She was a student council president and was under a lot of pressure, so how could I comfort her?

Troubles are an emotion that everyone has. The key is to see how you regulate yourself.

Not blaming others is the easiest and most important way to get rid of your worries. Blaming yourself or others makes your mind dwell on the past, instead of raising your eyes and looking forward and thinking about what to do next.

"It's really unlucky, just about to go out but it rained heavily." Instead of thinking like this, it is better to think, "How fresh and humid the air is today." Think of every "bad luck" as an opportunity to train yourself to survive the changes.

Sunlight in the bedroom "Waking up to a bedroom full of sunlight will make you happy all day long. Dr. Michael, director of the Center for Light** and Biorhythm Research at Columbia University, said morning sunlight is most beneficial to human health.

Keep Smiling: An experiment at Clark University in the United States proved that for the same thing, people who smile often see the funny side of it, and people who often frown see the annoying side of it.

Exercise for 30 minutes When a person is feeling down, they may not want to do anything. The best way to do this is to go for a run or go to the gym for 30 minutes and your mood will soon improve. If you stick to it for a long time, it can also help improve depression.

A successful man will have an excellent woman behind him. In fact, such an excellent man is a man who knows how to take care of herself. The more gentle a woman is, the more successful the man will be.

A woman is made of water, but it can warm a man's heart. Therefore, it is a man's blessing to meet an excellent woman.

Don't think that a guy is a rational creature, so when he is depressed and stressed, you better reason with him or solve problems.

Don't talk, act.

Empty words are useless and cumbersome.

So you have to support him with your actions. Or help him find information, or help him analyze ideas, or help him run the relationship to run the field and run the laboratory library.

If you can't do that, then.

You can go up and hug him gently and warm him.

You can hold his hand and not speak, just quietly look at him affectionately and listen to him.

You can take his arm and walk downstairs together, listen to him, and you will be responsible for nodding and snuggling.

On the one hand, they will think that they want to be comforted by others when they are stressed, and the same is true for their boyfriends when they are under pressure; On the other hand, they feel that their boyfriend's autistic state makes them too insecure and uncomfortable, so they will rush to drag him out of his autistic state.

This first aspect is projection, and the lack of patience to understand the needs of the other party is the embodiment of oneself; The second aspect is one's own needs.

It is undeniable that the original intention of the girl to comfort her boyfriend must be to hope that he can feel more comfortable, but it is also undeniable that the comfort is often mixed with the above two problems, causing the boy to feel more pressure.

You say you're comforting him because you're seeing him uncomfortable, but as a result, he feels even more uncomfortable.

In the face of your uninvited comfort, looking at your expectant little eyes, does he have to try to pretend to be comforted by you, or tell you not to make trouble, I have to be busy with work?

When boys feel pressured, they do need to find someone to discuss countermeasures and solutions, which is also their way of dealing with problems.

However, they themselves will reach out to someone they think can solve the problem, so if they don't look for you. Probably because they think it's useless to talk to you.

Okay, I know it sounds sad to say that to you, but that's what they are.

Therefore, if he does not take the initiative to talk to you about how to solve this problem, my personal advice is: it is better not to take the initiative to talk to them about this problem, because if you keep saying to him, "Why don't you talk to me", "It will be easier to say it", "I may be able to give you an idea", these words may increase their pressure even more.

Seeing such a question: how do men want women to be comforted when they are stressed?

For this situation, you must communicate with your boyfriend in time, and then slowly relieve your boyfriend's inner pressure and solve some confusion in his life in time, so that your boyfriend's inner pressure can be reduced and his emotional stability can be maintained.

Work pressure is a stage that many people will go through, as his girlfriend although he can't solve the problems at work, but you can accompany him, don't let him feel like he is alone.

No need to be comforted. Stress Nature will tell you about his psychological world, and Stress Nature will talk to you about the recent reality that has not gone well.

Tell him that the world is round. Even if the pressure is high, everything will still return to the dot. The key to pressure lies in your own mentality, as long as you can let go, even if you step down in the sky, there will be a mountaintop!

Adjust your mentality as soon as possible and determine your life goals! Struggle slowly, life is still long!

It's hard to find a job because of academic qualifications and skills, change one, make a plan for yourself!

It is better to comfort a stressed person and take him out and relax.

The pressure is all on your own!

Do a good job of analyzing what makes you so stressed! Thinking about putting so much pressure on yourself is good for your body? This puts so much pressure on you, so what's the worst-case scenario? Can it be improved?

If it's not good for your body, why not relax?

What's the worst-case scenario? The result is: what is the big deal What is the big deal What is the result, then if this is the only result at present, why not think about accepting it?

Can putting so much pressure on yourself change this? Think about it! Ideas try to improve the worst-case scenario that came up above.

Ask some questions so that the stressed person can think about others on his own, and try to relieve your stress, only by untying the knot in your heart can you relieve stress!

