Do women really lose as soon as they take the initiative?

Updated on society 2024-06-24
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I think he cares too much, maybe he is in a bad mood and doesn't want to speak.

    Remember one sentence, send a text message to the person you like, if he doesn't reply, don't send it again, because if he wants to find Ling, he will naturally come to Ling, just hint that Ling cares about him, and don't ask him if he loves Ling, now is when he is in a bad mood or don't bother more. Do what you want to do and don't mess up your life because of him

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Everyone has a bad mood at this time, and at this time, most people just want to be quiet.

    Ponder. They don't want to be disturbed by others, and excessive concern may only be for them.

    It's annoying. Let him calm down for a while, don't let your relationship stiffen, he is cold to you.

    Light may be temporary. When he wants to open it, everything will still be the same as before.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I have also had a similar experience, one possibility is that he is not going well at work and is in a more annoying mood, maybe after a while everything will be fine. Another possibility is that he is starting to change his mind and gradually snub you. Let's be cold for a while, and see if he will take the initiative to contact you, and then you can know the answer.

    It's useless to be anxious now, and you can't rush this matter.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Let's be honest. After reading your question, I feel that you are a little annoyed, and you are indeed annoyed, hehe.

    You ask it every day if it's in a good mood, how is this mood good, hehe, it's just because of that thing.

    Stuffy, you ask it about your mood every day, on the surface you are asking about your mood, but in fact you are asking if there is a cause again.

    I'm depressed about that thing, and I'm annoyed by anyone. And you still ask every day ... Alas, you still admonish.

    This and that,It's annoying for everyone.,It feels like a mother.。。。 Don't mind if I'm blunt.

    My mom won't bother me so much, I won't talk about it once)

    It is recommended that you divert its attention, and you should not be so concerned about it every day, but should calm it down.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If he is in trouble, help him and comfort him. If he is not in trouble, then please create a little difficulty for yourself and let him help you. You should understand that men are strong at heart, and they all like weak members of the opposite sex.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    At least for the man.

    The woman lost.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Remember, the easier it is to get, the harder it is to cherish!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Relatively speaking, it is the boys who take the initiative more, and of course, there are also women who are more enthusiastic and courageous and take the initiative to pursue love.

    But whether the initiative is not the main basis for evaluating a relationship, what is more important is to see whether the active person has gained the same joy and happiness while taking the initiative to give, and the person who passively accepts love will not feel the warmth and sweetness of being loved.

    But looking at you on the other hand, your initiative to give makes you feel tired and tired, which is obviously problematic. Either there's something wrong with the way you're proactive, or the passive side doesn't care much about your initiative and enthusiasm.

    If you can think carefully, consider, recognize the reason, and try to change the way to see if there is a more desirable effect. If you've tried everything and still feel tired enough, there's nothing wrong with returning to a free and unfettered single life. Besides, a person who is truly worthy of your love and likes to be loved by you will not easily let your initiative go down the drain.

    Besides, love doesn't have to be a boy to take the initiative, girls can take the initiative the same, there is no rule that love must be a boy to take the initiative...Although I am also a girl, I personally believe that sometimes it is a bad thing for a girl to take the initiative in a relationship, and a girl who takes the initiative can make the other party and herself a little better. But there is one thing that boys must remember that girls are generally passive.

    Even if you like it, you won't express your heart so easily, because girls will be shy. However, there are still fewer girls taking the initiative, and boys taking the initiative more! So this is also natural, most people think that it is good for boys to take the initiative, in fact, as long as it is true love, it doesn't matter who takes the initiative, it doesn't mean that the active side loses, it can only prove that this person wants to establish a relationship quickly.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In modern society, the development of affection between men and women is no longer the traditional model of boys actively pursuing girls. Nowadays, women have more choice and autonomy, and they can not only express their feelings, but also actively pursue the guys they like. Therefore, it is not necessary for boys to take the initiative in feelings, but also for women to take the initiative to express their feelings and attitudes.

    First of all, the development of feelings between men and women is equal. In relationships, men and women should treat each other as equals, rather than emphasizing the pattern that boys must take the initiative to pursue girls. Both men and women have their own feelings and needs and should communicate and communicate in an equal way.

    In this case, both boys and girls have the opportunity to express their feelings and attitudes without being limited to the traditional roles of suitor and pursued.

    Secondly, women also have the right to express their feelings. In the past, women were often seen as weak and passive, while men were seen as active and dominant. However, with the development and progress of society, women have gained more rights and opportunities to not only live and work independently, but also freely express their feelings and attitudes.

    Therefore, emotionally, women can also take the initiative to express their feelings and pursue the boy they like.

    In addition, the development of feelings between men and women should also be based on mutual respect and understanding. Men and women should respect each other's feelings and needs and understand each other's life and work situations. In this case, the relationship between men and women can be developed in a healthy and stable manner.

    Regardless of who takes the initiative between men and women, as long as the relationship between two people is based on mutual respect and understanding, then the relationship is healthy and sustainable.

    To sum up, it is not necessary for men to take the initiative in their feelings, and women can also actively express their feelings and attitudes. The emotional development of men and women should be equal and based on mutual respect and understanding. Only in this way can the relationship between men and women develop in a healthy and stable manner.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    A woman is a magical animal.

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