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First love is indeed unforgettable for many people, but if you really marry your first love, it is not necessarily happier than now. Marriage is not as good as love, after involving all aspects of reality, if two people do not know how to manage marriage, they may also become resentful couples.
First love is beautiful and irreplaceable, but it may not be the most suitable to be together. Marriage is not just about love, it also requires tolerance and understanding. Although it is not a vigorous love with the current other half, it has an ordinary peace of mind.
Adult feelings no longer need much vigorous love, but they need someone to spend their lives with.
Love when you are young is the most innocent, without pressure, and can be unscrupulous. We have cried, laughed, quarreled, and made trouble seriously, but no matter how reluctant we are, it is only the past. Love is like this, some people are slowly left behind in the dust of the years.
Love is always holier than marriage, so when our love does not step into marriage, we often give it a lot of beauty that we have imagined.
Marriage is faced with the trivial things of life, firewood, rice, oil and salt. No matter how good love is classified as marriage, it will become worldly, marriage is not the grave of love, and it will not be better because it is better, it just teaches us how to accept the ordinary other half and ordinary life. After all, love must be ordinary and ordinary to last, and when it becomes ordinary, it will not become as beautiful as you imagined.
Zhang Xiaoxian said that you can't keep your lifelong love, but you are in a long-distance journey, coming and going in a hurry, no matter how long you stay, you always have to leave to take another flight.
We meet everyone who is destined by God, some people can accompany you for a ride, and some people can accompany you for a lifetime. First love is the person who accompanies you for a ride, and after that time, no matter how painful it is, you have to turn around and look for the person who will accompany you for a lifetime. Losing is sometimes about finding someone who is more suitable.
Conclusion: Marriage is not the end, love is not the end, companionship is the destination of love. I will rest assured that the people I have loved will not miss the past and be not afraid of the future.
Because I know that even with my first love, the best feelings will slowly be worn out in life and eventually return to reality. That's like living a good life in the present and taking your first love as the best memory of your youth.
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I don't know others, I myself am married to my first love, I met her in 2009, I married her 7 years ago, we have a son, and I am ready to have a daughter, I am reluctant to let her do hard work, so, most of the things in the family are done by me, she wants to go to work, she doesn't want to go, I don't force it, I love my wife very much, she loves me too.
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To be able to stick to the first love to get married, the two of them should have experienced a lot and been together for a long time. It is not easy for such a relationship to last, and both parties should have already understood how to consider each other, so they will live a very happy life.
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In the end, it must be very happy, because I am with my first love, what an enviable relationship, and the two of them are also very good together, and this relationship also feels particularly sweet, so I think it must be very happy in the end.
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It can only be said that most of them are happy, because there are no absolutes. People who marry their first love, they will be very good to each other, because it is the first love that occupies a very important place in their minds, because there is no ex, there is no barrier between them. So they live happily ever after.
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Those who marry their first love, their lives will be very happy, because they know each other very well, so they also have a special tacit understanding will hit it off.
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Of course, not all of them are very happy, and there are definitely many relationship breakdowns, but I think it's still beautiful to marry my first love, because I love the first person, and I go home by myself, and then spend the rest of my life together.
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Some are very happy, some are not happy, and some have separated, depending on how the two people maintain their relationship after they get married.
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Not necessarily both happy, I have two friends who are married for the first time, one is very happy after marriage, and the other is not very happy.
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Not necessarily, because some people are not mature enough at the beginning, so they end up having a miserable life after getting married.
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Most people are very happy because two people are together because of love. You can tolerate each other very well.
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