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If the sister-in-law is wronged in her mother-in-law's house, it depends on the sister-in-law's own thoughts, if she still wants to live it, then she will have to support her mother's family and teach them lessons, don't think that the sister-in-law can be bullied casually. If the sister-in-law wants to divorce, then the mother's family must fully support the sister-in-law and be a strong backing for the sister-in-law.

You should choose divorce, because there is no bride price, and the in-laws don't pay attention to the sister-in-law at all and won't be good to her, so stay away from such a family as soon as possible.

If her husband doesn't support and agree with the two of them moving out, then I don't think there is any need for this marriage to continue, and she should stand up bravely and start a new life with a divorce.

Summary. My dear, if your sister-in-law is kicked out of the house by your mother-in-law, if your mother-in-law and father-in-law are not willing to attend the wedding, and their son is willing to marry her sister-in-law, you can suggest that they get a marriage certificate and go out on a trip to get married.

My dear, my sister-in-law was kicked out of the house by my mother-in-law, if my mother-in-law and father-in-law are not willing to attend the wedding, and their son is willing to marry my sister-in-law, you can suggest or feast them to get a marriage certificate and go out on a trip to get married.

You can also do the work of your parents-in-law, let them participate in the sister-in-law's trapped wedding mold bridge activities or ignore the parents of both parties in the wedding bend, and what should be done in other links.

Why did the mother-in-law kick her sister-in-law out of the house?

My mother-in-law asked me to take out the bride price for my sister-in-law as a dowry, should I take it out at this time?

First: falling in love is a matter between two people, and marriage involves things between two families, especially after marriage, you will encounter big or small problems, which may be very different from the problems encountered when you fall in love, especially after the hunger of marriage, you will face a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law problem, like the subject mentioned that the mother-in-law asked the daughter-in-law to take out her own bride price to the sister-in-law as a dowry, this kind of behavior is inappropriate, although two people get married and the mother-in-law is a mess before the family, but in essence, the bride price also belongs to themselves, The right to control the bride price also belongs to you, if you don't want to take it out at this time, you can directly refuse, from another point of view, the mother-in-law also has no right to command you to do something.

Second: And even if you get married, the small life between your husband and wife still has to be managed and planned by yourself, your mother-in-law is only an assistant in life, but she does not have the corresponding dominance and command, especially the sister-in-law should be your mother-in-law and your father-in-law to bear her dowry and handle your sister-in-law's wedding, and it should not be you to deal with it, which itself is that your mother-in-law did not put herself in the right position, nor did she understand the role she played, which belongs to a kind of moral kidnapping, When you encounter this kind of thing, you should decisively refuse, after all, your mother-in-law may also be testing your bottom line and principles.

If you agree to her unreasonable request this time, then there will be more questions thrown to you later, so when you encounter this unreasonable request in your life, you must directly refuse and firmly express your attitude, because in married life, you must also have your own principles and bottom line when getting along with your mother-in-law, and you can't blindly agree to some of their unreasonable requests, so don't be afraid, at this time boldly say what you want to regret.

I don't think you should take it, because the sister-in-law's wedding is none of your business at all, so don't agree.

I don't think you should take it out because it's your bride price, it's your money, there's no need to give it to someone else.

Personally, I don't think you should take it, because there is no such obligation.

When I got married, my mother-in-law didn't give a bride price, but my mother's family gave a gift of 70,000 yuan, and now there is some discord between the two families. If the woman wants to file for divorce, the husband and wife will definitely have a dispute over the issue of divorce. When I got married, my mother-in-law didn't give a bride price, and my mother's family gave a gift of 70,000 yuan.

If the 70,000 yuan still exists, the girl has the right to take the 70,000 yuan away, because it is the money given by her mother's family. <>

When getting married, the in-laws did not give the bride price as some girls, and most of them considered that the in-laws were a little embarrassed when they got married, so when the issue of the bride price was raised to the in-laws, the in-laws refused to pay. However, the reasonable mother's family is willing to give the girl a gift of 70,000 years, which is enough to prove that the mother's family is afraid that her daughter will be easy to live a hard life after marriage, so she specially gave 70,000 yuan so that her daughter can have a sense of security. When getting married, most people will choose to ask their in-laws for a bride price, but in today's society, the in-laws directly give the bride price to the woman on the issue of bride price.

