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Live for yourself once.

A person's life must experience joys and sorrows, life and death, and finally, dust to dust, and dust to earth. Suddenly, looking back, the world was ruined, and everything will not change much because of your departure.

Sometimes, we always wonder why there are so many unsatisfactory things in the world, why we never get the things we love, and why people's lives are so vulnerable. You've been lost, sad, and doubtful, but you can't change the course of events. Maybe sometimes it's really us thinking too much.

When we come to this world and accept this complex society, we are destined for a lifetime, and that's it. We have an ordinary mind, we quarrel with others, we look down on those who are weaker than ourselves, we can sometimes say sad and outrageous things, and finally we don't even know when we start to become more and more annoying. The saddest thing is that I feel a sense of accomplishment even though I am hated by others, and I feel that I am articulate and capable even though I hurt others; Obviously not noticed by others, but also forced the respect of others.

There were times when I was disgusted with such people!

With the change of time, in fact, I found that the people you once hated were finally shown to yourself; Sometimes I become annoying, I always look down on others, and I always say hurtful things, and finally I want to practice a "King Kong incorruptible body". One day, I found that I always asked too much from others, gave very little, was always afraid of losses, was always afraid of losing face, and was always timid and unsatisfactory in life. However, life never makes you worry because you are afraid that you are worried, but instead "tortures" you even more!

Society is a big meat grinder, and in the end all that comes out are some walking dead", in the face of such a society, we can also choose not to change, not to change our hearts, not to change the basic principles of being a human being, we can hate others, but please don't become hated people after a few years. Don't wait for the end of your life to regret it, all the things you did in the past are the consequences of your own failure to treat others well.

I have always changed myself, I want to be able to integrate into this society more quickly, I want this society to accept me, and I want to be praised and envied by others, but what are these in my short life of a few decades? I want to live for fame and fortune? Or do you want to live for money?

I want to live for the sake of eliminating my own heart, to live for myself to be worthy, in just a few decades, I can't think long-term, that is, I can't replay my own life, I can't copy the lives of others, for me, I can not live great, but I can die without regrets.

People's wishes and expectations are always too good. It's almost the New Year, in the new year, have you ever thought about how you will go on in 2014? If you have ever been hated, disliked, looked down upon, or scolded against, please don't bring this unpleasant thing to others.

The people you love and care about also need to be loved and cared for.

Lin Qingxuan's essay collection "Open the Window in the Heart", read these essays I hope it will help you.

1. Women are like pears, sweet on the outside and sour on the inside, people who eat pears don't know that the heart of the pear is sour, because they throw away the heart at the end of eating, so men never understand women's hearts. --

A man is like an onion, if you want to see a man's heart, you need to peel it layer by layer, but in the process of peeling, you will keep crying, and you will know that the onion is heartless until the end. Second, sometimes it's not that I don't understand, I just don't want to understand; Sometimes it's not that I don't know, I just don't want to say it; Sometimes it's not that I don't understand, but I understand and don't know what to do, so I keep silent. 3. Ten points of life to keep in mind:

1 Knowing that people do not need to be exhausted, but leave some virtue; 2. The person responsible does not have to be harsh, but leave some stomach; 3. Talent does not have to be arrogant, leave some connotation; 4. The edge does not have to be exposed, leave some depth; 5 There is no need to invite merit, leave some humility; 6 There is no need to fight for reason, but to be forgiving; 7. You don't have to be spoiled, leave some way back; 8. The momentum does not have to be relied upon, leave some kindness; 9 Wealth does not have to be exhausted, but some blessings are left; 10 You don't have to do everything, but leave some virtue. Fourth, what makes women remember is feelings, and what makes men remember is feelings. Feelings precipitate over time, and feelings disappear over time.

In the end, they are different species, so who can understand whose deep love, who can understand whose departure. 5. Never regret it

We can't choose how far we want to go back, but we have to be clear about the challenges that have been created. Make an effort to adjust and believe that you will succeed. Whether you are in a desperate situation or suffering from illness, you can't do anything about the past, but in the present, your future is not so slim, as long as you work hard and believe in yourself, life is often bright.

6. When a person smiles, the more he grins, the longer he lives. Studies have found that a cheerful and optimistic attitude towards the world can affect people's life expectancy. The average life expectancy of a person with a blank face is around the age of a person, and the average life expectancy of a person who laughs is a year.

Only those who feel happy from the bottom of their hearts have a chance to live longer.

, love proverbs.

If you like him (her), you must love him (her), you must accept him (her) - not only accept his (her) advantages and strengths, but also accept his (her) shortcomings and shortcomings, you must forgive him (her), understand him (her), trust him (her), respect him (her), care for her (her), care for him (her), wait for him (her), and be willing to change yourself for him (her), willing to dedicate everything for him (her).

Love is mutual, since he (she) has chosen to love you, you have to work hard to cultivate yourself into a person worthy of his (her) love, change yourself for him (her), correct your shortcomings for him (her), make up for your own shortcomings for him (her), and love her (him) the way he (she) loves you.

If you love him (her), don't be harsh on him (her), love him (her), don't hurt him (her), love him (her), don't doubt him (her), love him (her), don't be difficult for him (her), love him (her), put yourself in his (her's) shoes, love him (her), let him (her) live a happier and happier life

Everyone has a history, you have it, I have it, before we meet each other again, we all have our own experiences, and there is no way to change the past, because the past has become the current you and me. We meet and love each other, and the only thing we can change is the future. Every moment of the present determines the future, and every moment of the future is in the palm of our hands.