Why so many unmarried people living together

Although I am a girl, I still have to say that in fact, it is not necessarily a woman who hurts unmarried cohabitation. Both men and women have paid their feelings in it, and it's hard to say whether it's sick or not, and many of my friends have gone to live with their boyfriends, of course, some are happy and some are unhappy.

So I became a confidant sister, and they would tell me about some of their emotional problems.

The ones I have come into contact with make me feel that once a man lives with you, then he may feel that it doesn't matter if he doesn't get married, unless he is in his 30s, and his family is urging, and then he also wants children, he will think of getting married, and they prefer a life without responsibility.

There are also girls who play around, and these people are disrespectful to themselves, needless to say.

In terms of feelings, I feel that if it is decided by both parties, then it cannot be said to be pathological, and it is difficult to say who owes whom. In terms of physiology, I also saw that there was a saying "need" upstairs, so I still think that it is good for both men and women to clean themselves, especially, I want to say, China is still relatively traditional, if the object of marriage in the future is not the other party, then it will become a trouble in the future, very troublesome, imagine for yourself.

Moreover, opposition to unmarried cohabitation is an inevitable product of social development, and it is not believed that such behaviour will have any positive impact on social development.

I'm 20 years old, and I'm not old, but some people think I'm traditional, some people think I'm old-fashioned, and maybe not many people approve of my ideas. But I still want to say that living together unmarried is not beautiful, if you like to get married, don't hurt yourself, don't let your family worry.

When you are alone and have no relatives and good friends to be with, you will feel lonely, lonely, and empty. If two people are together, talking and laughing, and some quarreling, men want to dominate more and more. Unfair too.

Because women also have needs. Perhaps physiological needs. Perhaps the economy needs.

It's very lonely to be alone, both men and women, and as you get older, you can't live with your parents for a long time, and it's normal to have someone to spend time with.

As people grow up and leave home, some people are very uncomfortable with living alone, and the two of them go back together to warm each other.

I don't want to say it, but the need for sex between men and women is also one of them.

There are many reasons for cohabitation, and everyone is different, and it cannot be generalized.

Although premarital sex is not supported, it is objectively not against it, and it has nothing to do with morality, it is the development of society.

First of all, I think cohabitation is a more serious matter, and couples should think carefully before deciding to live together, and it is recommended not to live together in the early stage of the relationship. If you still decide to live together after you have thought about it, be sure to tell your parents first. You can choose to talk to your parents tentatively, talk about the cases of friends living together, and listen to your parents' views on living together as a couple.

If your parents agree with the cohabitation of a couple, then congratulations, you can spend a lot less words, but if your parents disagree with this matter, don't quarrel with your parents, after all, they are the people who love you the most in the world, you can slowly infiltrate your boyfriend's thoughtfulness and good things for you in your daily life, and slowly let your parents accept him, and then tell your parents about it when the time is right.

Why couples love to live together.

1. I want to be tired of being with each other.

In modern society, men and women are basically unmarried and live together in love, because women want to be tired of being with men, and if men do not agree to live together, women will be sad, or they have to live together, because women care very much about living with men. In this way, she can easily cook for men and can have more time with men.

2. Be open-minded.

In modern society, men and women are basically unmarried and live together in love, because they are open-minded, feel that they are adults, and their parents have no right to interfere with their freedom, and feel that there is nothing wrong with cohabitation, and two people are in a romantic relationship, and both men and women have the right to decide whether to live with each other. In fact, these fully illustrate a common phenomenon in this era, strict family education is also one thing, but it is not against the trend of this era, so if two people have no opinion on this, they will naturally live together.

3. I want to form a family with each other.

In modern society, men and women are basically unmarried and live together, because they want to form a family with each other, and feel that living with each other is more free than living with their parents, or for other reasons, they are rushing to get married, so it doesn't matter sooner or later, and it can make each other live a more comfortable and pleasant life, so men and women naturally come together.

