My parents let me go abroad for five years, I love my girlfriend, I don t want to go abroad, I m dis

Updated on educate 2024-06-06
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    To be honest, from a girl's point of view, she may have loved you very much in the past, but she doesn't necessarily love you now, you haven't left yet, it's only been three months, I can't imagine how a girl can accept another love when she is most painful and sad.

    From your point of view, you just go abroad, who said that you must break up when you go abroad, true love can stand the test, said to be abroad for five years, but who can say for sure that you will be able to go for so long, I always feel that you are now sacrificing so much for her, it may not be worth it, because the world is changing every second, you can be together in the end, if you can't be together, who can be responsible for your lost time, I think it is better to consider going abroad.

    But in the end, it is up to you to remember whether to go or stay, no matter what you choose, don't regret it, I wish you happiness

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You have to believe in the two-year relationship between you, you can't go abroad, the choice is yours, if you are obsessed with her, then choose your own way, but one thing, no matter what happens later, you will not regret this decision. This requires you to think calmly. The girl said that she had known a boy for three months, and she took the initiative to find the boy and said that she would break up with you.

    In fact, from a good point of view, she really loves you and doesn't want to delay you, so she wants to use a lie to make you die hard to go abroad, she knows that men should focus on their careers, which shows that she doesn't love you, on the contrary, she loves you very much. In fact, many people can't do this kind of letting go of her. Of course, going abroad is not necessarily a good thing, it all depends on personal development, if you don't make progress, you will come back from going abroad is a waste, it is nothing more than to speak more foreign languages and communicate more.

    You need to think calmly, whether it is right to do this yourself, and will you regret it later? If you've decided, do it. Men, you have to decide your own business.

    That's what my mother used to say to me. Hope it helps.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Let's go abroad. There is nothing more regrettable in life than giving up what you shouldn't give up and sticking to what you shouldn't be sticking to.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I can only say one thing, child, you are still young.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Since she can say that she likes that boy very much in her three months in Hangzhou, her love for you is too vulnerable.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Based on what I know about a girl, that boy should be made up by her, right? Even if it really exists, it shouldn't be to the extent she said In short, whether she loves you or not, you know best, this is very important! ~

    What do your parents want you to do abroad? Study, work? Do you feel like you really need to go abroad?

    Why do you want to go to Hangzhou to do business well in Zhengzhou?

    All parents want nothing more than to want their children to live well, no matter what, don't rush your parents, otherwise your parents will not hate you, but will hate that girl You might as well ask your parents to give you a deadline to prove that you can break out of your own world without going abroad, and you can also know if that girl really loves you

    Most importantly, no matter what, don't regret it

    Life is like two balls in a box, one black and one white, you take white and miss black, or you miss black because you get white Everything has its own meaning, don't regret it, go on

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Your trip abroad is ruined because ......I hope I don't regret this when ......I am oldFor the true love of a lifetime, it's also worth it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you write very seriously, I will take you very seriously.

    Can't you see that this woman is very scheming, so you may not want to listen, he knows that you went abroad to find someone else, and you tell him, you don't go abroad, she is with you, how can such a woman live with you for a lifetime, have you ever thought that your family let you go abroad is nothing more than want you to go abroad, but going abroad has to struggle, I understand this point of missing your family.

    But you don't have to ruin your future for the sake of your feelings, you are still young, work hard now, and you will be happy in the future.

    You are all very happy in this relationship, but maybe letting go is also a kind of love, love is like a handful of sand, the more you want to hold it, it will flow away secretly.

    I don't think it's necessary to go on like this.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Break up quickly, go abroad immediately, and put your career first!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The landlord is asking us to help him make up his mind.

    The most important thing is to convince yourself.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The career is heavy, and the good days are slowly looking forward to it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The first thing to consider is the reality.

    Her parents took her away, definitely for her sake, if she stayed with you, would you be able to give her everything her parents could give her.

    Then it was her mind that was considered.

