Is there anyone like me who is not married in 30???

Yes, one of my sisters is like that! I don't know why you don't have a target, is there no suitable one? Are you asking too much?

Or did it come to blow at this time? Or don't you want to find a partner? Or, sorry Ang, by the way, the conditions are not good, and I can't find the object?

In fact, it depends on you, 30 is really sensitive at this age, if the man is not married, but there is a partner, it is normal, if it is a woman, it will be talked about!

Look at what your situation is, if you don't want to be like this, let the family stay with the people around you and see if there is a suitable one, after all, this age is to get married, psychophysiology is needed! The criteria for choosing a mate should be lowered! If you just want to live a single life, don't care what others say, there are more tongue-chewing people in the world!

I know a few people, and in their 40s, no one has lived as usual!

Also, look at what your family thinks, your parents must be good for you, listen to them at the right time!

Nothing normal, they're too vulgar.

25 It's time to find a partner to date My girl here started a blind date at the age of 22, introduced.

Nothing, don't overthink it.

Go in someone else's way and let yourself say go.

Why care about others.

There is no way to do it without a suitable one. That's normal ...

One of my sisters, in her 30s, seems to have a bf,

The first reason for being single: the circle is too narrow.

I've found that for a lot of people, circles have always been built into familiar comfort zones. Just like myself, almost all of my good friends were in middle and high school, and I also met friends in college, and we have always been in touch.

After graduation, almost all of the newly established circles were just a mess, and I didn't have the heart or desire to manage new relationships.

Naturally, almost all the people I know are of the same sex, and I may have two good friends of the opposite sex when I was studying, and as I get older, I am almost fixed in the circle of the same sex. This problem should be encountered by many people in life.

There are two reasons for the fuss: personal ordinary.

Of course, this ordinariness is certainly relative. For most people, no matter how they say they don't look at their faces, boys and girls are the same, in fact, the first impression is especially important.

People who can really make people fall in love at first sight and are desperate to chase and understand, looks absolutely competitive.

Generally, most of these people don't have to go on a blind date.

More people, in fact, are still ordinary people, that is, the kind of people who can't find anything wrong with their appearance and can meet the requirements of most people, but they are not so bright as to make people's eyes look like answers. There are many such people, the comprehensive ability is actually very good, but always because of their usual rules, they have been single when they were studying, and even if they embark on the road of blind date after graduation, the early stage of getting along is boring, and there is no follow-up.

Because the older a person is, the less patient he is to really know someone.

The third reason: too much pursuit of personal comfort.

The older a person gets, the easier it is for him to return his emotions to himself, and the more rational he is to love, the less likely he is to be moved.

The indomitable pants mentality when I was young will probably not be there anymore. Everyone is measuring, calculating, and they are all afraid that the bamboo basket will be empty.

If I'm not married at thirty, you're going to marry me.

When the heroine was a student, she made a promise with the male spare tire that "if I don't get married at the age of 30, you will marry me", Mom, can this plot be a little more old-fashioned?

The male spare tire liked the heroine at that time, but he has been silently guarding the heroine's side, never giving up, it is simply a copy of Li Daren!

It is estimated that the male spare tire has been looking forward to the day when the female protagonist is not married until she is 30 years old since he was a student!

After the heroine cried countless times that she broke up, the day before her 30th birthday, she said to the male spare tire with a smile, tomorrow is my 30th birthday, but I haven't married yet, you should fulfill that promise!

Can this plot be a little more bloody? If such a man really exists in reality, my dear sisters and sisters, you must not let him wait until he is 30 years old, it is better to get rid of him as soon as possible, what if he gets married before you are 30 years old? Let's cry for yourselves!

The reversal plot should be like this: the heroine jumped up and down to a certain danglao, but found that there was a beautiful girl paper next to the male spare tire, and the heroine left gloomily, at this time, the subtitle typed: If you love, you should have been together a long time ago!

This is the reality, dear friends, don't live in the fairy tale world that you came out of, okay?

All male spare tires should say to your "goddess": If you are 30 years old and still not married, please don't come to me! This is the domineering that a man should have!

over！

In fact, a woman has mastered the most important sense of happiness in a marriage and family**. It can be seen how much influence women have on the family, so for men, choosing a suitable marriage partner is a major life event.

It's just that it's getting harder and harder to meet people who like and fit in.

It's okay... You just have to be happy.

I don't know why everyone has such a concept, men are very sought-after and attractive at the age of 30, but women will be very scary when they reach the age of 30, afraid that they will become leftover women, afraid that they will not be able to marry.

Actually, I don't think this concept is good at all, don't be swayed by this concept, don't be sad by this kind of thinking, in fact, it's best to be yourself.

If you haven't gotten married at the age of 30, you must have not met the right person to get married, not every girl can meet true love before the age of 30, and then get married smoothly, including some who are in a hurry to get married, or go on a blind date to get married according to the wishes of their parents, some of them are actually not married because they met the right person, but they feel that they should get married when they are at the age of marriage. So you don't have to envy others, you don't have to look up to others, if you don't feel that you have met the right one, don't force yourself to get along with him, marry him, or follow the true thoughts of your heart.

And why does a 30-year-old woman have to be named a leftover woman, I think that a 30-year-old woman has a kind of female intellectual beauty, mature beauty, and there are still many men who appreciate this, so don't worry, you can't get married, there will always be someone who appreciates you like this. I have a very good aunt by my side, she is also married in her 30s, but she didn't have any worries before that, because she is good enough and confident, so she is also looking forward to the arrival of her true love, and finally waited.

