Taboos and particulars on choosing a date for marriage, the correct way to choose a date for marriag

Avoid these days:

1. Death date: the beginning of each month.

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2. Four separate days: the day before the beginning of spring, the spring equinox, the beginning of summer, the summer solstice, the beginning of autumn, the autumn equinox, the beginning of winter, and the winter solstice;

3. Four waste days: Gengshen and Xinyou days in spring, Renzi and Guihai days in summer, Jiayin and Yimao days in autumn, and Bingwu and Dingsi days in winter;

4. The year of the year: the noon day of the Year of the Rat, the day of the Ox, the day of the Tiger, the day of the Rabbit, the day of the Dragon, the day of the Snake, the day of the horse, the ugly day of the Year of the Goat, the day of the Monkey, the day of the Rooster, the day of the dog, the day of the pig;

5. The day of the breaking of the month: the first day of the first month, the day of February, the day of March, the day of April, the day of May, the day of June, the day of July, the day of August, the day of September, the day of October, the day of November, the day of December (the day of the winter moon, the day of the month of La).

6. Yang Gongji's day: the first month.

Ten. March, February.

Ten. January and early March.

September and early April.

July and early May.

May and early June.

3. Early July.

January and July 20.

September and August 20.

July and September 20.

May and October 20.

March and November 20.

1. December 19.

The correct way to choose a date for marriage is as follows:

1. Choose the year. The so-called year without spring is that there is no spring day in that year, also known as the "widow year"; If you don't get married in the "natal year", you can only postpone it to the next year or advance it to the previous year; The "forbidden marriage year" is not suitable for marriage.

2. Choose the month. After avoiding the "forbidden marriage year", choose a month. The principle of choosing the date of marriage is based on the woman's "birth date", and refers to the date of birth of the man and others, as the saying goes

When the son is born, the woman depends on the year of marriage." Women have a marriage month, also called the big month and the small month, there are two big month in a year, two small month, and the rest are unfavorable months. Marriage generally chooses the big month, but there is really no way to choose the small month.

The choice of the size of the month is subject to the woman's genus.

3. Choose a date. The choice of the day should not be punished, and the birth year and the husband and wife palace should be punished, and the triad is better; The choice of days should not be used for marriage, that is, the official of the man's life, the wife star; The husband of the female life and the heir of the gods (the god of food).

Taboos on the day of the wedding

1. On the wedding day, the bride's dress is forbidden to have pockets.

Whether it is a red dress or a wedding dress, one thing to note is that the dress worn by the bride on the day must not have pockets, so as not to take away the wealth of the bride's family when she gets married.

2. On the wedding day, the bride is forbidden to fan the fan.

On the day of the wedding, whether it is the groom or the bride, remember not to fan the fan, because "fan" and "scatter" are the same sound, there is the meaning of breaking up, marriage is a long and lifelong thing, if on the wedding day to imply the breakup, it is too "touching" unlucky.

3. The bride should cry on the wedding day.

In some places in the countryside, the marriage of a woman is called "crying marriage", and the more the bride cries, the better, because crying represents the meaning of "the more you cry, the more you get rich".

4. On the day of the wedding, the bride's sister-in-law should be avoided.

On the day of the woman's wedding, all relatives and friends can send the bride out, but the bride's sister-in-law should avoid it, because "aunt" and "lonely" have the same sound, and "sister-in-law" and "sweep" have the same sound, which all represent the meaning of bad luck, so the bride's sister-in-law should avoid it on the wedding day.

The wedding date should be separated from the registration date, the leap year should be selected, the marriage date and holidays should be unified, and the parents' birthdays should not be selected.

1. Most of the dates of marriage registration and wedding ceremonies are separated, and it is best to choose a good day for these two important days. If there is a preference for one side, according to tradition, the traditional etiquette of greeting relatives and serving sake should prevail. Because Chinese tradition has always regarded the day of the wedding banquet as the real wedding day.

2. Choose Runnian. Runyue Chinese attach great importance to the selection of marriage dates, and pay great attention to the saying of "Runyue" and "Runnian", that is, every two or three years, there will be a Runyue, that is, there are two "Lichun" and one "Runyue" in that year. Choose an auspicious day for marriage, preferably in a year with a running moon.

3. Unify the wedding date and holidays. This arrangement has the commemorative significance of the festival and increases the interest of the wedding and the impression of the guests. And during the holidays, friends and family have time to attend the wedding. The atmosphere is warm, and the hospitality of relatives and friends is integrated with the festival at home, which is both economical and festive.

4. Do not choose the birthday of your parents. In traditional Chinese customs, the birthday of the parents should not be the same as the auspicious day of marriage, in fact, it only means that the day of the parents' birthday is not suitable for marriage, and if there are other good days in the month, it is absolutely appropriate to get married.

5. Consider the physical condition of both parties, if one party is temporarily unwell, or sick, it is best not to rush to arrange marriage, but to diagnose and treat in time, recover health and then discuss. The auspicious day of marriage should avoid the woman's menstrual period, and the woman should not be ashamed to say it. Both parties should listen to each other's opinions, especially the woman's opinion.

6. It is necessary to consider the actual choice of the auspicious day of marriage for both families, and also take into account the elderly of both parties. Consider factors such as the physical condition of the elderly and the distance.

1. The death year of the wedding date.

In which year the wedding ceremony is arranged, the people are particular about it. It is generally placed in a normal year without special circumstances. Both the year of no spring and the year of double spring are taboo.

The year of no spring is that there is no spring day in that year, and in some places it is called the year of widowhood, and "widow" is a taboo when getting married, which is obviously unlucky. In the year of double spring, there are two spring days in a year, which is also considered unlucky, and men and women are prone to second marriage. The perception of Shuangchun is different from place to place, and some regions believe that Shuangchun is a good year, which means "double spring and double happiness".

Some races, such as the Bai ethnic group, taboo men and women to marry in the natal year.

From many historical books, we can know that it is taboo for the people to hold happy events during the period of filial piety. Holding a wedding during the period of filial piety is not only disrespectful to the deceased, but also unlucky, affecting the fortune of the family, and the children are weak and not easy to have children.

2. The death month of the wedding date.

The March, July and September months of the lunar calendar coincide with "Qingming", "Yulan" and "Chonggong" respectively, which are all traditional "ghost festivals" and are not suitable for happy events.

Marry in June for half a year, June is equal to half a year, and marrying in June has the sign of "half a year husband and wife".

3. The death date of the wedding date.

Happy events such as weddings and full moons, happy double days and avoid single days, which means that good things come in pairs, if it is on a single day, it means bad luck. Gifts or gifts are also even-numbered. If it is a funeral, select a single day.

The three homonyms are scattered, and there are places to avoid this day for birthday and marriage, and this number is also taboo for birthdays, congratulations, and gifts, and businessmen are particularly taboo about the number of three yuan and three.

Four homonyms are the same as "death", and the number is taboo for foreigners like thirteen, and the general hotel number will not have 4.