Why do some people feel that they are no longer happy when they grow up?

When I was younger, my dream was to grow up as quickly as possible so that I could be free from my parents' nagging. When I was in college, I was like a wild horse off the leash every day, I could do whatever I wanted without the permission of my parents, and I could go to K singing with my classmates until late and then sneak back to school. Anyway, my parents don't know, what a happy life!

Later, I worked, made money, no longer reached out to my parents to ask for money to spend, and spent my weekends in a rented house in a foreign land, sleeping until I woke up naturally, and no one would urge me to get up and clean up my room. Later, I started to fall in love, get married, have children, and work hard for my career, although the stage of sweat and tears has passed, but occasionally in the silent night, in countless sleepless nights, there will be an inexplicable sadness and regret in my heart: I don't want to grow up, I want to go back to when I was a child, even if my parents' nagging can annoy me to death, I am willing to go back.

The growth of life from the starting point to the young Fanghua, to the fierce struggle of youth, to the hard struggle of middle age...Always from the innocent, carefree feelings slowly turned into thoughtful, worried, complex social outlook, life outlook, since then defeated the carefree when childhood. People yearn for beauty and want to always have a happy and fashionable state of mind, but with the evolution of the years, we can't control all the ups and downs encountered in the journey of life after we grow up. And not wanting to grow up has become the only excuse for people to comfort themselves.

The long river of years and the life of experience, we don't want to grow up, but we are afraid that our annoyances will multiply when we grow up.

It's not that I'm not happy anymore, it's not easy to be happy! This is very common and normal, after graduating from school, you will face marriage and children, and the children who were originally taken care of will face all kinds of challenges and difficulties after marriage, and it is really difficult to be happy!

If you have thoughts, you will not be happy if you are stressed! At a certain stage of history, some people, or even most people, will be reduced to machines, which cannot be changed. Without thought, you can't understand what happiness is.

If you have a little thought, you will be very stressed, and you will also be unhappy. A very thoughtful person, even if there is a little stress, will be unhappy.

We are starting to have responsibilities on our bodies, our parents are getting old, we have young children to raise, and that's what a person has to go through. Although happiness is not as pure as before, it still exists in our lives, and our sense of responsibility makes us more mature and stand up to the sky! Even if we have to carry a burden forward in the future, it is also a responsibility that we must bear, happiness comes from the purity of the heart, the purer you are, the simpler you are, the happier you are.

It's not that we're unhappy when we grow up, it's that the youth that can make us happy is gone, the source of our happiness is close to drying up, we can no longer do what we want to do as unscrupulously as we did when we were young, and we can no longer "go on a trip" as we did when we were single.

Why does everyone feel that youth is the happiest time of their lives? Even things that seemed very painful at the time, such as failing to get a course and falling out of love, are extremely sweet when I think back now. At that time, we had no money, and at the end of the month, we had no living expenses and ate instant noodles almost every day, but I felt that it was more fragrant than the sea cucumber and abalone we eat now.

At that time, the girl I liked couldn't afford to buy a famous bag diamond ring, it was just a crooked love letter, but I felt that the love at that time was so pure and sweet.

Because when you grow up, you have to take on a lot of responsibilities, and when you are in pain, you can't cry like when you were a child.

When you grow up, you have a lot to think about, you have to take on the responsibilities of an adult, and you can't just think about nothing like you did in childhood.

As people get older, the pressure on people to live or work increases.

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