What are the pros and cons of late bloomers

In terms of benefits, late-maturing people are simple and clean, kind-hearted, less troubled, and simple in character; On the downside, they are immature, vulnerable, naïve, and distracting from interpersonal interactions.

1. The benefits of late ripening.

1. Simple and clean.

Everything is relative, and the so-called maturity must contain the bad side, that is, the sophistication of the world, the way of the world, and the hearts of the people. And before maturity, it often means the person's ideology and ideology.

Most of them are in the state of pure purity.

2. Be kind-hearted.

As the saying goes, "human nature is inherently good", when a person's character is not polluted by the outside world, it is often located on the side of kindness, and after maturity, its degree of kindness will vary from person to person.

3. Less trouble.

Maturity itself marks the accumulation of experience, and in the process of accumulation, troubles are indispensable. Therefore, when you mature later, you will have less troubles.

4. Rustic personality.

Before a person matures, his mind is often not as complex as after he matures. Therefore, for people before maturity, the relative character is simple and realistic, and after maturity, there are more problems to consider, and the simplicity will decrease, so it is said that people who mature late are relatively simple in character.

Second, the disadvantages of late maturity.

1. Immaturity.

From a social point of view, immaturity is a lack of understanding and experience of life, so it is often regarded as a child.

2. Vulnerable to injury.

When you are in an immature state, your view and understanding of problems are often different from those of society, and you are vulnerable to reality.

3. Naive. The depth of viewing and handling problems is insufficient, and there is a lack of mature ideological concepts. It's easy to suffer losses in life.

4. Hindering interpersonal communication.

Because of being in a state of immaturity, in the process of speaking, acting and doing things, they will unintentionally do many things that hinder the public opinion and cause dissatisfaction among others.

The importance of maturity.

When a person reaches a certain age, he will always have the quality of being down-to-earth and steady. This kind of person is mature, and mature people have a natural sense of closeness, and working with them will always make people comfortable and down-to-earth. This feeling is important, and being in society is a valuable quality to be able to make others feel safe and comfortable.

Relying on this quality, it will be easier to succeed and realize your own value. Such a person sits face-to-face and does not speak, even if there is no communication, it will make people feel comfortable, and this is the charm of maturity. Mature people will regard silence as a lifelong practice; No matter how much you talk, it's better to do something down-to-earth and reassuring.

Benefits:1Late-bloomers are more patient, more likely to understand complex things, and more likely to master new skills.

2.Late-bloomers are more confident, more capable of taking on challenges, and more likely to succeed.

3.Late-bloomers are more likely to have better social skills and are more likely to have better relationships.

Disadvantage: 1Late-maturing people may develop one step later than others, such as learning ability, career development, etc.

2.Late-bloomers may develop social skills, such as communication, social skills, etc., one step later than others.

3.Late-maturing people may develop self-awareness, such as self-control, self-awareness, etc., later than others.

Mo Yan wrote in "The Late Bloomer": "It's not too much to fall in love with anything when you're young, and give up when you're mature."

Nothing is wrong. Everyone is looking for the person who is close to their soul all their lives, only to find out later that the only fit is themselves, people with good nature are relatively late, and they are ripened by inferior people, and later although they are enlightened, they are still kind and sincere, constantly looking for the same kind, and finally become a lonely person. "Read it several times.

The act of ripening itself made me a little stunned. The part that I didn't like back then was nothing more than the part of human nature that I didn't want to admit. Growth is inevitable, we can't be children forever, just like I can't stay with my grandmother forever, Cheng Huan knees, listen to her gossip in the cicadas of the summer night, I will grow up, she will age, until finally separated from me forever, all the green of spring and summer, to the autumn will also turn golden.

I understand that from the age of 20 to the age of 30, the process in between is long and short, and the confusion, low self-esteem, anxiety, and self-doubt, and inability to find the direction of departure are all necessary to experience in life, and true happiness cannot be obtained by escaping, but by serious growth and active commitment. Life will bring you truth, vision will bring you vision, the coming and going of your surroundings, ups and downs.

will make you think, and then cherish. Every time I wake up, I am fighting monsters and upgrading, accumulating thick and thin, and breaking out of the cocoon into a butterfly. Most importantly, remember to like yourself at every stage, be kind, keep your armor, and not be afraid of loneliness. It would be better.

Recently, I was reading Mo Yan's ** "Late Bloomer". It describes some living conditions in rural Shandong, and we can also understand some philosophies of life from it.

Late-maturing people are mainly characterized by pure nature, not tactful, and not so-called sophistication.

People who are good by nature are late maturing, and they are made to ripen by bad people. Later, although he was enlightened, he was still kind and sincere, constantly looking for his kind, and finally became the loneliest one.

Now I find that I am the kind of late-blooming person, not bothered by being too simple and ignorant of human feelings, and is considered to be the kind with very low emotional intelligence.

Sometimes I also want to learn from other people's exquisite faces, say some beautiful words, and make people happy. But I really feel that it is too tiring to do that, physically and mentally exhausting.

Then it is better to be a sincere person, although it will be a little late, and there will be no bargain in the society, but I don't think it will suffer too much.

Because I believe that God will favor those whose hearts are sunny, open, and hardworking.

"People with good natures are relatively late-maturing, and they are ripened by bad people, and although they are enlightened, they are still kind and sincere. ”

What I understand as late maturity is not really a young age and naivety in mind. No one is truly innocent, but a person's choice. Knowing the world but not the world, he has encountered the dark side of life, but he still chooses to be pure and bright.

It's not an exaggeration to fall in love with anything when you're young, and it's not wrong to give up anything when you're mature. What we have to do is to live calmly in our own rhythm with a sincere and determined attitude that is neither humble nor arrogant.

Unhurried, tireless.

In life, which is about reaching and finding, we never stop growing.