What is the purpose of female self deception? Psychology professionals, please come in! 100

Psychoanalytic is an escape from pain, thus suppressing memories. Cover yourself up with lies.

I wish he could care more about her.

The other side of love is hate.

Love is deep, hate is deep.

This sentence upstairs is good, it can be called a classic.

The other side of love is hate.

Love is deep, hate is deep.

Such a woman is not worth it.

The phenomenon of self-deception.

It refers to the time when you are unwilling to accept reality.

Psychology suggests the opposite.

In life, we are actually always deceiving ourselves. And we always do it consciously or unconsciously. In fact, self-deception is a protective mechanism of the human psyche that can help us avoid unnecessary stress.

If you tell yourself to start running on Monday or to start a diet tomorrow, you're probably fooling yourself. Because if we're really going to do something or change something, then we're going to do it immediately.

Thinking about postponing changes from a psychological perspective means understanding that there is a conflict between the need for these changes and your personal wishes. So as long as you know what needs to be done, but you don't have the slightest desire, the things you put off doing will not come to fruition. Because, what you put off until tomorrow, will be postponed until tomorrow, and the cycle continues.

This is only clear through personal experience. Many people will tell themselves a reasonable reason to deceive themselves and cover up their crimes or vices.

No one will answer you, so I'll say a few words. I studied psychology, but not in counseling. First, if you are not lying, then the man is normal, his behavior is clear and logical, it can be explained, and the woman is indeed problematic.

Second, self-deception is a representational phenomenon, which has nothing to do with gender. Your situation is very vague, there is only a phenomenon, no background, it is difficult to judge. But one thing is certain that there is something wrong with her mental condition, some hysteria, delusions, this is not clear-sighted, it is recommended that you must persuade her family to take her to a professionally qualified mental health care institution to **, or go directly to the psychiatric department of the hospital.

It's not that you have to go to the psychiatrist only if you have mental illness, this kind of depression is early**) If she develops moderate depression, it will be difficult for you to treat it.

You don't know very clearly, did these things happen (what the boyfriend did in the woman's words)?

She just fought back hysterically, or was she forced! Forgive!

Because she wanted him to do what she said. But she knew it wasn't possible. There is only self-soothing.

Actually, it's nothing, it's serious, it's serious in other people's imaginations, and it only appears in the mind. And hers, said out.

Just tell her to stop talking nonsense.

They all say that they are justified.

Just because she's taken medicine before doesn't mean she has a problem now.

Whether there is a problem or not, only she knows.

Since they are not going to be together, there is no need to denigrate each other.

It's good to gather and disperse. If a man really carves words on his hand, I think there is indeed a problem with his character, and it is too naïve to hurt himself to prove love.

A slap doesn't make a sound, and there are problems on both sides.

If she has a psychological problem, obsessive-compulsive disorder or fantasy disorder, take her to the hospital for a check-up.

Everyone will protect themselves. You too.

If she wasn't framed, it was because she had analyzed it left and right and made up her mind to break up with him, or that she was completely dead, so she no longer cared about anything, and she wouldn't want to save face for her anymore. Once people are in love, sometimes they will become very incredible, maybe your friend is very upright, but because she loves her too much, the things she said are possible, and the pain is estimated to be only known to her. Loving someone requires care and wisdom, and if there is no suitable way for the other person to accept their love happily, love itself is a kind of harm.

No matter what the reason, ** exploded, threatened her with a knife, and engraved her name on his own arm, threatening her with death, giving her family a feeling that they couldn't be trusted.

If she framed him, it was because she still loved him, but she wanted all kinds of reasons not to love him, forget her, and at the same time do her best to shirk her responsibilities and maintain the face and dignity of herself and her family. Marriage is very realistic, you choose a person, which means that you choose her family and everything around her, and now her boyfriend has pushed her to choose between her boyfriend and her family, in the face of 20 years of parenting, a little filial piety will choose parents, because the wound of love is not visible to outsiders, and the boyfriend can choose again, but his parents are just one. Moreover, face in the countryside is the biggest royal law, and at this time she has no choice.

She's actually very pitiful.

There is also a situation where they misunderstand each other too much, she is too sensitive, she exaggerates the truth in her heart, and she is really afraid.

I'll send a word, distance produces beauty, what they need most now is calm, especially men, who want to be quick but not reach, to restrain themselves to pay attention to the method and timing, especially to understand that what they think is a small mistake is actually a very serious thing, that is a tradition left over thousands of years.

If the ending is irretrievable, please bless each other and make it easy for each other on the road, the memory should be eternal, time will tell everything will work miracles.

The girl has psychological problems, and all she does is to make others think that she abandoned her boyfriend. It's not that the boyfriend is sorry for him. Satisfy her own self-esteem and save face.

Protect herself, she thinks that doing this hurts him, including the person she thinks is going to hurt her, a little lesson so that others can see that she is not casually bullied by others, a sign of unconfidence, many people will have just reflect the size.

There is indeed a mental problem.,Similar mentality to cat abuse.,Terrible.,Fortunately, it's not very serious now.,It's recommended to go to the hospital to see.。

This woman just wants to satisfy her vanity and make everyone feel how hot she is! But it seems to be a bit too much!

This woman's character is problematic and not right.

Love is not a mental process of self-deception Love is a simple thing to say is simple and complex Love is fruitless to pay alone If you want to forget this relationship, it is actually to start a new relationship People are passing day by day, it is better to be happy every day.

This is the normal psychology of people! Don't be emotional!

People have been deceiving themselves for a long time.

When you look at your face in the mirror, you always feel that it is more than 7 points, and when others look at it, it always feels like 6 points, don't be too surprised, you are right, but when you look at your own face, you will automatically be in the brain"beautify", this is a sensory deception that everyone has. (You're ugly but you're always deceiving yourself, and I don't say anything kind).

Sensory deception is more like software optimization, which is not obvious and difficult to realize, and what is really more in line with the meaning of the subject is cognitive deception.

In fact, everyone's perception of the world is different, which is often the source of many conflicts. Because of people's social and good communication skills, coupled with the constraints of the system, everyone seems to be the same, but some people with extreme cognition will obviously show different behaviors from ordinary people, such as autistic children and mentally ill people.

The real world is like this, the world we see is like that, the world that others tell us is different, and the final cognitive world is a combination of the above three, so it can also be said that everyone's cognition is not 100% restored to the world, that is to say, cognition is also slightly deceiving ordinary people.

Why should man deceive himself.