I can t be happy, my job is gone, my girlfriend is gone, and I have to be cured

Learn to be happy.

Knowing how to be happy and being good at being happy is really a kind of wisdom, a kind of bearing, and a kind of courage.

If everyone understands the following eight secrets, they will naturally have a happy life.

1 No one is perfect. You must admit your weaknesses and be open to advice, help and advice, as long as you have the courage to admit that you need help, success is assured.

2 Learn from setbacks. The attitude in the face of failure or setbacks should be to learn from them and continue to work hard.

3 Life must be honest and righteous in order to attract good friends to help you. The famous psychologist Bardas was once asked, "What are the most basic and deepest psychological needs of human beings today?"

"Humanity needs love," she said. But this is not limited to love between men and women, from the point of view of psychologists, good people are always happy.

4 Able to bend and stretch. In good times and bad, our attitude towards life should be calm. If you make a mistake, correct it immediately.

5. Be zealous to help others. If you want to be truly happy and respected, you should help others and have a good relationship with others.

6 To be nice to you, you must first be nice to others. When you are treated unequally, you must forgive and empathize with others.

7. Hold fast to your faith. When you do anything, you have to stick to your personal beliefs.

8 Happiness is always in the heart. As long as you keep your mind open, it is difficult to give up happiness without you.

Dude, this is just a test of God.

You will be able to overcome these difficulties by persevering at home.

You'd better get a job now.

The main problem now is to settle your mortgage and food problems.

It's just a matter of time or time, hold on!! You will succeed.

Don't give up, have faith

Life is always going to be a bit stormy

If your girlfriend is gone, find another job, and if you don't have a job, find another one

Believe in yourself The road is always there

Don't be high or low, find a relatively satisfactory job first. Few people can find an easy, enjoyable, and lucrative job. Put your demands down and everything will be solved!

Brother, life is like this, how many successful people are not unambitious in life, but they are not famous in the future, if you don't give up, as long as there is a glimmer of hope, you have to work hard, if you even give up yourself, then who can help you?

Dude, take pity on each other! I believe it's worse than you, I have tuberculosis, hey......The mood is completely terrible!

Self-reliance will win love! Those who complain about idleness all day long will never be able to get a wife for the rest of their lives!

You're in a terrible state right now!! You should find a breakthrough point to break out of this decadent state of life. Work is the material basis for you to meet other needs, don't think about your girlfriend without a job, and there is no money for treatment.

Therefore, you have to be ruthless, work hard, and use your expertise to do a job. 30 is already the year of establishment, and he is about to know the destiny of heaven, and if he doesn't struggle now, he will be like that for the rest of his life.

Only when you are cured of your illness can you go to work normally, get married, and start a family.

Seeing a doctor is the most important, you can only think about something else when you are sick, don't think about it too much, you are not called gnawing the old when you are sick, your family should take care of each other when you are sick, and you can take care of your parents when you are sick.

What kind of illness can't move, can't speak, can do what you can, big money can't make small money, isn't a piece of money also money, work hard, everything will have the ego, the ego, the superego.

Hello, looking for a job that you can work from home.

Exercise, interest guides you, and you live well.

You don't have to deny yourself if it's okay!!

It feels funny and distressed hahaha.

Why do you want to talk to you if it's not suitable? It's probably a time-killing option, or a backup option.

Here I'm going to explain why I call it a "backup option", which means that although I don't need it, I have a sense of security by putting this choice here, because once I need it, he will definitely have a response, so it's called a backup option.

Although it sounds like a spare tire.

Let's compare the scene again, you are going to dye your hair, but you don't know how much it is, you brought 500, which should be enough according to reason, but you will bring 300 more, so you bring a little more in case you don't have enough money to become embarrassed. But in reality, it won't be used that much in the end.

Because the spare tire also takes time to develop, if she wants to find it, it is better to find someone who knows and knows better.

If you're really a spare tire, and you're replaced, she'll have to spend time developing another spare tire. She's too lazy to do this, so it's better to consume you. You are the chosen child. There is no backup option.

It seems that you are the one who takes the initiative, and you also like her, more than she likes you.

Many people enjoy this kind of getting along, because some people are afraid to take the initiative, afraid that they will lose if they take the initiative, so they would rather wait and see if the other party can insist on such an initiative, or not insist on it for a while.

