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It is normal for some people to be simple and some to be evil. As long as you don't trust others easily, that's the best thing to watch out for.
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Isn't it good to be simple? You don't need to put a lot of thought into it! You'll be unhappy then! Beware of others? Why don't you treat others with sincerity? Simply your friends will be true to you! Naturally, there is no need to go to the embankment to defend others!
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It would be nice to experience more things;
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Simplicity is a good thing, if you put your character square, why would you worry about others harming you, it shows that you are not simple, it can only show that you have to be strong.
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Summary. Hello, dear.
First, the heart of guarding against others is indispensable, but the heart of harming others must not be there. Contrary to people who are too simple, some people are too pure, for personal gain, they always want to infringe on the interests of others, they will always hurt others, and they also have too many dirty thoughts in their hearts. People like this will definitely not work, you must know, open-minded, upright and bright, this is the basic criterion of life.
Although you can't be too simple, you must have a basic heart of defense against people, but you can't violate this basic criterion, if you have selfish thoughts and always want to trap people and harm people, then there will definitely be no good end. 2. Be a simple person with good intentions and wisdom. One of the keys to the simplicity of a simple person is that he does not tell lies and always goes straight.
However, in real life, if you are too simple, so rigid that you only pay attention to the truth or falsehood of the content of your speech, and do not pay attention to timing, method, proportion, or effect, then the result will often be "kindness is treated as a donkey's liver and lungs", often offending people because of this, and even setting up enemies for yourself.
How to deal with people who are not pure.
Hello, dear. First, the heart of guarding against others is indispensable, but the heart of harming others must not be there. Contrary to people who are too simple, some people are too pure, for personal gain, they always want to infringe on the interests of others, they will always hurt others, and they also have too many dirty thoughts in their hearts.
People like this will definitely not work, you must know, open-minded, upright and bright, this is the basic criterion of life. Although you can't be too simple, you must have a basic heart of defense, but you can't violate this basic principle, if Tong Jian has selfish thoughts, always want to trap people and hurt people, then it will definitely not end well. 2. Be a simple person with good intentions and wisdom.
One of the keys to the simplicity of a simple person is that he does not tell lies and always goes straight. However, in the real life of Karen Oak, if you are too simple, so rigid that you only pay attention to the truth and falsehood of the content of the words, and do not pay attention to the timing, method, proportion, and effect, then the result will often be "kindness is treated as a donkey's liver and lungs", often offending people because of this, and even setting up enemies for yourself.
3. Learn how to deal with "malice". In the real society, there is indeed some malice, which should be an undeniable fact, and people who are too simple are often unable to correctly face these "malice", so they often become the object of being fooled, bullied and hurt by searching, and they are also distressed and painful about it. So, how should you deal with malice?
The key is to make it clear that you can't face all people in one way of life, that is to say, you must be simple to simple people, and to those who have malicious intentions, you must also have thunderbolt means, at least you must be able to protect yourself, not too simple. Of course, the thunderbolt method mentioned here is not to counter evil with evil, but to take legitimate countermeasures and countermeasures, otherwise, if you turn yourself into a villain because of dealing with malice, you will put the cart before the horse. Missed servants.
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