There is an urgent need for The Weakness of Human Nature after reading in English

The impressions are as follows:

There are no one-size-fits-all truths in the book, but many vivid real cases reveal the weaknesses in our own and others' humanity.

Knowing your weaknesses can make you play to your strengths and avoid weaknesses, highlight your strengths, and achieve twice the result with half the effort in your daily life and work. Knowing the weaknesses of others allows us to navigate social interactions and gain more friends.

I have learned a lot from the profound philosophy of dealing with various relationships in life and at work in The Weakness of Human Nature

Clause. 1. Skills for getting along with people: sincerely interested in people; Don't criticize or accuse others at will; Be considerate of the other person when talking and be a good listener; Don't skimp on your smile.

At any time, putting oneself in the shoes of others is the best quality of a person, and only when a person knows how to empathize can he gain the recognition and respect of others. This is true of life, and it is also true of work.

As a toll collector on a motorway, we deal with a wide variety of drivers and passengers on a daily basis, and effective communication and a genuine smile can enable us to resolve conflicts skillfully.

Clause. 2. Dare to take responsibility. Mr. Carnegie said:

One of the first steps towards maturity should be the courage to take responsibility. "Especially at work, there may be a high level of personal ability, but if you are a serious and responsible person, you will at least be respected by others.

On the contrary, an irresponsible person, even if he is gifted, will inevitably be opportunistic in his work and will not be reused.

Clause. 3. Live with an optimistic attitude. Happiness doesn't depend on who you are or what you have, it comes entirely from your thoughts.

In the face of work and life pressure, it is especially important to maintain a positive, optimistic and upward attitude in the era of fierce competition and rapid change. Maybe I'm not smart, but I can be diligent, maybe I'm not rich, but I'm healthy. Don't forget the original intention, you have to always.

Think hard:

The main body of the feeling after reading is "feeling". To be realistic, it is necessary to make your own analysis and evaluation on the basis of reading the original work. Analysis and evaluation is a process of brewing, concentrating, and evolving with a "feeling", and with this analysis and evaluation, it is possible to make the "feeling" closely follow the main ideas and main points of the original work, and avoid detaching from the original work, pulling things around, and leaving the center too far.

Therefore, to write a feeling after reading, we must think while reading, combine historical experience, the current situation and our own actual associations, and connect the people and things in the book with ourselves and the people and things we see, those who are close and similar to the book, those who are contrary and relative to the book, what we approve of in the book and what we oppose.

In this way, I can stimulate my own feelings and make them organized, systematic, and theorized. In short, only when you think deeply can you write deeply and moving.