What should I do if my third grade child is slow to do homework and slow to eat?

My child was like this before last year, and she was beaten a few times during meals for this reason, but the beating could not cure her problem, and the problem still had to be found in our parents.

Why is he reluctant to eat instead of KFC?

Why is he reluctant to do his homework and watch TV instead?

It must be that the food is not as delicious as KFC, his appetite prefers fried and grilled, this thing is fragrant, and children love to eat it, so we imitate KFC to make his favorite dishes and slowly adjust his appetite.

Most people love to watch TV, which is a spiritual enjoyment, and you can feel the joys and sorrows in it. And how lonely and boring it is to do homework, purely for the sake of completing a certain task. And if he can get a lot of praise from others when he does it, he will be happy to do boring things.

In addition, children who do not sleep well and are in a poor mental state can also have such a situation. If it's okay, go to bed with your child early!

Parents have a headache, and children are actually very uncomfortable. After a long time, you may have to wait until the fourth grade, but in fact, if you eat KFC every day, it may not be much better.

1. Let the child feed him when he is hungry, and if he doesn't eat, he will be hungry first;

2. Don't pay too much attention to what you eat or what you don't eat when you eat, just treat him as an adult;

3. Give him an alarm clock when he sleeps, let him get up by himself, if he can't get up, let him be late, and he will lose face.

The point is that we adults care too much about him, and we want him to realize that eating, sleeping, and going to school are his own business, and we want him to live like a man.

1. Stop urging rotten liquid and insist on praise. When children do things slowly, many parents like to shout and constantly urge, but the result is that the more urging, the more the child's actions are disliked, the parents are more angry, and the child does something fast, so he praises. Through praise, it will stimulate the child's inner motivation.

2. The time saved is at the discretion of the child. Many parents like to assign some homework within the family to their children, such as what the parents will assign to read English after the child completes the homework assigned by the teacher, and the child has just finished reading English, and the parents arrange to do the Olympiad math problems. Wait a minute.

In short, parents make adequate arrangements for their children. The child also sees the problem, that is, whenever the child has free time, the parent will arrange the task. Therefore, the child's countermeasure is to break it up and play while writing while writing homework.

This drags on for a long time, and because the homework assigned by the teacher is not completed, the parents will not arrange another task. The child plays while he is doing his homework. Countermeasures:

Make a rough time estimate of the homework assigned by the teacher every day, and make a time estimate of the tasks that the child needs to complete (including the tasks assigned by the parents). Be sure to give your child time to rest (discretionary time). If it takes a total of one and a half hours, then the child will finish it in an hour and a half (or even in advance with quality and quantity), and the rest of the time must be at the disposal of the child himself, if he plays with his favorite toys, or plays games for a while, does physical exercise for a while, etc.

It's about doing what kids love to do. After developing this habit, children will hurry up to complete their homework because they will have a lot of time to play after writing early.

3. Training from living habits. You can only start with your living habits, first give him a set time, and ask him to complete what he wants to do within the specified time.

Parents guide their children to be more productive. Parents should start from their own children, analyze the reasons why their children are unable to complete homework, analyze the biggest difficulties of their children's slow homework, and then formulate improvement plans according to the reasons. If it is an attitude problem, it is still necessary to help the child correct the learning attitude, which can help the child complete a certain subject homework within the specified time, so that the homework will be more efficient and will not waste time.

If the difficulty of the homework is too difficult, you can teach the child to complete the easy ones first, and then write the most difficult ones last, so that planning the homework can improve the efficiency of the child's homework. The competition in education is becoming more and more fierce, not only junior high school students are under great academic pressure, even primary school students are faced with the situation that they cannot finish their homework in the early morning, and primary school students who are still in the development stage can not even guarantee the basic sleep time, and many parents feel that it is not conducive to the healthy development of their children in the long run.

What are the reasons why you can't finish your homework?The weight of the work is not heavy on quality. Nowadays, primary school students are crazy about the number of homework, hoping to let children remember what they have learned by writing more, because there are many subjects for primary school students, all subjects together increase the burden of schoolwork on primary school students, making them unable to complete homework tasks in time.

The difficulty of the job is out of range. Nowadays, the content of primary school textbooks is very rich, the types of questions are also varied, and the difficulty of the exam is also increasing, and the teacher always sends a lot of papers to students every day in order to get excellent results in the exam, and these papers are also very difficult, and the primary school students will spend a lot of time to complete their homework. Writing assignments is not concentrated.

