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Make friends with relatives who have the right to speak; Do not hide its imperfections. In "Dream of Red Mansions", a huge work with many characters, Tanchun can be said to be a very important character. In such an era, when you go out of the house to face your in-laws, the background of your mother's family is a woman's biggest backer.
But staying in the door, within a large clan, the mother's strength represents the status of her children among their peers and even the previous generation. But unfortunately, Tanchun's mother is just a lowly aunt, and she is not even as good as some of the big maids who have the eyes of the master. It was such a woman who ended up being the better of all the sisters, and she also saved her mother.
First, Tanchun knows how to make friends with people who have the right to speak in the clan. Although Tanchun's mother makes many people look down on or even disgust, Tanchun's popularity among the sisters is very good, she knows how to be restrained, and she knows when to show her sense of existence. At the same time, Tanchun does not tend to be inflammatory, and has its own character.
This makes one have to take a high look. Even Jia's mother looked at Tanchun differently. Such a person, even if her mother has some shortcomings, as long as she does not touch the bottom line, everyone will turn a blind eye to her relationship and will not be held accountable.
Second, Tanchun knows how to retreat to the second. Tanchun knows very well what kind of personality her mother is, so she never tries to cover up for Aunt Zhao, but exposes her ugliness to everyone in a timely manner. Over time, everyone will get used to this kind of Aunt Zhao, and no one will care if she does the same thing again, at most she will say a few words and it will pass.
You must know that in a large family, for an insignificant person, survival is their greatest hope.
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The biological mother who lives forever to protect Aunt Zhao can send out good protection and have a biological mother.
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There is one regrettable thing about Tan Chun's marriage, that is, the absence of his younger brother Jia Huan. It stands to reason that when my sister got married, my younger brother Jia Huan should appear in the send-off procession, but he didn't show up, but his half-brother Baoyu became the dowry relative of Tanchun Yuan's marriage. Some people say that Jia Huan is a concubine, and in order to highlight Baoyu's position, it makes sense not to appear.
Or there is also a saying that Tanchun and Jia Huan's sister and brother have a bad relationship, Tanchun is married, and Jia Huan is unwilling to attend the farewell ceremony. In fact, it makes no sense to say this, Aunt Zhao, the biological mother who is dissatisfied with Tanchun, has a highlight in the scene of Tanchun's distant marriage, although there are no words, but one of her moves forward makes people forgive this mother. What's more, Jia Huan, who is still young, will not be absent because of his hatred for his sister.
Exploring spring and marrying far away, although it is not the content of Cao Xueqin's first 80 episodes, but when the 87 version was filmed, a lot of effort was also put into it. Liu Baojun, the chief art designer of the 87th edition, in order to highlight the complex sadness of marrying in the spring, deliberately went to Penglai, Shandong Province on the coast to shoot, and finally took a fancy to the city wall at the mouth of Penglai, as well as the plank road in the ancient water city. At that time, when filming this scene, when Tanchun knelt there to say goodbye to everyone, the eyes full of tears, and when he was gone, the tears that turned back infected many people.
also made the scene of Tanchun marrying far away become a classic shot of the 87 version of Dream of Red Mansions.
There is no language in the play, and every time I see this lead town segment, I can't help crying. Especially when Aunt Zhao saw Tanchun go away, the action of moving forward made many people who didn't like Aunt Zhao forgive her at this moment, because at this moment she is just a mother, a mother who is far away from her daughter.
If Jia Huan also appeared in the camera at this moment, hugging his head and crying with Tanchun, although there is no language, this kind of appeal will make the tragedy of Tanchun's marriage even stronger, and people can't help crying when they see it. Of course, Jia Huan's absence did not detract from the scene of Tanchun Yuan's marriage, but Jia Huan's absence became a regret in Wang Wei's life.
If Tanchun marries far away, it is not the content of the 87 version adaptation, but the content of the book, then Jia Huan should appear in the wedding team, after all, family affection is an indispensable theme at all times. Tanchun's feelings for Jia Huan are as complicated as her feelings for her biological mother, Aunt Zhao. There is not only the kind of family affection between sisters and brothers, but also the kind of estrangement that avoids the identity of the concubine.
But in the end, it is a relative, when Tanchun marries, Jia Huan, like Aunt Zhao, will also be the saddest and reluctant person in the Jia family to marry Tanchun.
It can be seen that in the footage of Tanchun's marriage, we not only see the sorrow of Tanchun's marriage, but also the warm family affection, as well as Aunt Zhao's motherly love and reluctance. But none of this is for Aunt Zhao to decide, so even if she is reluctant, she can't change the ending of her daughter's marriage in the spring. Of course, Jia Huan's absence made the tragedy of Tanchun's marriage even stronger.
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Although Tanchun was born to Aunt Zhao, Tanchun never recognized her before she got married, but always called Mrs. Wang as her mother. Tanchun is a person with strong self-esteem, she is also a very smart person, she deeply understands the difference between a concubine and a concubine, she cares a lot about what others think of her, and she is afraid that others will treat her as a concubine, so she has always been very sensitive to this issue. Not only did she behave like Madame Wang in action, but she also struggled to convince herself ideologically that she was born to Madame Wang.
She treats Mrs. Wang like her own mother, but she is as cold as frost to Aunt Zhao. She cared about Baoyu, but she treated Jia Huan as if she were nothing. This is a reflection of her inner struggles, contradictions, and her unpretentious self-esteem.
But the facts are the facts, no matter how she tosses, she is still born to Aunt Zhao. Our Tanchun is a person of love after all, she finally recognized Aunt Zhao before she got married, and she couldn't cry, she clung to Aunt Zhao, as if to say that she is my own mother, the person who gave birth to me and raised me, and her arms are the arms of my mother, and they are the warmest places.
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In fact, Tanchun was also very helpless, the children of the concubines in that era were already treated unfairly, not to mention the daughters of the concubines. Tanchun can only maintain his dignity by trying his best to lean on Mrs. Wang's side. What's more, Aunt Zhao can't always be on the stage, embarrassing Tanchun, not giving Tanchun a long face, even the little girl looks down on her, relying on such a mother, how can Tanchun gain a foothold in Jiafu, where everyone "has a pair of rich eyes"!
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It is because of the feudal hierarchy that is worshipping.
The difference between the lineage and the concubine is too great, so that she does not recognize her biological mother In addition, Aunt Zhao's character has some problems.
Tanchun is usually majestic and self-disciplined, but Aunt Zhao makes mistakes, but she says that her ears are soft and she has no calculations in her heart, so it seems that she secretly maintains her biological mother, so she can hide it in exchange for Ping'er, so Tanchun's feelings for Aunt Zhao are not very distorted.
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