Why is it said that being too kind to a certain extent is stupid ?

Because excessive kindness has no principles and bottom line, it will make many people think that you are cowardly and bullied, will be bullied, and will be used by others, so it is stupid to say too much kindness to a certain extent.

Because "people are good and are bullied, and horses are good and are ridden", if you are too kind, you will be thought to be bullied by others, and you will be sinned, and in the eyes of others, this person will be more stupid.

If you are too kind, others will remember your good for a while, but if you are always in such a state, others will think that you are a very good person, will not refuse or resist, always bear your own grievances, and others will use you even harder, then you are not stupid.

Because excessive kindness always thinks about others and never thinks about themselves, so it is stupid, others will live well, and they will live very badly.

Because excessive kindness will make others hurt you more seriously and make you more miserable.

Sometimes, your excessive kindness will be used by some people who have no conscience and no bottom line, and ultimately harm yourself and even others. There is nothing wrong with kindness per se, it is the bad people who take advantage of the kindness of others. Although such people are shameful and hateful, we cannot abandon our goodness because of this.

If you are a kind person and you don't want to be hurt, then your kindness must be sharp!

Kindness is a beautiful virtue and a good quality of life. Be kind to others and be kind to yourself. Do good deeds, do good deeds, promote good virtues, and reap good results!

In fact, kindness is good, kindness is true, kindness is beautiful. However, people who are often too kind will always be bullied and even taken advantage of, which is very incredible and incomprehensible for kind people. I don't ask for anything in return, but why is it such a malicious return!

In fact, many times, it is not necessarily a good thing to be too kind. For good people, good people, we have to be kind; But we must not be kind to the bad guys, the wicked guys. To be kind to the bad people, the wicked people is actually to be cruel to yourself!

As the old saying goes, "To punish evil is to promote good!" "To be merciful to one's enemies is to be cruel to oneself, and the bad and wicked are our enemies.

Therefore, for the wicked and the bad, we absolutely cannot be kind, let alone benevolent. If you are kind to them, you may not only harm yourself, but you may also hurt others, because to help evil is to do evil. You can be unkind, but you can't help it!

For the bad people, the wicked people, the best way is to stop them from being evil through legitimate means, which is a kind of goodness in a higher realm!

Being kind to people is the same as being kind to yourself! Be kind to others, this other person should see whether he is a good person, a good person, and treat him well; The wicked are punished. Blind kindness is not true kindness, it's just doing cowardly things under the guise of kindness.

True kindness is to be kind to the good and punish the wicked. Be kind to others, everyone is kind, then you can create a good social environment together; Punish the evil and promote the good, so that the wicked will no longer be evilLet kindness be carried forward, and the world will be more harmonious and beautiful!

I am a kind person [Rose].

I appreciate kind people, approve of good people, advocate being kind people, and am willing to approach good people.

For I know that good people are blessed.

And understand that good is rewarded with good, and evil is rewarded with evil. The justice of the Emperor may be late, but it will never be absent from these truths.

But with the growth of age and experience, I finally understand that kindness must be a little sharp and angular, and blindly being too kind without a bottom line is weak and incompetent, and will only make yourself scarred and miserable!

Therefore, there is a measure of kindness, there is a degree of forbearance, people must insist on being a kind person, but not too kind, too kind people are too stupid!!

Kindness cannot be taken advantage of by lawbreakers, there are many examples of taking advantage of people's good nature to cheat and profite, if kindness is taken advantage of or there is little difference between being cheap and stupid, [rose] [rose] [rose] [pray].

Good is rewarded with good, evil is rewarded with evil, it is not that the day has not come. I think people are still based on kindness, and whether you are kind or not is not to say it yourself, but to evaluate others and say that you are a very kind person, which is called true kindness. But I know that a lot of people call me stupid, and I think it's better to be stupid than those who spend their days knowing how to slow down and leak out and scheming about others.

I know to think about others everywhere and think about things in their shoes. I don't like to be careful, I don't like to take advantage, my principle of life is to take advantage of a loss, so I am often said to be too stupid. But I never felt that I was being bullied, which means that I am still a little shrewd in my stupidity.

Therefore, stupidity should also be divided into real stupidity and fake stupidity, and it is worth being too kind to be said to be too stupid.