I also like this, I will observe for a while, and I will definitely be a little more active in this process, because if I really like you, of course I have to show initiative, otherwise you think that I hate you by being so cold, and sooner or later you will run away from me and don't want to stick to it.

One day after a long time, when I see you and treat me as usual, then I will start to give, even more than you originally paid.

To sum up this kind of person, I like to wait and see first, and I will be serious when I find that I can really go down with you.

But I feel that she is different from me, because in your description, she doesn't have any active behavior, just passively accepts you.

That's why are you still insisting?

Is she the only one in the world? Wouldn't the earth turn without her?

But there is one point, the quality of people who use people as spare tires is so scummy.

You can have a face-to-face long talk with her, and if it can't be resolved, you can consider breaking up.

I can't understand why you can't be happy if she doesn't contact you. If your happiness is pinned on others, there is a high chance that such a person will have a spare tire.

Your happiness is always in your heart, and it does not depend on the joys and sorrows of external life. If it can be transferred, then it is not happiness and true love. True love has no opposites.

A beggar will be very happy when he eats steamed buns. It doesn't matter what you look out like, what matters is your heart. You are the happiest in your present life.

When a girl doesn't need you, she must not love you anymore. This need includes a lot of material, emotional, companionship. She may not be using you as a spare tire, she may just not love you anymore, but there is still a solution. If you think what I said makes sense, take it first, and then talk to you.

Let's talk about the two of you, talk about your current state with your girlfriend, or maybe you're tired from work right now, or you're tired

It is normal for two people to inevitably have a little contradiction when they are together, and they will not be the same forest bird if they don't fight.

Lonely at heart because the two of you are not communicating. Have you ever looked for a reason to quarrel?

Your girlfriend is giving you too little freedom.

Some people fail in love and ask, "What kind of lover is suitable for me?" The question is not what kind of lover is suitable for you, the focus is on whether you have the ability to manage love? If I make you the president of a public company, do you have what it takes to run it well?

Don't say "this job is not for me" if you are not capable enough, but you can't look down on other jobs, you really laugh off your big teeth!

I have a boyfriend, introverted and wooden, because the two have different educational backgrounds and different experiences, many can't talk together, and having a boyfriend is the same as not, and now I am slowly learning a lot of things to solve and endure by myself.

Try to reconcile, provided that you love her in the case,,, if you can't, break up decisively, and don't delay each other.

Find out why you are arguing and solve it slowly, if you keep doing this, it will not be good for you.

You're really irresponsible, and since you're together, you have to be okay, what did you think when you were together, and if that's the case, you two just break up. Don't hurt the woman.

You can try, distance produces beauty, leave your girlfriend for a while first, and let the two of you calm down first.

That's really not finding the right person, if it's the right person, you won't quarrel often, and people who love each other are happy together.

You've already thought so, just break up now! Don't waste each other's time.

It's the same for me, it's better for the two of you to be separated for a while.

Let's break up! Such a development will not be happy for your future.

Since you are unhappy and break up, there is no need to entangle each other.

Try to communicate, but if you can't do it, you can only part ways!

Then break up. Strong twisted melons are not sweet,

Find a comrade! There is a common language.

Settle the problem between you

Can't the two of them talk together?

Normal, relax the heart, and look down.

It feels like I'm basically going to finish playing.

Asking questions is too direct. Plus you didn't look at it. So that the other party feels what she said. You don't care at all ... Of course it is ... I'm not happy.

Remind you to wipe your sweat and take a shower frequently. Don't be careful!

This question, the key is how much money was spent, two years, you slept with someone's wife for two years, and you still raised money.

The best thing to do: Separate immediately, take your personal belongings, and get back whatever you can for her.

As for the money spent, you don't want to get it back.

In the process of this relationship, although the other party deceived you, you belong to a third party, so it's better to get out as soon as possible and find a new one.

The money lost will be earned later.

Let it go! Such a person is not worth your effort, just spend it! I want to open a point.

You're a male junior, hurry up and break up.

If you don't take it seriously, you're going to hurt yourself.

With this mentality, it's no wonder that you can't find a girlfriend.

It's still a career, and love is not wrong.