The above are my thoughts!

Little sister, I've run so far, I have time to come into my space to take a look, I hope it will help you!

The answer needs to be based on the different strategies you have in your relationship.

Ordinary friends, just a few words of comfort.

Good friend, listen to her complaints, and accompany her to vent.

Boyfriend and girlfriend, not only to accompany her to vent, but also to face with her.

I'm here. Don't be afraid, I'll carry it when the sky falls. Don't think about anything, take a good rest, watch movies, listen to songs, take a walk, modern people are stressed, and everything is fine after a few days when the mood is good. You are responsible for being beautiful like a flower, and I am responsible for making money to support my family.

Invite him to dinner.

Talk to her and maybe you can hug her.

If the president of the student council is good, it is estimated that there will not be such a big response.

It's a good opportunity and a good challenge for you.

The problems you are facing now can be trained in a simulated workplace.

It will be very helpful for your future professional life.

Pay attention to language, performance art, as long as you dare to do it, do it badly, dare to improve.

One day, you will become stronger.

It's normal to have stress at work, and the right amount of stress will improve job performance.

New work, new challenges, everything is difficult at the beginning, and you will slowly adapt.

You can ask experienced seniors and student members** to learn and straighten out relationships. Be bold, have confidence, since you have been elected as chairman, you will definitely have your advantages, and you will definitely do a good job.

When a woman is under a lot of pressure, you have to comfort them, in fact, we are living in this era now, and everyone's life is relatively stressful. Because this society is now a period of great economic development. The development of the whole society is centered on the economy, so in order not to be eliminated in this society, everyone must work hard to move forward.

We must constantly improve ourselves in order to be invincible in social competition. Then as long as you want to live your own life, then your pressure must be great. If a woman says that she is under a lot of pressure, it means that the woman's personality is relatively strong.

Ideologically more positive and motivated. If you want to comfort him at this time, the first thing you need to do is praise him and encourage him. First of all, you have to affirm his achievements and make him feel satisfied.

He will be very happy that way, too. The second is that if you help him when you can, to share his pressure, this is also the best way to comfort. Because as long as there will be competition and pressure in society, we must grasp a good attitude, turn pressure into motivation, and constantly improve ourselves.

Take control of your future.

When a woman says she is stressed, you can take her to relax, you can take her out for a trip or play and sing together, these can relieve stress and tell her to let go of all worries and live every day of life.

When you are stressed, you should relax with him, go hiking, travel, go shopping, and relieve your stress through some things in the outside world, so as to achieve a comforting effect.

When a woman says she's stressed. As a man. Be sure to comfort her. Stand up. Have the courage to take responsibility. Let the woman be less stressed.

It depends on your relationship with this girl, it is a friend and a relative. Lovers, or ordinary colleagues, choose the way to comfort her according to their identity. For example, please have a meal. Give her a small gift that she loves. Take her on a trip. Or get drunk with her.

Whenever my woman is stressed at work, I will comfort her that no matter what happens at work or in life, we should not be in a hurry, and everything will pass.

Understand each other's problems through two people's heart-to-heart chats, and solve and deal with them according to the situation of the problem, and reduce the negative emotions in each other's hearts as much as possible at this time.

You can say go eat when you're stressed, or I'll play with you.

Tell her that people have to go through a lot of hardships and hardships to complete the road of life in order to live in the world. Now it's nothing to be tired while you're young, and I'm most afraid that if you don't work hard until you're old, you won't be able to do anything, and living without economy is worse than death.

You need to take a break, I am your harbor, your dependence, don't worry, with me, you don't have to worry.

When a woman says that she is stressed, how should she comfort him and just rely on him? Tell him to take a break if he is tired, and that he can be his strong backing.

You should take her for a walk and relax, or take her for a big meal.

Are you in a relationship? Then she said that she was under pressure, and you replied directly, I will support you.

You can chat with her, watch movies, hang out, and relax.

You need to know what the stressor is, so that you can solve the problem in a targeted manner.

Manage more affairs and reduce the burden on teachers! As long as everyone works together to improve the results. Naturally, there is less pressure on the teacher.

Do her"Trash cans", just listen.

Take a walk with her, talk about your heart, exercise, maybe it will be better, remember: persevere!

either to address her spiritual needs; Either solve his real needs. No need to talk nonsense.

Spiritual needs: It may be listening, or accompaniment, ...... scolding

Practical needs: I don't need to say more.

Don't comfort her, hit ** and ask her what help she needs.

Be her blue face and listen to her.

Send her a big red envelope and buy him what she wants.

Tell her not to have so much pressure and to face each day happily.

Relax and face it, so that you can do better.

As long as you work hard, you will eventually have your own career in the future.

Pay attention silently! Then help you with it! See what you have to do with each other in moderation.