Is not love to study a manifestation of adolescent rebellion?

I (my sister just graduated from high school this year) was the same when I was in my second year of junior high school, but it's hard to talk about you men. At that time, I was very fond of thinking about what was wrong, and I was not very focused on studying, so it didn't matter, if you really cared about studying, you had to think about countermeasures. Back then, I asked the head teacher to change the position and transfer it to a single table.

At that time, I was reading my favorite magazines in my own position. After sitting for half a semester, I quieted down and studied. You can take a look!

Rebellious psychology refers to a state of mind in which people adopt opposite attitudes, words and deeds to each other's demands in order to maintain their self-esteem. Teenagers often find that some people are "untaught" and "disobedient", and often "go against the bull" and "work against the dogs" with educators. This kind of behavior that runs counter to common sense and shows one's "cleverness" and "extraordinary" with an abnormal psychological state often comes from "rebellious psychology".

I don't think you're a fatigue caused by too much study pressure or too much studying, after all, the third year of junior high school is coming

Don't stretch yourself too hard, just relax.

Empathy, this is a rebellious mentality, because there is no one around us who does not let us learn well, and we are bored with this kind of worldliness.

But with restraint.

No. There are many things that can be entertained during adolescence.

I often want to go out and play, and there are many things to do.

Naturally, I will find other things interesting and annoying to study.

Work harder, because you are under a lot of pressure to study now, so you want to stop studying at all, in fact, this is not a rebellious mentality, just communicate more with the teacher.

It's the same, but you have to adjust it!

This is not a normal phenomenon, generally adolescent children will have some rebellious phenomena, but the severity is different; They like to skip classes and fight, don't listen to their parents and teachers, always like to work against their parents, and are prone to some very childish behaviors.

Of course, this is very normal, and it is mainly related to the child's personality. Children in the rebellious period will be very irritable, sometimes very unreasonable, and will also work against their parents, which will make their parents angry.

Normally, children in this period will be rebellious, first of all, they don't listen to their parents, and then they like strange things, and they don't let them do what they want to do.

Quarrel with the teacher in class, quarrel with your parents at home, fight, don't study seriously, etc., as long as you are usually obedient, don't make any small moves in class, don't fall in love.

Always quarrel with your parents and be disobedient.

It is manifested in the fact that your parents ask you to go to the left, and you want to go to the right.

It will be different in every way!

In fact, it is normal for children to be tired of school, and many parents will rack their brains to make their children like to learn in the face of such a situation. Many times, some parents are too anxious and don't know how to force their children to study, so that the children not only do not learn well, but are more bored.

1. Help children find their interest in learning. If the child is interested in learning, then learning is a pleasure for the child. If the child perceives learning as a burden, then learning can become a heavy burden for the child.

Therefore, I still hope that parents must know how to let their children face learning, and how to establish a correct learning attitude, which is the most important thing.

2. Understanding and respecting children is the premise of solving all problems. Parents should put themselves in their children's shoes and consider whether the requirements for their children are reasonable and in line with their children's developmental nature. Parents should learn to look at problems from their children's point of view, and only when they truly understand their children can they respect them.

Don't use a commanding tone to communicate with your child, but to treat your child as an independent individual and communicate with him as an equal, so that the child will not rebel against education.

3. Parents tell their children that learning must be done with feelings. Tell your child that when we learn, we should learn with joy. When we eat in a good mood, it helps digestion, and so does learning.

As long as we adjust our study plan, grit our teeth, and implement it, we will slowly walk out of the plateau of learning. Once you come out, your academic performance will improve.

4. Encourage your child and help him build self-confidence. Every parent wants their child to make great progress, so some parents take it for granted that their child should be criticized often in order to give him more space, but in fact, first of all, we need to give our children confidence to grow up and let them get more satisfaction, which will be beneficial to their next growth. Therefore, it is recommended that parents look for the shining points in their children in their daily life, encourage their children more, and establish self-confidence.

5. Let children make a good study plan and don't study blindly. Tell your child that sometimes, learning is bound to encounter a lot of plateaus, and it is likely that you will make slow progress or even stagnate in the results for a period of time, even if you learn how well. At this time, don't be in a hurry, find out the reason, is it because you didn't make a good study plan?

