Love problems, now really helpless

It is the wish of parents to hope that their son will become a dragon and their daughter will become a phoenix. It is not easy for your parents to train you, and it is normal to hope that you will marry a good family. You yourself say that you don't care about academic qualifications, and your boyfriend is motivated, hardworking, and improving, so you can tell your parents these words.

Don't ask for much, just seek happiness. If you feel happy to be with that guy, you can choose to stay with him. Go ask for your parents' permission, your parents want you to be happy.

In the process of falling in love, the thing that makes me feel particularly powerless should be to hold only Lu is the girl I like is always a lukewarm and hot state of hail for myself, or always show a certain routine to myself, when I am cold to the other party, the other party will suddenly heat up for myself, and when I invest in this feeling, the other party will become cold to myself.

The feeling of acontinual powerlessness in love is something that many people will experience, so we must overcome difficulties, do not have the fear of difficulties, and at the same time naturalize our future. Then it is mainly in the details that determine success or failure, and the success of a love depends on whether you really want to continue.

Emotional matters are not in a hurry, take your time, see people's hearts over time, girls are generally soft-hearted, and it depends on your actions.

The building near the water gets the moon first, and a branch of red apricot comes out of the wall. Hehe. First understand that people don't have boyfriends, romance is not necessarily as simple as giving gifts, girls like romance. You're Lan Yan. More opportunities to get close to her, I wish you a beautiful hug.

Others think that two people are together by feeling, as long as they love it, they must insist, so they betray their parents and friends. However, this Nima, you pay hard, he thinks this is what you should do, what are you doing with such feelings. It's not that I can't find a boyfriend.

Two people should be responsible when they are together, support each other, and understand each other, at this time, the most basic, if you can't do this, then it's completely boring to talk about this love. It's okay to lose your temper once in a while, if it's like this for a long time, who can stand it! Nima's, your parents didn't give birth to you for something you didn't want to pay for others!

If he still has feelings for you, how can he be willing to let you pay silently by yourself. Long pain is better than short pain, you know this! Don't waste your youth on people who don't deserve it.

Women's greatest capital is youth.

You better break up early, the other party has caused you a lot of trouble, especially if he has become an Internet fan. In such a situation, you persuade him, he ignores you, love requires two people to have a common goal, an ideal, the most important place you are going to university now, you need to master your professional knowledge, and learn a lot of knowledge for the future.

My advice is to break up as soon as possible, separate early and be less painful, and have no children now, and having children is painful. You also said, it's a sophomore, in fact, the time is very fast, and it will be big in the blink of an eye.

In the third or fourth year, you will graduate, and maybe the living expenses given by you and his parents are enough for you to enjoy.

One or two years of life, but after you graduated, have you thought about it, are you still embarrassed to open up to your parents? He's so embarrassed that he doesn't know, how do you live your life? No one said anything and it changed, and you understand that life is not easy, and then you will have nothing but quarrel about life, and there will be no point at all.

Besides, to put it mildly, he simply has the mentality of falling in love and playing with college. If he really likes you, you want to buy a hand-drawn tablet or something, why don't you buy it, and it's not to buy it for fun, it's to have a better life in the future, he likes you, you're a princess, he doesn't buy it for you, at least another reason you think is right, but now in your life, what role are you? Regarding your parents, have you ever heard that your parents are not in good health, or that they take the initiative to buy things for them and care for them during the Chinese New Year?

Also, you also said that you don't like to be clean, I said explicitly, do you dare to sleep with such a man? Do you dare to give him your body? Aren't you afraid of STDs?

Of course, you're not stupid. What is right, that is for the rich and the unrich to interact with different family backgrounds, different social levels, you are still afraid that your family will dislike him and don't want him, first ask yourself, if you don't see so many realistic problems, and we are here to give you the opportunity to come up with ideas? I just want to say, what kind of life do you want, does he give you what you want?

If not, the answer is obvious, you don't need me to answer for you, do you want a temporary pain now, or a noisy and regretful life later, when you and your parents, friends will do and feel, in the face of your children, more confused future, how do you feel. Listen to everyone's persuasion and break up.

You're so stupid, this kind of man will be more spoiled by you, but I think if you get it, that man won't give up, maybe he won't share it with you, hey, in fact, you should really break up with this kind of thing, he has nothing worth cherishing at all, what's the use of your feelings, you see that he doesn't have anything outstanding, you will be very hard, and you will definitely regret it, sober up. Your family will definitely say, whether they dislike it or don't mind, they won't marry their precious daughter to such a person.

Take a look at "The Girl We Chased Together That Year", to be honest, your boyfriend is quite naïve, in school, so it is difficult to gain a foothold in society in the future, mainly about the mentality, playing games as a whole, not motivated, how to protect girls in the future, life after graduation is very difficult, boys should think more, bear more, otherwise, it will be sad in the future...

Divide it! After talking to him well, it will be more painful in the future if he is still like this and does not listen to persuasion

The gap in outlook on life and values is too big, and barely maintaining it is not good for both parties, so it is better to find a hard-working and motivated boy, first, you can study together, have more common language, and secondly, your life may be more secure in the future. As for the mutual adversity, there is still some truth in the saying that the doors are against each other, at least the personalities of people who know each other in the growth environment may be more compatible. Hope it helps.

I feel that it is very difficult to fall in love, and even feel that I have no way to fall in love again in my life, there are such people, which is related to a person's personality, psychological tolerance and experience after falling in love.

1.IntrovertsIt's easier to find it difficult to fall in love after falling out of love. In fact, everyone's love experience is not smooth sailing, they will go through a stage of sweetness to pain, some people will choose to break up after pain, and some people will find a solution to continue.

It's normal to talk about falling out of love, and not every relationship will have a happy ending. When encountering a bad ending, more introverted people will always have difficulty coming out of the shadow of falling out of love, feeling that they may not be able to fall in love again in this life.

2.It has to do with how much you're hurt in a relationship。Two people form a romantic relationship together, some people are relatively free, and some people are on the hard-working side in love.

As. The party who has given a lot after a breakup will always feel that he or she has been seriously hurt and does not want to start over. I don't want to invest in another new relationship.

It can also be a temporary emotion that hasn't come out of a broken love for a while. When the time passes, you will be more relieved of your own efforts, and you can also know that love is not forced, two people break up is good for each other, and their own efforts are also part of the good past.

3.I find it difficult to fall in love, and it has something to do with my personal love experienceIf a person is injured in several similar relationships, he will not have much hope for future relationships. This is typical empiricism.

In fact, in either case, after breaking up in love, it is impossible for two people to get out of the way, no one will always be hurt somewhat, no one is the winner, time is the best curative effect, you will remember your gains and losses in this love after you have spent a period of time calmly, and you will not be obsessed with your own efforts and injuries, and you will clear zero in the relationship, and you will end the wrong one and usher in the right one, and start a new relationship.