So, this kind of worry is unnecessary, no matter how late people are, they will meet love and marry love.

Of course there is hope! Age is never a limit, it is your heart that restricts; Whether your heart is full or not determines whether your life is wonderful or not. How can a thirty-year-old woman be afraid, look, there are so many excellent ladies who can still harvest beautiful love and reach the pinnacle of their careers in their twilight years!

Time is the best precipitation and accumulation, some things will only bloom after the baptism of time, and some people are destined to be late bloomers.

A thirty-year-old woman who has no money and is not married does not mean that she does not work hard, but that she has worked hard but has not been rewarded, in reality this is normal, not all efforts are immediately rewarded, but I believe that it will definitely be rewarded to you. So even if the pressure from family and friends is great, you must live every day happily and hard, and firmly believe that "I am the best", and there is no result now because I deserve better, believing that everything will be done, instead of feeling inferior and feeling "I am so bad".

Women, thirty years old, is not an age to talk about tiger color, as long as you never give up on yourself, there will be bread, there will be love. Women should never be presumptuous, those labels attached to women "while you are still young, find a good person to marry", everyone is unique, no one wants to live as others think, as long as they live as they think they are.

The increase in age cannot be changed, 30 years old is not a watershed in life, there is no need to be distressed by age and change your values of love. We can't change the world, the only thing we can do is not to let the world change us, 30 years old also has the right to be loved, kindness to the world, full of hope for the future, every older leftover girl will usher in their own spring.

It's not difficult, I said it's not difficult, do you believe it? I don't believe what I'm saying myself.

First of all, if a woman over the age of 30 is looking for a man of the same age or older, the first problem she will face is the decrease in motivation caused by the decline in male desire.

Women who used to spend energy, time, and effort to pursue are too lazy to chase now, anyway, that's what they are, if the women are a little colder, it will be more finished, impatient.

Let's say you want to find a male who is younger than you, and there is nothing wrong with that, but there are a few elements to consider:

First, you may have a lot of things to do to support your family in the future, and young men have limited income after all.

Second, what is the probability of true love, that is, after your appearance ages quickly, young men can still do not abandon or give up when their economic strength improves, which you need to gamble.

Then, women need to face the fact that the further back they look, the less likely they are to be as good as the previous men. There may be a lot of people who say, hey, who is how old is someone who found a prince charming, and when he says this, he says, I know a person, I went to Macau to gamble a few days ago and made a hundred million, and now I am financially free. It's not reliable at all.

Secondly, I've seen a lot of older women say to me, what's wrong with you? Doesn't I deserve to be rewarded for working so hard?

With all due respect, no one in this world dares to tell you that your hard work will be rewarded.

And besides, the areas you work are not the places that men care about, just like you go to interview a programmer, take out a pedicure certificate, and then tell people how hard you work, how difficult you are, and the other party can only refuse tenfoldly.

There are only four places to find true love, this probability is not small, in fact, it is so easy to go anywhere.

To sum up, do you think this thing is difficult?

Thirty years old, not old. Being single and not married does not mean that there is no hope, and life is over.

An older sister born in the early 1980s, and I are fellow countrymen. When I first met her in Beijing five or six years ago, I couldn't believe it had been almost ten years since she graduated from college. "You look so young, I thought you just graduated from college.

I was amazed. At that time, she was already thirty years old, still single and unmarried, but I didn't see her any shame, insecurity, and self-confidence, and her whole mental state was still very lively and enthusiastic.

The year before last, she got married, at the age of thirty-five and almost thirty-six. In the circle of friends, she didn't make a big deal about it, but simply and calmly said that she was married, and she didn't see any show of affection after that. Life is still as it should be.

At the beginning of last year, she came to Dali for a tour, and I finally met her and her husband.

When I saw them for the first time, I exclaimed, "What a match!" "Really, it's the kind of spiritual temperament that is connected, and at first glance, I feel that they are all the way.

When they were eating together, they talked about their love and marriage, and the urging and late marriage she experienced. "I also dated people a few years ago, but it was still not suitable, so we didn't end up together. The family is also anxious, but no matter how old you are, you can't get married for the sake of getting married.

She said that marriage is for oneself, not for one's parents and for others.

It wasn't until I met him that the two felt right after dating for a while. He was five or six years younger than her, but psychologically matched. Both love to travel.

Looking at them, thinking of her experience over the years and her usual calmness, you will truly believe in one sentence: you can live well when you are alone, have a good body and a good attitude, and marrying her is the icing on the cake. If you don't live well when you're alone, you'll probably get married only worse.

Now everyone is too anxious and anxious, and the whole society is generally anxious. But there are some things that can't be rushed, just like marriage, two people are companions and participate in each other's lives. If it's not the right person, a lot of things can go wrong.

Falling in love is very important, and if you have more experience in love, you will eliminate the inappropriate, and you will know more clearly what you want. Thirty years old is a proper "still very young". In Taiwan, Hong Kong, Japan, and South Korea, which are among the leading regions in economic development, it is no surprise that women marry later.

I'm still unmarried in my early 30s. Although he is also facing explicit or implicit urging his parents to marry, he is not in a hurry. I have things I like to do, I live according to my heart, I am determined in my heart, and I am more and more clear about what I want.

I am also opening my heart to make friends, to communicate, to understand, in order to figure out what kind of talent I like, to go through a long time together, to accompany for a long time.