Do I still need to take the initiative in this kind of love?

Talk about topics that interest him.

give rise to your common language.

Make him feel like it's a pleasure to text with you.

And then slowly alienate him, not completely out of him.

Naturally, he'll turn around and chase you.

Unfortunately to tell you, he doesn't feel much for you. It's just a matter of casual coping. If I feel for you, no matter how busy I am, I'm free, and if I don't feel for you, I'm free.

If you have been doing this for a while, please say your love for him, see how he reacts, he accepts, and bless you; If you don't accept it, find your love. Be decisive! Love can't be dragged along with mud!

Bless you!

If it were me, I would take the initiative, even if it didn't succeed, I would be willing, because the result of a thing is not important, the process is the best! Support you to take the initiative!

If he really deserves your love, why don't you confess it to him?

Although I don't have any experience in love, but, My situation seems to be similar to Ling, I also like a man, and I will take the initiative to send messages and call him, I feel as if he has a good impression of me, but it doesn't seem to be, my friend gave me a different answer, some told me to take the initiative, because it's not good that he is a very passive person, but there are also people who tell me to go with the flow, If it's the right person, Sooner or later there will be a chance to be together, and there are also told me not to pay too much attention to him, Wait for him to find out one day that Ling no longer calls him, He will start to get anxious, and will also call Ling to ask Ling why he hasn't called him recently, all in all, if Ling likes him very much, then he is worth waiting, plus I think he knows how much Ling wants it, I feel that he didn't resist Ah, This is a good start,

First: It is possible that he is really busy, maybe he doesn't want to be in a relationship yet, and he feels that he is focusing on work now.

Second: it is possible that he really only sees you as a friend, a good friend, and values you, but he does not see you as an object that can be developed or something that can be developed.

In fact, you can ask him consciously or unintentionally, what kind of girl you like. If it were me, I would ask him directly and tell him that I like you and have always liked you, but you have to worry that you might lose this friend, and if it were me, I would choose to give it a try.

It depends on whether you can do it, cold him for a few days, a few days are up to you, preferably more than three days, if he doesn't look for you at all these days, it means that he doesn't always take you to heart, you can change the direction

I guess you don't know him very well, he may be really busy, you can get to know him more than 1 time, and see what he's busy with

In fact, the man hates the woman the most from time to time to ask him if he likes you, so don't ask, the best way is to suddenly don't take the initiative to text him, he is just used to you sending him, he won't worry because he knows that you will send him, but if you suddenly don't send it, he will not get used to it, and when he can't help it, he will send it, I just use this trick, quite useful.

Those who understand know how to give up, those who are true know how to sacrifice, and those who are happy know how to detach. For those who don't love themselves, what is most needed is understanding, renunciation, and blessing. Too much self-inflicted affection is begging for alms.

Loving and being loved are all things that make people happy. Don't let this turn into pain.

There are many times in life when you need to consciously give up, because when you have, you may be losing, and when you give up, you may be regaining.

I guess he's dealing with you. Let's talk to him clearly. If he likes you, he will have results. Otherwise, forget it. Find another one, there are many men.

First of all, I want to declare: I'm not here for your score, and I can't bear to leave you some advice looking at your pain! Although it is not a generation of love saints, it also has a wealth of experience in falling out of love.

Scenario: I think you've probably heard of "rebellious psychology". Most people in today's society have this kind of "rebellious" heart. In medicine, it is called "rebellious psychology"! If you can take advantage of this character, you will definitely be proud of the spring breeze and smile proudly!

Method: 1. Insist on giving her information every day. The hotter the better!

2. A week later, suddenly I didn't give her a single message!

3. When she takes the initiative to send you a message, you have to pretend to be cold!

4. It's too late to give me extra points!

The best way to keep a man is to let him know that you can leave him at any time.

If he makes you feel tired, then don't make yourself so hard and be free.

You definitely have to take the initiative to pull.

She wants to save face, and she takes care of it too much.

Whatever is spread out, it is the best way to say it clearly, or he is used to your initiative.

Try not texting him for a few days if he doesn't contact you either.

Just make it clear to him how you feel.

If you keep speculating like this, you will be very tired of contradictions, and you are not him, and you don't understand what he is like.

It's better to ask him face to face, or get to know all the friends around him.

Tell him this. If you don't change, you will be replaced. You deserve to find a better one.

Get away from him for a while and see what kind of feelings he really has for you.

Maybe he's not sure about his feelings for you, give him a little time.