Primary school students are not self-conscious enough, and they are easy to get distracted when writing homework.

1. Slow writing, this can't be done.

To improve, I can suggest that he do some calligraphy exercises, but at this age, he is learning to sketch with strokes.

When it is not suitable to contact too many ligatures, many ligatures are simply wrong strokes, which affect the child's correct writing habits, which can only make him learn to write more seriously, let him concentrate a little, and it should be faster and faster;

2. Slow to do questions. In fact, the homework assignment is all about today's knowledge in class, so it will not be difficult. If the so-called questions are slow, either he didn't listen carefully in class or his mind was not on the homework, as long as he concentrates on reading the questions once, he should also have ideas, at most three times, this question still won't, just skip it, and think back after it's done.

In this way, he develops a good habit of doing questions, and he usually does the same order of questions in exams, but make sure that he is single-minded.

3. Too many small movements. If you pay attention to it, you will find that he will play with his mobile phone for a while, rub the eraser or something, and this is not a problem of slow homework......You can accompany him to do his homework, the things in the third grade will not be very difficult, and you will not forget so thoroughly, or even if not, some things dare not teach him in vain, but also accompany him, tell him what to do first, what steps, supervise the completion of one by one, give him a plan, and slowly let him do it himself after forming a habit. You can walk away and ask him on time where he has come, what difficulties he needs help with, and make sure he is focused on his homework.

4. It is recommended to buy two pairs of calligraphy for the child if you have nothing to do, one to describe and one to write ......Now the children's handwriting is so bad......

Set a certain amount of time for him to finish his homework and then give him some prizes.

Read more books. Accumulate more. If you want to be fast, you can only write whatever comes to mind. After writing it, it is being revised repeatedly.

Take your time and don't rush it, teach your child knowledge slowly, maybe you are not too proficient in knowledge.

Now it must be corrected, parents pay close attention, guide the whole process, and start to develop good study habits.

1. Determine whether the child belongs to the type of spoiled child, if it is the kind of deliberate rubbing, it should be done immediately.

Give a resolute toughness right and wrong, such as I have a student who is grinding like this, I deal with him by throwing it directly into the toilet, and then come out after writing, and basically finish it in a while.

2. Determine if the child will not. If the child doesn't, he may write slowly, and he can't be too tough at this time, and he should rationally consider that the child will not, and then find a teacher or teach himself, but to tell the truth, as long as the child's IQ is okay with the content of the third grade of primary school, it will basically be, unless he doesn't listen to the class in class.

3. Establish a reward and punishment mechanism, if the child finishes it on time and ensures the quality, the child can be free to entertain; If you can't do that, then you will be punished resolutely. Generally speaking, children are very slow, and basically parents are ...... who spoil their children

Here are a few tips for reference:

1. Parental responsibility: arrange the children every day, how much homework to do, if they do not complete it on time, they will use the use of straining their muscles and bones, starving their body skin or tiger chair pepper water, etc. (This method should be used with caution by the progenitives, remember!) )

2. Tang monk type of Journey to the West: It is to tirelessly enlighten and teach children, to achieve that as soon as you open your mouth, he has a kind of learning is the happiest thing in the world. (The effective power of this method can reach less than 1%)

3. Motivation and affection: magnify the advantages of the child, tactfully point out the shortcomings, and you know no less about the child's hobbies than him, so that his trust in you continues to increase. It's okay to discuss teachers, classmates, and TV dramas with your child, which is a good parent-child behavior.

This is the legendary mentor and friend).

By the way, adults are willing to play, let alone children, if I don't play greedily, I will end elementary school early!

What should I do if my child is particularly slow to write homework? There are two reasons, one is unwilling to do it, and the other is that it will not be done.

What should I do if my child in the third grade of primary school is very slow?

There are several reasons why children are slow in writing homework: (1) Slow copying speed.

Children who write slowly read one character and write one word at a time, while children who write fast read two characters at a time, so they write quickly. If you remember two words at a time, the child's visual memory ability is very strong, and the child's visual memory is not strong when reading a word and then writing a word, and the spatial thinking ability is not good. (2) Perfection Children write slowly, and there is a very important reason, that is, children always want to write perfectly, and when they write, they use an eraser to erase, erase and write, so that they repeatedly erase and prolong the time for writing homework.