My girlfriend has completely lost her fertility due to an accident, what should I do?

Updated on parenting 2024-06-25
6 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I think it's really up to you to decide. At this moment, you should weigh whether you really need children in the relationship between you and your girlfriend, and is the love between the two of you real?

    In addition, I would like to say that there are many reasons why your girlfriend can't have children, and it may be that you caused her, and if it is the fact that you caused her, I think the two of you must face it together, because this is one of the very realistic contents given by the virtue of love. If your girlfriend's inability to have children is not caused by you, and you feel that you have to have your own children, then how much do you love your girlfriend? If you can't live without your girlfriend, it's actually possible for you to have your own children, because modern fertility technology is updated quickly.

    Of course, it is indeed difficult and stressful for boys to do this, the difficulty is to first convince themselves of their expectations for their children, and a kind of guilt for their parents and elders, and the other pressure comes from parents' ardent expectations for their children.

    Some lovers or de facto marriages are indeed breaking up because they can't have children. After all, most of us have the traditional idea of giving birth to offspring and completing the mission of passing on the ancestry, even if we are very open to this aspect, but the elders are not easy to accept. In addition, some families have lived together for several generations, and as grandparents, they will also have this kind of request for successors.

    It was neither her intention nor her fault that his girlfriend could not have children. She also longs to have a child of her own and a crystallization of her own love. But, how can God make people, she can't control it, so she must be in pain and helpless, and she will feel inferior to it.

    If, therefore, she is abandoned by the person she loves, it will undoubtedly be worse for her. Therefore, it depends on whether the love between the two people is firm, especially whether the man really loves her.

    Of course, it may be difficult for boys to choose, after all, love and filial piety may conflict at this time, if your love for your girlfriend is difficult to give up, go to your own work and your parents' work, of course, parents also don't care, for example, there are some Dink couples, their parents may also be more tolerant of this.

    Therefore, what to do is still determined by your own heart and love, and other people's opinions can only be used as a reference.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In fact, from a realistic point of view, if you can't bear it, it is recommended that you get a divorce. Because later in life, if you want a divorce, it will hurt your girlfriend even more

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It depends on whether you value the love with your girlfriend or a child of your own, if you value your own child, then you should break up with your girlfriend.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think at this time you should comfort your girlfriend more, and at the same time you can tell your girlfriend that although she is infertile, she can adopt a child by two people.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You should see if you mind, if you don't mind, do a good job of your parents' ideological work, of course, it is human nature that you choose to break up, but it is better to have a long pain than a short pain!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Then follow your heart, if you dislike her for not having children, you should give her freedom and break up with her on your own initiative.

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