested if she moved her true feelings.

I think the most powerful is still our people's police, what do you say! "Thank you so much

helped me recover the money I was defrauded".

Took the defrauded money from the anti-fraud police

Mr. Qiu Qianfeng said gratefully to the police.

At about 11 a.m. on January 5, 2022, a man claiming to be a customer service of Ant Financial contacted Mr. Qiu, saying that Mr. Qiu could apply for a refund for the alcohol purchased on the shopping app, because Mr. Qiu used Alipay to purchase goods, so he needed to open a refund channel on Alipay to get a refund. Hearing that there was a threefold refund, Mr. Qiu was moved, so he listened to **'s words and made several transfers to **. In the end, Mr. Qiu found that the transfer amount was getting larger and larger, but the other party still asked to continue the transfer on the grounds that the operation was wrong or the operation was overtimed.

At this time, Mr. Ji Peiqiu realized that he had been deceived, so he immediately went to the anti-fraud center of the county public security bureau to report the case.

After receiving the report, the police of the anti-fraud center quickly carried out corresponding work, carried out emergency stop payment, and finally successfully stopped the payment and froze part of the amount that Mr. Qiu was defrauded. After several months of work, on May 8, the anti-fraud police returned the recovered 55,050 yuan to Mr. Qiu. When he got back the defrauded money, Mr. Qiu was both moved and remorseful, and he said with emotion

I always felt that fraud was far away from me before, but this time I was deceived and I realized that I might have entered the trap of ** if I was a little careless, and I will actively support anti-fraud propaganda in the future to help people around me improve their awareness of anti-fraud,! On May 12, in order to thank the police for recovering their losses, Mr. Qiu made a special trip to the Ningdu County Anti-Fraud Center and sent a pennant printed with "Efficient and good police for the people, and the loss is warm" to the police.

The police are on alert.

3. Once the other party asks you to operate a loan product such as transfer or borrowing, don't pay attention to it.

4. Keep the verification code and all kinds of passwords carefully, and do not click on the refund link sent by the other party.

5. Don't panic when encountering fraud, call the police as soon as possible, and call the police in time can help the Minhui Feng police recover the defrauded funds and avoid greater losses.