How to be cold? Heavy love alive pain 5

As the saying goes, it's not about buying and selling, if you're too active, you'll be passive, and she knows that you care about her, so she will do whatever she wants. Human beings have bad roots, and the best things are those that cannot be gained and have been lost. And now is never the best, no matter how much two people love each other in their hearts, they must also take out seven points of heat, more is too full, less is too cold.

It's getting along. And after that, it involves material issues: then it has to be realistic, you ask yourself what you like about her, whether it is beauty or personality, etc., whether these things will change after that, and will you still like him after the change?

She's not so irreplaceable. If you don't like it after you change, will you leave her, and will you regret leaving her? You'll know your answer after asking, don't regret it.

Think about it... It is indeed easy to change the nature of the country, and it is too difficult to change a person. I wish you good health and happiness.

If the brother is mature, you can't care less about everything, but you can't care too much, you are young, if I am your wife, we are all over 30 years old, a lot of small fights can not be avoided, you are young, you are together, but your mind is not fully mature, ask your parents for everything, be more patient, no effect, don't care too much, say well.

If you can't listen to it, let's change the time and say that we have children, so cherish it.

How can two children run a family well! Early love, early marriage, and early childbearing have hurt you! Love should be responsible, tolerant, mutual respect, and understanding!

When people are alive, they are generally not cold, and when they are upright, they are really cold.

You said that since it is cruel, well, in your established cruel environment, you must first have the ability, what is it? That is, when you are a teenager, you should show sensitivity and concern for society, grasp the current situation, how many friends as an indicator, how many tangible or intangible resources can be mobilized, to what extent you can express your opinion on something, whether you are healthy (of course, Hawking is a few exceptions), etc., etc., etc., so you can see your eagerness, but the journey of potential begins with a single step, if we have time to remedy it, it is okay, if there is no time or lack of action, then stay in words. I wish you all the best!

Send you a few words.

You suffer a lot of losses, and treat others sincerely.

In the past, I felt that the most painful thing was life and death, but when I grew up, I slowly felt that these things were sometimes beyond people's control, and they had to be accepted.

Now I feel that the most painful thing is to bear to give up your beloved people or things, this is your own personal pain, often when you make a decision to choose something, give up another thing, your fate will also change because of this, and the path of life in the future will be completely different

Falling in love with someone you shouldn't love.

Marry someone you don't love.

Worry about your own future.

Communicate with loneliness all year round.

Unhealthy and no money**.

Worry about your next meal.

I have something to say, but I can't say it.

People don't understand or hate you.

There is no care from family and friends.

There is no liberation from one thing.

Do what you don't want to do.

Eyes scorned by strangers.

No money to get online. People who want to commit suicide but dare not commit suicide.

That's all for now, and many more, I can't think of them!

Make it up later!

There is nothing more painful about living than feeling tired of living in this world, and there is a kind of superfluous living in this world.

Living too soberly + having too soft a heart.

If there really is an afterlife, I would like to be a scarecrow, a scarecrow with no feelings.

Quietly looking at the blue sky, watching the white clouds drift over my head!

Quietly watch the flowers bloom and fall.

Quietly watching life and death.

Quietly.

The most painful thing is that you never forget that you are someone you shouldn't love.

I myself feel that I should be betrayed by my beloved, and life is better than death!

The most painful thing about living is whether to continue to live or die.

Being lonely and unable to find someone to communicate with.

I think it's painful to be alive.

The most painful thing.

I don't think anyone understands you.

No one understands you.

There is no goal and no direction to be a man!

All I know is what is the happiest!

It's that people don't know when they're going to die!

The most painful thing about being alive is because of being alive.

I just don't know what it means to be miserable.

The gold list nomination is --- no share.

The candles in the cave room are ---

Self-right

Life is originally about the coexistence of suffering and happiness, and you should cherish what you have when you live for a day, and you don't have to worry about what you don't have. Whether it is for others or for oneself, to live is to learn to cherish oneself and care for others! ~！

Your spiritual life is not good, and in any life situation, there will be happiness, but you haven't found it. Learn to laugh at life.

Very simple. Sold a house in the city.

Let's move to the countryside.

I am now.

Take a look at "Joki Doesn't Cry".That's what I feel the most"Even more cruel than life is survival. "

First of all, these are the influence of the congenital and acquired environment, character is a person in social life constantly in a certain way and behavior repeats a certain behavior gradually formed, more by the influence of the environment, first of all, do not care about what they were originally, as long as you identify a good way of thinking and behavior, you can from.

Start now, do it in the way you should do it, do it in the way you are optimistic about, after a long time, repeat it many times.

Count more, and the character you admire will naturally be finalized. This is what people often say, "Thoughts determine behavior, behavior."

Habit formation, habit determines attitude, attitude casts character, character creates life.

Lively is actually a very good mentality, but if you want to change, first of all, clarify what is ruthlessness, how can you be ruthless, what is your so-called ruthlessness, why be ruthless, these don't want to be good, you can't change yourself, and then, for the cold category of public words, don't talk much, don't move much, be concise and clear, speak directly to the topic, this also has requirements for personal level, if you can't do it, you can naturally reveal the coldness, and take others to look like pretending, And don't have many friends, a friend worth dating is enough, there are a lot of specifics, specific problems are analyzed, hope.

