Tell me what it s like to marry your first love?

Many people must feel very happy and sweet when they say this, but in fact, this is not entirely the case, the three couples I know who are married to their first love, their feelings are different. The first couple was together from junior high school. The two of them have always been classmates, sometimes in the same class, sometimes in different classes, and they were also in the same city during college, like all first love couples, at the beginning, they reported what they were doing every day, especially during the winter and summer vacations, and they couldn't wait to hold their mobile phones and chat every day.

After graduating from college, I got married without any suspense, and now my child is four years old. Many friends and colleagues know that she and her husband are in love for the first time, and they are very envious after they get married, and they feel that it is really a perfect match for a lifetime. But she also suffers from it herself.

I often hear her say that this life is like this, a man is not not in love, but love has long become a kind of companionship, the initial ignorant love is now too far away, I don't remember and I can't feel the feeling of love. It's because I fell in love too early, and I'm too young, and I won't separate, but I still feel a little sorry that I haven't been able to fall in love a few more times. The second couple is that the girl was with the boy when she was in high school, the boy was in college at the time, and when the girl graduated, the boy had been working for many years, and the two got married after the girl graduated.

According to the girl, both of them are first love, because the boy is much older than the girl, so he takes great care of her in all aspects of life and school, which can be said to be meticulous pampering. But the girl always feels that something is missing, and she doesn't want people to say that she doesn't know how to cherish blessings, so she married the original one and the only one, but people, always crave more surprises and adventures, she is very unwilling to go on like this after she gets married, and I always feel that she is not very satisfied with her life when I listen to her talk about this. The third pair is that the two people were first in love at the beginning, and then they separated, and after many years they got in touch again, and finally came together.

Your friend said that when two people meet again, they have a feeling of being separated from each other, and they cherish it again, and then they enter the marriage hall, I feel that they are both very satisfied and happy. In fact, who you marry depends on whether you like each other or not, whether it is the first love is not so important, and there is no need to feel that marrying the first love is a kind of happiness and fulfillment, but the reality is not so.

I think marrying your first love should be very enviable. Because both parties will feel that they have gone all the way and finally come to the end, and their recognition and admiration for each other will leave a deep imprint in their hearts. I envy such a couple, although when I first fell in love, I also met her, stayed with her for a lifetime, got married, had children, and worked hard to make money, but fate, in the end, for various reasons, let each other choose to separate.

Therefore, marrying your first love should be a proud and blissful experience.

If you have been separated in the middle, then there will be a feeling of being another village. Mature you will make the other party feel secure, and will care more about each other's thoughts, will not break up awkwardly, each other knows that a relationship is not easy, cherish this relationship more, and most of them can join hands with each other to grow old. If you are each other from first love to marriage, happiness is inevitable, you have been in love for so many years, after noisy and noisy, you finally achieved positive results, congratulations on finding a partner who can work together for a lifetime.

It will be very happy, the first love is everyone's most precious memory, and the marriage of the first love will be very tacit, indicating that the relationship between the two of you is very good, which will help the relationship between the two people after marriage.

First love teaches us to grow up, from the Supreme Treasure to the Monkey King, marrying the first love is the most ignorant and sweet idea of every ignorant teenager. From school uniforms to wedding dresses, marrying your first love is undoubtedly a very, very, very happy thing. He has been with you through thousands of times, and it is the brightest star in your night sky, which will accompany you from blackhead to gray hair

My husband and I were each other's first love, and we met in free love. Engaged in a relationship for two years. A make-up wedding after the birth of a son.

Of course, there were stumbles and quarrels in the past 10 years, but we never thought about divorce or going our separate ways. Slowly, love is transformed into family affection. Compared to the current mainstream form, we seem to be aliens, and my colleagues are surprised.

There are really not many people in today's society who go from falling in love to finally entering marriage. I'm glad I'm lucky.

First love is what people miss the most, the most unforgettable, and the ignorance of first love makes each of us full of nostalgia when we recall. There is no bloody plot of pregnancy and abortion going abroad in the first love, only the ignorance and love of youth, and marrying the first love must be the happiest.

It's really a great blessing in life to be able to marry a virgin, the most important thing, there is no memory in the emotion, and the girl who wakes up every day to see your heartbeat, that life is really full of sunshine and is in a good mood for everything.

If I could turn back the clock, I wouldn't marry my first love because it wasn't suitable. In love, there is no right or wrong, only suitable and inappropriate. At my age, free love was not yet popular, and it was still the era of being introduced by matchmakers.

In fact, it doesn't matter if you are introduced by someone, or if you are in free love. Two people know and fall in love, which is just a normal process in life. There is no love at first sight, it's just the ignorance, curiosity or yearning of life at that age.

How can two people who are not familiar with each other have feelings at first sight?

It is not without love at first sight or first love to marriage, and finally to old age. is like the love between Mr. Qian Zhongshu and Mr. Yang Jiang, but there are too few such loves. Just like in my time, after being introduced to each other, there were very few opportunities for two people to meet, and the labels for two people in that era were different from those who had a master.

The two of them slowly got to know each other, because by this time they had gone from curiosity to calmness. only to find out that the two were not suitable, even if they were reluctantly married, it was also an unhappy marriage. It's either a divorce halfway, or a restless day.

With such a first love, time can come back, and it will not get married, so no one will get married! There is no right or wrong in love, only whether it is suitable or not, and it is full of dissatisfaction. First love is just life experience and learning, because there is no textbook for love.

Only self-study and running-in, but wearing a foot of size 38, buying a pair of shoes of size 42 or wearing a size 42 foot, buying a pair of shoes of size 38, no matter how much you run in, it will never fit. is such an inappropriate first love, time will not be turned back, and it will not be married. Although the first love was beautiful, we were all simple people at that time, and all we needed was each other's love.

But it can't last a lifetime, unless, a person is strong enough to give all his love, in that case, what's the point? Love and marriage, in my opinion, are two different things, the Lord of Love takes, and the Lord of marriage pays. Good memories are in the past.

Pretty good. First love, at that time, I haven't experienced a lot, once people enter the society, they will find that life is not what you think. At this time, the first love has changed its taste.

No, on the contrary, my first love and I have broken up, because the two of us were together at the time, just because of the freshness of the moment, and then I found out that the two people are not suitable, and such an important thing as marriage must have been carefully thought out and got along for a long time.

I think I will marry my first love, because for the first relationship, it is very important for everyone to understand, and they must also hope to achieve positive results and finally enter the palace of marriage.

I will not marry my first love, because my first love is just an ignorant relationship, and it will not be able to go to the end, and I will treat it very rationally.

Yes. Because first love brings me a lot of joy, and I like first love so much, I will marry my first love.

I don't think I will marry my first love, because with the passage of time, the love outlook and values of the two people are becoming more and more different.

I don't think I'm going to marry my first love, because after all, I used to love, but I can't get it.

That's for sure, it's definitely very likely. Isn't it happy to marry your first love? Isn't that possible? Why can't you get married? Of course you can.

Generally, first love will not succeed, so I don't think I will marry my first love.

The feeling of first love is the most beautiful, so if I can, I hope that I can marry my first love.

Yes, I think it's best to be able to start from the beginning. Of course, I don't have a chance. So, I can only say: I can really marry my first love, I congratulate you. Really, cherish it. Love in the moment, don't think too much.

If I could, I would definitely marry my first love. It's the dream of most people.

is such an inappropriate first love, time will not be turned back, and it will not be married. Although the first love was beautiful, we were all simple people at that time.