There is a bar spirit in the dormitory, what will you do?

Two methods. The first is to ignore him completely, and you should not hear him when he is barried. But as a result, he may speak more vigorously and you will be more upset.

This method is best used to make him hear the contempt and disregard for him in front of him, and after that, you can ignore him in all aspects of your life. If he is a person of normal intelligence, he should find it boring to talk to himself, and he will not beep in the future.

Second, when he scolds you, you scold him to death, and when necessary, you move your hand once, so that he is afraid when he sees you, he shudders, and he doesn't dare to complain to you at all.

The second type of test is effective. Because most of the bars are not very easy to use, the first one is useless.

Personally, I think that when encountering this kind of bar spirit, we must first overwhelm him in momentum, and my expression is disgusted and disdainful; secondly, immediately change the topic and let him be bored with himself; In this case, if he still stalks and holds on, he will finally send him a sentence: disdain to reason with you, and make you stupid to death. I'm sure he'll be gray.

I have the same roommate, and there is nothing he doesn't have. At first, I chose to go back to the bar, but later, I found that I couldn't say anything to him, so simply, I just followed him, I agreed with what he said, what I said, he put forward his opinion, I immediately said, yes, yes, what you said is right. In this way, he will slowly feel bored, because he likes Kong, so let's ignore him.

What else is he doing?

Gongjing is actually a person who likes to "pick bones in eggs", and he doesn't have the real ability, so he tries his best to make some evil ways. Nowadays, there are not a few Internet trolls, that is, people name them "Internet trolls". In their minds, there is no truth in this world, and doing good deeds can be said to be hypocritical.

In the eyes of the bartenders, society is dark, there is no positive energy at all, only he is always right, the god of justice.

Gongjing, no matter what others say, he refutes it first, picks it first, and then speaks, opposes it for the sake of opposition, and reveals his perceived superiority by picking on others, plus "I am the only one who thinks ......The blessing of the sentence pattern can basically successfully provoke everyone. But please pay attention to the difference between "expressing different opinions" and "raising the bar", this kind of unfamiliar, unintelligible, untimely and often irrelevant to the purpose of your expression of the reply, is collectively called the lifting of the bar, and this kind of person who always raises the bar we call the bar essence.

with"Humor"mechanism to resolve the embarrassment, first let the bar spirit have nothing to say. Or it's a reasonable use"Isolation"mechanism, put aside the remarks of the bar, and in some cases, it is not a good way to block them.

In real life, there are also a lot of people who are doing this, and they are spraying whatever they see. This kind of foolish insect is very destructive, endangers society, and affects stability and unity, but people are helpless against it, so they can only laugh and laugh, and do nothing about it.

The common usage is to send him a sentence "Then you are really great", our trick is called "to overcome the bar with softness"! The best way to do this is to understand your psychological defense mechanism and then use it to the advantage that the being that hurts you will in turn help you.

Understanding your own defense patterns is a way to tap your subconscious, and understanding the defense mechanisms you often use can help you conduct self-examination and choose more appropriate defense mechanisms in your daily life.

In April, someone published a cartoon on the Internet that ridiculed the "bar spirit" because the "bar spirit" did not deserve to have a mother. This led to the popularity of the term "bar essence".

It's a headache to talk to this roommate, no matter what you say, he has to say a word to you, and communicating with him is as difficult as climbing to the sky.

Very bad experience. Once two people open the bar, it is very easy to get angry, which will affect the relationship between the two people a little.

There is a "bar spirit" roommate, Xiaosong will feel that life is very sad, because what he says, the roommate will stand up to himself, Jue Maqiao Xin deliberately can't get along with himself, so there will be a lot of contradictions in general.

Very tired, such people always think in their own way, and do not listen to other people's opinions.