Do feelings have to experience disappointment and helplessness?

Maybe it's true, not every relationship ends happily and dreams come true. Be your best in the world of feelings, in love, maybe we will give in and change for love, but it is commendable to still maintain the innocence of oneself, love someone is to love all the bits and pieces of him (her), how can you bear to be hurt by love!

Yes. Feelings are also a part of life, and life is complicated, just like there are continents and oceans. What you need to face is not to look at the ocean, but to sail like Columbus, to find a new continent.

Yes, it is a process that must be experienced in an emotional and cannot be avoided.

Not necessarily, some will be sweet from the beginning to the end, the main thing is whether two people will adjust together.

In fact, relationships do sometimes experience some disappointment and helplessness, but no matter what, make yourself strong.

After experiencing more and growing, it is easy to have a correct prediction of the direction of each relationship, and there is no so-called disappointment.

It's really unnecessary, because it's useless, you can't change the facts, if it's not suitable, you don't have to think so much, if you want to divide, divide it quickly, don't waste time; Anyway, I used to be like this, and I have this attitude now, so only men are nostalgic for me, and there is no reason for this baby to be entangled.

No, if the other person loves you and you love the other person, everything can be said openly, on the contrary, if the other person doesn't like you and is with you just can't bear to refuse your courtesy, then sooner or later this relationship will experience disappointment and heartache.

Maybe, on the eve of the college entrance examination, the female ticket broke up, and my dormitory was blocked by a curtain at that time, so I cried behind the curtain, and I felt like I had been crying for hours, and the tears couldn't stop flowing. The next day, I sent a "good morning" text message to the female ticket, and the female ticket's reply was: Please don't do this, at that time, tears came down at once, and I was still studying in the morning, I watched my buddies sleeping next to me, and some of the classmates around me were writing hard, and some were whispering.

But it felt like everything had nothing to do with me, only the gray sky outside for me. Then I called my parents and took me home. That day was our 1042nd day together.

What everyone said, experiencing the love of Fengfeng Yuyu together is true love, but I don't think so, after the experience, it depends on what reactions the two parties have psychologically, but I give a mind, at your age, what kind of love do you like the most, go and try boldly.

I shared it with Mr. once. June 6 of last year. We were hysterical to the point that the tone was weak and said, let's break up.

After that, I commute to and from work normally. Gather with colleagues normally. I calmly told my friends that I was single.

Friends around me slowly introduce new friends. Until a boy confessed to me. At that moment, I suddenly thought of him, of those smiling eyes.

I thought that I would have to live with another person for the rest of my life. In the restaurant, I cried so much that I couldn't help myself. Probably this is the helplessness and disappointment that many people can experience after falling out of love.

In my opinion, the saddest thing in a relationship should be the slow disappointment of the other half! You must know that being completely disappointed in a person is not a momentary thing, but a slow accumulation, in the whole process, it is actually constantly giving the other party a chance, hoping that the other party can make certain changes for themselves and for the relationship, but every time it ends in disappointment. After accumulating a lot of times, you will no longer have any expectations for this person, and in the end, you will be completely disappointed in your other half.

As for whether I have any experiences that have touched and disappointed others, I don't really know myself, but I think I do, after all, I am not such a perfect person. But let me tell me what I have disappointed others, in fact, I don't know myself, this kind of thing is only understood by the person who has feelings. But for myself, I really have moments when I'm disappointed in my other half.

I'm going to talk about when he did something that disappointed me. <>

First, not motivated. I think for all girls, when they are a little older, they actually value their boyfriends more. The girl definitely wants to be with someone who can give her enough security, not necessarily how rich the other party must be, but at least he is willing to work hard for the future life of the two.

So self-motivation is really important. But the boyfriend I was talking about at the time really didn't know how to be motivated at all, and I really couldn't see the future with him, and he didn't correct it after I told him many times, and slowly became disappointed in him. <>

2. I don't matter to him. Another reason for my disappointment is that I slowly realize that I don't seem to be important to him, I can't say that I don't have any place at all, but as long as I come across other people and other things, I will always be the one who is ignored and needs to be compromised. Slowly, the gap in my heart will get bigger and bigger, and I will become less and less hopeful about this relationship.

When the two of us first got together, the relationship was very strong at that time, but at that time I was also very contrived, always looking for each other's faults because of various problems, once I was two hours late for a date, and he criticized me at that time, I was very unhappy at that time, I threatened him with a breakup, and that incident made him very disappointed.

I also had the experience of being particularly disappointed by the other party, because I was going to promise him to do it, and I was full of expectations, but in the end it was delayed because of some other things.

Of course, there have been, because everyone's needs are different, and the requirements for their partners are also different, so it is normal to not meet the standards of others.

No, because I know each other better and don't feel the need to do something to hurt each other in a relationship.

I have also experienced disappointment in the relationship, and the most disappointing thing for me is that I have tried my best, but I still haven't kept her, she said: I still like handsome boys.

told me that she still likes handsome boys, and I was like a bolt from the blue at that time, what kind of reason is this, can't we be together if you are not handsome?

You like handsome guys, so I used to be like this, why do you want to be with me? You said to break up, then break up, why bother to hit my self-esteem like this before breaking up, I was already very fragile, I didn't expect that the person I liked was actually such a person, I sneered at him at that time, hehe, and then turned around and walked away.

I didn't read that sentence

Really, that sentence is still very sharp, and every time I think about it, I feel very painful in my heart, not because I am handsome or not, but because I met such a woman, can people really be so superficial? Isn't all my dedication to her worth a handsome face? I'm so disappointed, and this disappointment comes from the fact that I didn't pay for it at the beginning.

Besides, I wasn't very handsome when I came into contact with her, and this condition was all here, and she didn't mean to object, and then after getting along for a long time, I felt that I wasn't handsome enough, what does this mean, is it using me as a spare tire? Later, I decided that maybe I was one of the many spare tires, and now the spare tires are no longer needed, so there is no value in existing.

There is a kind of damage that is fulfillment

After many years, the two of us met at the class reunion, and I never opened the knot, so after drinking two glasses of wine, I bravely asked her why she did that to me at the beginning, and she said a few words that made me feel sad, which probably means that the reason why she said that was to deliberately self-destruct her image, and wanted me to stop thinking about her, and then quickly forget about this relationship and start a new relationship. Am I really to blame her?

Emotion is a part of the whole of attitude, which is in harmony with the introverted feelings and intentions in the attitude, and is a complex and stable physiological evaluation and experience of the attitude. Emotions include a sense of morality and a sense of value, which are manifested in love, happiness, hatred, disgust, beauty, and so on.

After experiencing the first huge disappointment, I still don't believe that there is no love in the world, I just want to stubbornly love someone, rush into it desperately, plan him into all kinds of small details, but because I was too enthusiastic he let go first.

We started out well when we first fell in love, but then we became away from home because of his work, and every time we promised to come to see me, but in the end we missed the appointment, and this experience disappointed me to the point of despair.

There is nothing more disappointing in a relationship than when you are happy and ready to do something, but in the end it does not achieve the desired effect, or for some reason does not implement it.

In the relationship, I have experienced the disappointment of only paying for him but not getting it in return, and in the end it is myself who is hurt.

When I loved him a lot, I suddenly found that there was another woman in his chat list who commented on the baby.

The boyfriend I found is different from what I imagined, and there is always a gap between reality and fantasy.

If the other person doesn't believe me, it's verbally attacking me, and always going against me, I'll be disappointed.

He is always busy with work, and he makes his work the center of gravity, and sometimes he doesn't come back to eat when I'm done cooking. I waited for him to eat at home every day.