    Has she thought clearly about giving up her parents for you, whether she has made a decision in a calm situation, and finally it is your own determination.

    There is another sentence, if the mountain doesn't come, I'll go to the mountain, and if she doesn't stay, you can go to her in the future.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Let him go. You don't have the right to organize a person's life. But if she goes, you're going to break up.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You don't have to be too nervous, you don't have to go together, but you can go to her more often and think of it as a trip. I wish you all happiness.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Is love more afraid of long-distance relationships than Jin Jian?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If your personality is a person who can't be romantic, it's also difficult for you to be romantic, but since you like her and want her to be happy, you should be really good to her, and you don't need to be warm and touching with any fancy things.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Be considerate to her, sometimes love doesn't need to be spoken.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You do something romantic and she should be happy.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Love you will naturally stand in your position for your sake, this can't be done? Don't.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Isn't it okay to go abroad after getting married? I don't understand the current education system.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    She really loves you, you only have two choices now, one is to let go of this relationship and go abroad, and the other is to give up the opportunity to go abroad to enjoy this love, of course, you can only choose one of the loves, opportunities, if I choose I will choose love, think about it yourself, after all, the person who decides is you, choose your own life, don't let yourself regret it, once you choose, you can't go back, choose well.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If it were me, I'd give it all up, if nothing else, just because I love her, and that's enough.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Women are most afraid that their beloved will leave them, because they will be afraid and worried, so take care of it yourself.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You didn't do anything wrong, she just didn't love you deeply. Moreover, she is sensible enough, your parents don't like her, and it is easy to cause family conflicts after she marries you, she retreats in time, and she doesn't want to hurt more deeply in the future.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Wait, but there's a deadline, so you can't wait forever. Also, for this kind of "picky" future parents-in-law, you have to think carefully.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Since she doesn't keep it, she must think about herself, and waiting without hope is not comfortable at all. You didn't do anything wrong. Don't take it too seriously.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You still don't love each other enough! Can't stand the blow....Remember this time, pay attention later, the past is over.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think you should keep her then.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I broke up half a year ago, what are you still struggling with? You can take a look at the love defense war.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Your parents may be reluctant to let you go so far away from home, right, will your parents miss and miss it is a disease? I'm afraid that you won't take good care of yourself, and you're worried about your safety, it's not as good as our domestic security management! As long as it is meaningful to you, parents I will follow the wishes of their children, they also hope that their children are in a good mood, which parents love their children, as long as they are talented, learning there is the same, for example, even if the conditions are good, if you don't work hard, it may be useless.

    But with both software and hardware, that would be better, right?

    As long as it is meaningful to you, parents I will follow the wishes of their children, they also hope that their children are in a good mood, which parents love their children, in fact, it is very simple, you are imaginary, you and your parents swap roles, stand in their position, think about it, and the answer will be revealed.

    If the family conditions allow and you have a strong desire to go abroad, you should communicate with your parents so that they do not leave regrets for yourself. Studying abroad is really not as easy as you think, and you have to be mentally prepared. The experience of studying abroad can be said to be an asset in life.

    If you don't come out and live on your own, there are some things that you can never learn. In a desperate situation, as long as I grasp myself and get full exercise, I found that those classmates who are one year younger than me are also living very well. But there are also some who have not taken off their visas until now.

    The key depends on whether you are determined.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you have the financial ability to go abroad, you should save it if you use their hard-earned money.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Talk to your parents and tell them what you think and what you're determined about.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    That's if you really don't want to go, what else are you forced to do Besides, if you don't want to be married for a long time, if you're afraid that you will have competitors when you separate, you can get married Haha You really don't want to go, you can't force it to understand him.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you're confident enough, then you're going to ......... it aloneWhy do you have to have a girlfriend with you? Also, you said that you will have a lot of vacations to come back.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Don't persecute it! If she doesn't go, she won't go! It's a test of your feelings for her and her feelings for you! It's still a long time! If you really care, you're not afraid of separation!

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