Talk less, laugh less. That's how I changed (into a fake introvert, all of a sudden), regretting that I didn't have a friend, and no one dared to look me in the eye when I talked to me.

Paternity testing is impossible, who dares to rob other people's children to be identified, this one alone will violate several laws, unless you go to prison to do this, but the gains outweigh the losses, and the court will not agree to the paternity test without sufficient evidence, reasons and the principle of the willingness of the parties, and the court cannot operate illegally.

Since living with the second wife, it will not be too difficult to collect evidence, take photos of the life of the two and their children, make ** recordings, and guide the other party to say the situation or topic of the second wife in the name of discussing the conditions of divorce, as auxiliary evidence. If the other party rents a house and wants to check the rental contract, most of the men are responsible for renting, and the lease contract is also one of the evidence. Wait until you have this basic evidence before you can apply for a paternity test.

Even if you ask someone to take a photo, you don't have to say it, just take a photo of their intimate life yourself, and it is not too much for the wife to do this to protect her own rights and interests. Certainly one of the evidences.

1.Relevant evidence, such as income, real estate, securities, credit certificates, etc., should be retained immediately. In principle, and in most practice, your friend should not apply for a paternity test that is not related to himself or his children.

However, it can be raised in a later lawsuit, and the court may agree to it.

2.If the house is purchased after marriage, and the man and woman have not made a clear agreement on the property of both parties after marriage, the husband and wife shall each own their own property, it shall be deemed to be purchased as joint property, and the property right of the house shall be joint property. According to Article 20 of the relevant interpretation of the Supreme People's Court, if the two parties cannot reach an agreement on the value and ownership of the house in the joint property of the husband and wife, the people's court shall handle it according to the following circumstances:

1) If both parties claim the ownership of the house and agree to obtain it through bidding, it shall be permitted;

2) If one party claims the ownership of the house, the appraisal agency shall evaluate the house according to the market, and the party that obtains the ownership of the house shall give the other party corresponding compensation;

3) If neither party claims the ownership of the house, the house shall be auctioned according to the application of the parties, and the proceeds shall be divided.

Therefore, generally speaking, the property will not be awarded to Party B in its entirety.

A paternity test is acceptable, but evidence is required, and even if you do not cooperate with the court, you will find that the paternity exists.

The property is basically considered to be jointly owned by the husband and wife, and the borrowing is considered a joint debt. Unless it can be proved that the purchase price is personal property before the marriage, this part belongs to the individual at the time of divorce, and the rest needs to be divided.

1. You can usually give him a recording of fixed evidence, and you can also apply for notarization of his cohabitation and childbirth, and apply for paternity testing, but the important thing is the strength of evidence for the fact of his extramarital cohabitation, if it can be proved that the other party and a third party live together in the name of husband and wife, the other party will not only bear the liability for fault damages to the woman at the time of divorce, but also be suspected of bigamy.

2. To divide the property, the woman must prove that it is purchased by personal loan, because it is a joint property in legal theory.

3. You can hire a lawyer** to file for divorce.

Paternity testing, nothing can't.

If the paternity test is his child, then the man, as the party at fault, will not favor one party in the division of property. After marriage, property is jointly owned, and division is mandatory.

However, the woman can apply to the court for moral compensation from the man, and this amount is arbitrary. The court will give a reasonable amount of damages.

I also think it's too difficult to be a woman, no one wants to be hurt when something like this happens, but if it really can't be undone, then let your friends be decisive and resolute, a marriage without a love foundation is unhappy.

Marriage still has to be happy, let's leave.

Hehe, I feel that life is cruel and helpless, it is because of the imperfection of your material senses, things that are too far away cannot be seen, and things that are too close look blurry. You haven't seen through the material dust, the material world is originally a big dye vat, sick, full of strife, you bait me and deceive the unhealthy world, at the same time, the material world is a kaleidoscope, a world full of flowers, every living thing is enslaved and confused by this illusion, and we are all vying to come to this world of suffering to enjoy ourselves, hehe, you come, you come to try it. Our original position is in the spiritual sky, where carefree, auspicious and happy.

Whether we are doing well or not today is determined by the karmic retribution of our previous lives. So, now we should all devotionally cultivate ourselves. Otherwise, Vedic makes it clear in his writings:

This life is a preparation for the afterlife."

Hi, don't come to this calamitous material world in the next life, since you have come to this world, you can only control your senses and mind when you encounter problems. In fact, many things are caused by our own minds.

In fact, everyone lives a helpless life, and has their own pressures and problems. We can only find the pure land in our hearts in the helpless reality, because we are not only living for ourselves.

Living in this world is a kind of happiness, how can you say that life is cruel?

There are actually two views of life, one is optimistic, and the other is pessimistic, in fact, you just need to look at everything with an optimistic attitude, in fact, it is not as cruel as you think.

Everyone has the right to be happy, it just matters if you take advantage of it!

If people don't offend me, I don't offend anyone.

If anyone sins against me, I will offend.

Also, you should have a degree in everything you do, and don't do things too much.

To live, as long as you have the right conscience, there is no need to distinguish between good and bad.

This time it was a song and dance troupe host who was not skilled.

At a performance, I hurriedly took the stage without good preparation.

The performances took place one after the other.

It's her turn to call the curtain:"Audience friends, please listen to the flute of the calf (alone) below. Note:"Calves"There is swearing in the Northeast dialect).

The audience was overwhelmed