4. It is very suitable to live together in a shared house.

In modern society, men and women are basically unmarried and live together in love, because they feel that it is very suitable to live together in a shared house, after all, they are already in love, for example, men want to go to work and rent a house, and women also think the same, so they feel that it is more convenient to take care of each other together, so two people will reach a consensus in this regard, so as to live together. Therefore, why men and women in love in society are basically "unmarried and cohabiting" is actually inseparable from the progress of modern society and people's ideological concepts, and it also depends on personal choice and self-restraint.

First of all, I think living together out of wedlock is a very serious matter.

Couples should think carefully before deciding to live together, and it is recommended not to live together in the early stages of a relationship before two people know each other's temperament.

First, if you live with a man too early, your future in-laws are likely to despise you.

Second, after living together, what you face is not the romance of love, but a bunch of firewood, rice, oil and salt, you live with a boy inevitably have to wash clothes, cook and clean the house, you let him experience married life for free in advance, so what about another two years?

The third case is even worse, which is an unplanned pregnancy after cohabitation.

In the event of such a result, it will be more difficult to get out of the way.

If the man is a responsible person, maybe it's better, if the man is irresponsible, then the woman will be completely passive, and then talk about marriage at this time, the meaning is completely different.

It is difficult for parents in traditional families to accept couples living together too early.

If you tell them when the relationship is still unstable, the change in the relationship after Chunhong will only add trouble to the parents.

In the minds of parents, cohabitation may mean that two people will marry in the future.

In the lives of contemporary young people, cohabitation may not be so burdensome.

This gap in awareness not only affects the communication between parents and children, but also affects the emotional direction between couples.

Cohabitation is really something that needs to be carefully considered, and when the relationship is hot, it is easy for two people to make some impulsive decisions.

During the period of emotional stability, it is recommended to consider cohabitation, at this time, when two people get to know each other to a certain extent, it will be easier to solve the troubles caused by different living habits.

When you decide to live together after careful consideration, be sure to tell your parents first.

You can choose to have a tentative chat with your parents, talk about examples of your friends who live together, and listen to your parents' views on cohabiting couples.

If your parents agree to live together, congratulations, you can save a lot of money, but if your parents don't agree to it, don't quarrel with your parents.

After all, they are the people who love you the most in this world, and you can slowly infiltrate your boyfriend's thoughtfulness and kindness into your daily life, slowly let your parents accept him, and tell your parents about it when the time is right.

I think it's necessary, but there are a few things that have already been met before cohabitation.

1. Both parties are engaged or both parents have met and agreed to this family business.

2. Both parties have decided to get married and have planned a time.

3. It's okay to live together for three months, don't take too long.

4. Don't let both parents know about cohabitation.

I know that some people will doubt the above points, and I will also say that I am still so conservative and feudal in the 21st century, so let's take a look at the root of this problem, why live together, cohabitation is to understand each other's living habits at a deeper level, three months is enough time to understand whether the various habits of TA are acceptable to you, I have seen a divorce case before, because the way the two parties squeeze toothpaste is different, one squeezes from above, one from below, and then neither party will let it, and it will be divorced.

This is just one of the things, other things like sleepwalking, not brushing your teeth and washing your feet before going to bed, smoking in the room, often being called out by friends to drink and coming back unconscious and incapable of doing anything other than vomiting, are you okay with all of this?

Marriage is made up of trivial things, compared to a person's life, married life is more down-to-earth, and cohabitation is to pave the way for future married life, not to let people only enjoy the pleasure of possessing each other without responsibility, are not protected by the law, or do less.

Finally, don't let the parents of both sides know that the matter of cohabitation, no matter what, is still more unfriendly to girls, not to mention that it perishes early in the morning, girls are always the disadvantaged group, China's thousands of years of traditions and habits, not overnight, nor can it be changed in time to the 21st century, and the preference for sons over daughters cannot be changed, let alone others.