The person who falls in love first will always be the first to text the other person.

It has something to do with his personality, just love yourself!!

Just ask him this question!

I don't feel like I love you. If I love you, I will tolerate everything for you, and I will be desperate to solve problems for you. He won't insist on you when you're not feeling well, he only cares about himself, if he really loves you, how could he give you to others so easily before he left? ?

Let's separate, don't lose your lifelong happiness because of age!! Rather lack than excess.

It's changed, people have changed, it's become very realistic, and reality is inhumane.

Maybe the problem is in you, no one doesn't want a ruined boy you love doesn't love you, you may not love him enough, I used to have a good impression of a boy, until she confessed to me, I found myself a little depressed in my heart before I found out that I didn't love him, maybe you are the same, however, the feeling of affection is slowly cultivated, you try to think about his point, since you have started dating, it is better to cherish it, even if it may fail in the end, but you will say to yourself at that time: "I have a clear conscience, At least I'm too late. "I think your feelings appear to be in love with him not deep enough, just out of affection.

Hope, thank you!

No light, feelings are like this, for i I am emotionless, I think love is a responsibility, there will be contradictions in the banquet hall every day, I don't see it will want to see, people are like this, do what you like, don't know that thinking too much will make you very tired, and you can't afford to put it down.

I've had this feeling ... Talked about it for 8 months. Your current situation is that you are far away, and you have nothing to say.

Don't wait any longer and break up. He doesn't deserve your wait.

The Scorpio man is generally very sensitive to feelings, and sometimes even perceives your feelings for him before you do. If he really cares about you, he won't let female netizens live at home at all. Even a simple friendship will not.

Truth be told, you're paying too much. Scorpio men are mostly active in love. Allowing that girl to move in at the beginning I'm sure you've had a long mental struggle, but it's not worth it, really.

I think you're testing me too, such a long paragraph of text without punctuation.

I think maybe your parents hurt him! He is also conflicted when he hurts you again.

Go tell him about your plans.

Say you're tired and see how he reacts. If there is no response, leave this kind of person.

This is luring the wolf into the house. Now the practice is that rushing is not a deal, the more you take the initiative to force him, the more he thinks netizens are good. The more arrogant you are, the more you treat him with a high-level attitude of charity, and the more he feels precious to do that kind of thing.

No, really get rid of this flowery guy, as the saying goes, you can't die if you faint, it hurts sooner or later, it's better to hurt early. Don't be superstitious about horoscopes, judge people's qualities and intentions based on their behavior, and plan a way to deal with them. This is the best way to go.

Let's talk to him, talk to him, maybe it's good to be friends. ......

I still think she still loves you, after all, it was your fault first, and you ran away and left everything behind, do you know that after she gave birth to a child for you, she may have to endure a lot of rumors, who is his father? And now that you're back with her, she doesn't want to let you go anymore, so she can only do this to keep you on a leash.

Personally, I think she still loves you, but now that she has a child and cares, she can't care about anything like before, you have to take this into account and give her enough security.

Sometimes a girl asks you for money, not to say that she really likes your money, but that she is testing whether you are sincere to her, she is pregnant, you abandoned her, do you know how big the trauma in her heart is? A girl is doing ** on the operating table, the physical pain and psychological pain are understandable to you men, and you are still leaving him at this time, I think she may be very disappointed in you, use her way to give you a chance, see if you think money is important or she is important, I hope my answer will help you.

It's definitely not the same as before. Or darkened, or faded. You know, women are more vulnerable than men.

Moreover, if you run away, does it mean that you have abandoned her. When she is lonely, she must be uncomfortable, and when it is the hardest, her man is not around.

If you love her, protect her.

Love is definitely not the same as it used to be! Ask yourself if you love him, and if so, you can! Don't love, leave!

Don't ask anyone else such a major question, can you clearly describe the grievances and hatreds between the two of you in just a few dozen words? We can't tell if she's still in love with you. I wish you all happiness.

It seems like it's up to you to feel it, right?

What you can't get is good.

Don't ask for a man with a heart.

If a man really likes you, even if he won't tell the world, he won't be ambiguous, and he won't talk about love without basic loyalty.

You don't trust him anymore, what are you doing with him? Silly... It's not worth it for such people.

If a man really loves you, he will definitely take care of your feelings first, and will never be ambiguous with others again and again. In this state, even if you are together, your relationship will be clouded by this incident.

You're just a donkey, he's still looking for a horse.