Never get bored with school because of these things.

6.Nurture your childoutlook on lifeWhether the values are correct or not depends first of all on whether the world outlook and outlook on life are correct and meaningful. With the right outlook on life, he can set the right goals in life and plan an orderly life path.

It's natural to have a good attitude towards learning. Therefore, parents should pay attention to the results of their grades, and also see whether the cultivation of their outlook on life in the learning process is on the right track. For the problem of adolescent children's boredom in school, we as parents must help our children, correct them in time, let them understand what is important and what is secondary, help them establish correct values, and let them grow better!

Parents should set an example for the early banquet, read books and shoot birds together with their children's homework, play auspicious files with their children appropriately, help children solve problems, ask children the happiest things every day, and encourage children more.

Then you should get along with your child as a friend, and let your child realize the importance of learning, so that your child can become interested in learning first.

Factors that produce the rebellious psychology of adolescents:

The first is the special age stage in which adolescents are located, and adolescents are in the stage of adolescent development, and their physical maturity and psychological development are unbalanced and unsynchronized, which leads to conflicts. At this stage, their desire to act independently is becoming stronger and stronger, and they want to be respected and understood as "adults". But at the same time, their dependence on their families remains strong.

In the eyes of adults, they are still children and still need to be disciplined. In this conflict of longing for independence and being treated like a "child", rebellion naturally emerges, exacerbating the conflict between the two generations.

The second is the management of family education and the ideological concepts of parents. With the development of society and the progress of the times, the previous belief that 20 years was a generation has gradually evolved into a generation of 10 years or even 5 years. People in different eras have different life experiences, education, and ideas that arise from them.

The vision of life and the pursuit of ideals are all different. So, adults use the circumstances of the times in which they live to ask their children to do something. What should be the idea is that they do not understand the environment in which children are now at all, and the ideals and pursuits of teenagers are not only not recognized by adults, but are restricted, and rebellious psychology is generated.

In addition, some parents now spoil their children too much, so that their children grow up to be proud and conceited, and they cannot listen to criticism. Once parents accuse or criticize, there will be rebellion and resistance. There are other parents who manage their children simply and rudely, are indifferent to the normal needs of their children, and blindly put pressure on their children.

Children who have been in this environment for a long time do not get the warmth of the family, are easy to let go of themselves, are prone to tension with their parents, and eventually have a rebellious mentality.

Third, it is reflected in contemporary school education, and the teacher education method is inappropriate. Educational management is stale and old-fashioned. Teachers are conservative in their thinking, and schools still use exam-oriented education to carry out routine management of education and teaching.

It will lead to a rebellious mentality in students. In addition, in order to establish the so-called prestige, some teachers overemphasize that students must respect teachers, but they never love students, let alone care about students' development and needs, and never respect students' individuality, which will also lead to students' rebellious psychology.

Once a teenager develops a rebellious mentality, it is not conducive to their growth and learning. Therefore, it is necessary to correct this psychological period.

There are many reasons for adolescent rebelliousness, but there are six main reasons.

One is the disappointment, contempt, and even resentment of parents.

The second is that parents oppress others with power.

It is the parents who do not respect their children or do everything instead.

It's the parents who can't stop babbling about one thing.

Fifth, parents cannot communicate well with their children.

Sixth, parents are too demanding and have too high expectations, and high-pressure policies can arouse rebellion.

Therefore, the reason for adolescent students' rebellious psychology is mainly attributed to their parents and their own families. If you want adolescent students not to have a rebellious mentality, you must find the reasons of the parents themselves.

I am currently a sophomore. I've been through these things, and my parents have had the same confusion as you. Personally, I think it's normal, and everyone goes through this process.

The important thing is the process and experience of adults and children growing up together, and it is necessary to strengthen communication with children, and give her more encouragement and help, rather than confrontation with each other. I believe your child will understand your painstaking ...

Every child wants to create their own space during adolescence and does not want their parents to interfere too much. But due to the traditional thinking of parents, it is wrong to think that children do not listen to their parents at this stage, so what should be done if adolescent children are rebellious?