The relationship between the two families is not harmonious, if the relationship between the in-laws and the mother-in-law is not particularly harmonious after marriage, it is necessary to take into account the attitude of the in-laws, and the mother-in-laws did not pay the bride price to the woman when they got married. For any mother's family, there will be some resentment in their hearts. At the same time, because the girl's life in her in-law's family is not particularly happy, so when the mother's family sees her in-law's family doing this, they will complain in their hearts.

So that the relationship between the two families is not particularly good, most of them are because of the conflicts between the children, which makes the relationship between the two families relatively stiff. <>

If you want to divorce the man, when you want to divorce the man, you must consider whether you are considering divorce because you have no relationship with the man. It is not possible to choose an impulsive divorce because of the conflict between the two families, which is not beneficial to two people, and husband and wife cannot always blame the family for the contradictions when they get along together. This will only plan conflicts between family members, and the life of husband and wife is lived by two people, and no one can be asked to participate.

You can negotiate about the property, because the gift money is for you, so it should be your personal property, and you can consult a lawyer.

You can go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the relevant procedures to get a divorce, and then just get your gift money back, so as to protect your rights and interests.

Before the divorce, the money should also be distributed, it cannot be said that the two people have not received the corresponding benefits, and it is best to choose divorce, because if this continues, the relationship between the two people may not be very good in the future.

You can also choose to divorce directly, and the other party did not give a bride price, which shows that the mother-in-law's family does not attach much importance to this marriage.

Summary. If your mother-in-law is usually better to you, but now it's just really difficult to get out, and you can sponsor a little if you have the ability to help, but if the amount is too much, you can negotiate to borrow it, or lend it to the second child, not to the mother-in-law, after all, the mother-in-law may not have the ability to repay when she is old, and letting her parents repay the money will leak people's handles.

When I got married, my in-laws didn't give a bride price, and when the second child got married, she still wanted me to help her a little, do you think it should?

If your mother-in-law is usually better to you, but now it's just really difficult to get out, and you can sponsor a little if you have the ability to help, but if the amount is too much, you can negotiate to borrow it, or lend it to the second child, not to the mother-in-law, after all, the mother-in-law may not have the ability to repay when she is old, and letting her parents repay the money will leak people's handles.

I got married to my husband, and my in-laws didn't give me a single bride price, why did I ask us to help her when the second child got married, I felt very annoyed, I didn't have a problem.

We need money ourselves now, but she never thinks about us and always thinks we are rich.

I was angry with my husband for the money, and my husband said that I was not sensible, and then I quarreled with him, and when we got married, your parents didn't give my parents the bride price, and I didn't say anything, but now that he is married, why should I give him money.

This can't be generalized, maybe because you and your parents are good and want you to live happily, so you don't ask for a bride price, but now the second fiancée's parents may be tougher, and the bride price is also an unwritten rule in China. Now they have no money, so they can only find a way with the people closest to them. But if you do have difficulties, you can show your difficulties to your mother-in-law and uncle, but it is normal for a brother to marry and give a few thousand red envelopes in ordinary families in China, and you can only borrow more than this amount.

I also said the same, my husband said that the family said what to do, I said that he could give him some red envelopes, to say that when we got married, he didn't give us anything, and when it came to asking for money, he thought of us, we have two children ourselves, we have to think about the children, for our family, but he doesn't listen to my opinion, do you think this husband can either.

I think I'm an outsider in their family, it's useless to say anything to you, their family is the closest to them, maybe they bullied me for being a foreigner, I think it's boring to live with him.

It can only show that your husband is more emotional, which is also a little, but it will be a disadvantage if it is too much in married life, in fact, after your uncle gets married, you will find that it can be said that it is a family, and it is not the same thing, you have your own small family, which must be taken into account. Merit.

As the saying goes, every family has a difficult scripture, living in the same family, it is inevitable that there will be contradictions, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is already very difficult to get along with, the daughter-in-law has to look at the mother-in-law's face everywhere to live, and if there is a little unpleasant thing will find their own stubble, if you are unfortunate enough to marry into a family with a sister or sister, you also have to consider whether the relationship between the sister-in-law is harmonious, the sister-in-law will generally unite with her mother, the contradiction between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law is very headache, plus a little rotten sister-in-law, It is even more difficult to be a daughter-in-law, so if you want to avoid these contradictions falling on you as much as possible, it is better to live separately from them.

Xiaoxiao and her husband have been living in her in-laws' house since they got married, Xiaoxiao's family conditions are good, and they are not short of money. When the two of them talked about marriage, she took into account that the man's family would spend a lot of money to buy a car, so she didn't ask the man for the bride price, the husband felt that Xiaoxiao could look at himself, he was really fortunate to be able to find a wife who was so sensible and considered for himself, so after marriage, the husband worked harder and wanted to earn money to make up for his wife, the relationship between the two has been very good, and they have become a model couple envied by many friends.

Summary. If your mother-in-law can't get the bride price, you can consider pooling money with your husband.

What should I do if my mother-in-law's family can't get the bride price?

If your mother-in-law can't get the bride price, you can consider pooling money with your husband.

You can also communicate with your parents to save the bride price, and now there are many people who don't want the bride price.

Basically, no one wants a bride price.

People are priceless, and so are feelings. You marry because of love, and only because of love, if it is mixed with other things, don't get married, otherwise, you won't be happy!

The bride price is also a basic guarantee.

I think I can give less, but I can't give it with.

What is the guarantee of the bride price?

In your eyes, what is the guarantee of the bride price?

Actually, it's up to the two of you.

Your parents can't control you.

If you want a bride price.

You just tell your boyfriend.

Let him figure it out for himself.

In fact, it has to be said that it is indeed necessary for the man's bride price, and the man's financial resources are indeed necessary, it is undeniable that the family is indeed wealthy, and the woman has a lot of material expenses, so it needs to be compensated. On the other hand, if a man makes a compromise on the bride price, it will also test the man's true ability and attitude towards feelings, so in some respects, it can indeed ensure the quality of life and love quality of the woman after marriage

1.What should I do if the bride price that the man asks for after the marriage is not given by the woman?

Legally, the divorce bride price cannot be returned

1. They have registered their marriage and are living together. In this case, the bride price does not need to be returned after the divorce.

2. Where a man and a woman have not gone through the marriage registration formalities and have lived together for a long time, they shall generally have children born for more than two years or during the period of cohabitation, and the bride price does not need to be returned after divorce.

3. Where a man and a woman live together without completing marriage registration formalities, and the bride price received has indeed been used for living together, the bride price does not need to be returned after divorce. The definition of common living is mainly limited to the actual expenses of family members due to their living and production needs, such as the expenses of illness of one or both men and women, joint business investment, etc.

4. In the event of the death of the parties to the marriage contract during the existence of the marriage contract, the bride price does not need to be returned after the divorce. However, this is not the case if a lawsuit has been filed before death.

In addition to the above four points, the bride price can be returned, you can compare it.

2.What should I do if the married woman asks for a gift but does not give a dowry.

It's really troublesome to get married these days.

In fact, according to the convention, as long as the man gives the gift money, the woman will marry! This should be common to the whole country. That's how you watch TV dramas.

But it is not excluded that some women are not kind and just want to earn a handful of men. That's a lot, too.

Normal and reasonable people, as long as the man gives money, the woman will bring the money you give back when she marries, or use the gift money you give to buy dowries such as electrical appliances and furniture.

Now that they're all college graduates, a lot of them don't care about that anymore. As long as the two people are good, these customs can be ignored.

My mother said that his family does not give gift money, and my family does not marry. If he gives it, we will also accompany it, and we will not take advantage of it.

In fact, in the general concept, the man should give gift money. The woman's dowry is not necessary.

In fact, your family bought a house because they had no money, and if your wife's family was reasonable, they wouldn't ask you for 30,000.

But some old people pay great attention to etiquette, and think that people have tens of thousands of daughters to marry, why don't I? Sometimes the meaning of necessity is also necessary. You can give 10,000, which means one out of a thousand.

In fact, it's nothing if you don't give it, and many young people nowadays don't understand these etiquette and don't care much. It's mainly the instigation of parents.

My boyfriend and I are from Jiangsu, however, I guess he won't give me gift money. My parents won't care, and if they don't give it, they won't accompany them. I will accompany you as much as you give.

My cousin got married last year and is in Yangzhou. It's just no gift money, no dowry.