I abandoned me after paying her rent for five years, can I call the police and get it back?

It's not easy, this one must have a loan certificate, such as your chat screenshots, transfer records, and you must be able to prove that this is the money you lent her, otherwise it is a voluntary gift, and it will not be returned at all.

You can sue this friend and ask for the money back.

If you transferred money to the landlord, then you can also find the landlord and ask to rent the house to you, or refund the rent you gave him.

It's okay to call the police, but if you want to say that you have been maliciously cheated of money, because ordinary civil disputes and economic disputes don't matter, and fraud involves criminal offenses, you will be managed. If you look at it roughly, it means that the people say that you have been deceived, but if you and she both say that you paid the rent voluntarily, or you lent money to pay the rent to her, then it is an economic dispute or even an emotional dispute, and you will not care. If you were designed by her, deceived to pay rent, or even deceived of other property, and the overall amount is large, then you may be suspected of fraud.

For example, you'd better find a lawyer nearby to explain the details in detail and ask a lawyer to help you come up with an idea.

This question is not easy to define, because there is no evidence between you to prove that you borrowed the money from her, if you have not broken up, you will definitely not ask for this money, this money is a gift under a certain relationship (boyfriend and girlfriend), unless you have clear evidence that the money was lent to her temporarily, otherwise it will not be returned.

Apologize, and take the initiative to say that you will pay it back monthly, 1000 or 500 per month, so as to show your sincerity in returning, of course, this time you have to do what you say, and people will not think that you are not keeping your promises.

It's not difficult to borrow well and borrow again, you can't pay it back all at once, you should pay it back slowly, and do your best at one time, so that you can also show your sincerity.

Ask him out for dinner alone, let's be blunt, although it may feel a little awkward, but it won't have much impact on your friendship in the future.

Let's just say I don't have any money now

You're too. Since you borrowed money and said when you will pay it back, you have to save it yourself before then, now hurry up and save it. The most important thing is to return it to others as soon as possible, and say more about the substantive use of rice.

People are very sensitive to get along with each other, especially when it comes to money, which is really troublesome.

However, I think since the other party is willing to lend money to you, you should trust you more, if the relationship is iron enough, you can have a heart-to-heart conversation with the other party, be sincere, say what is in your heart, and let the other party understand your difficulties, provided that the other party does not use money for the time being, if the other party is in a hurry, it is not easy to say.

If you are really afraid that your relationship will be affected because of your dishonesty several times, there is only one most helpless but also the most effective way - tearing down the west wall and making up the east wall. It's not bad to borrow money from other places and pay it back, which can not only save your reputation, but also buy you more time to raise money.

I wish you a speedy way out of this difficult situation!

You can repay a part of it to others first, such as 5,000 yuan or 2,000 yuan first, and express your sincerity in repaying the money with actions. Then explain your difficulties to others sincerely, and in the end, the important thing is that you still have to work hard to earn money and try to pay it back to others as soon as possible. Now, you can't give it back to someone at all.

Give people hope and confidence.

You should first borrow some money from other friends who have a better relationship and pay back his money first, and then you save money to repay this friend as soon as possible, so that you will have more time to save this 10,000 yuan. I think it's a good way to do it, after all, it's a matter of credibility and can't be pushed any more!

Ask someone out for dinner.

Then pay back the previous part first.

Discuss with the creditor.

It's okay to push it a few times.

This time, show some sincerity.

Don't let him think you're talking like you're talking.

I think he lent it to you because you have a relationship.

Then be brave enough to make it clear.

I had to push it again, but I will definitely not be able to borrow money from others in the future, so it's best to find a way to pay it back quickly, and my reputation is not good

There is no way to do this, and it is a matter of course to repay debts. If you really don't have it, you can't do it, you can sincerely talk to the creditor, you really can't get the money, and there is no way. But you can't just ignore people, so that people think you don't want to pay back or excuse yourself.

Communicate well with creditors.

"My girlfriend may use my offer to break up as a reason and threaten me not to pay back. "Your girlfriend's reason is completely untenable in law, no matter who proposes to break up first, the bride price must be properly returned, first negotiate with her to return it, if not, find a lawyer to sue in court.

Why do you ask the same question again, brother?

1. After the creditor files a lawsuit with the court and wins, if the debtor fails to perform the court judgment within the performance period, the creditor may apply to the court for compulsory enforcement. When the court accepts the enforcement, it will inquire about the real estate, vehicles, ** and deposits in the debtor's name in accordance with the law. In addition, if the debtor has no property in his name that can be used for enforcement and he refuses to perform the effective judgment of the court, there will be negative information such as overdue repayment recorded in the individual's credit report, and he will be restricted from high consumption and entry and exit, and may even be subject to judicial detention.

2. In the case of refusal to enforce the judgment or ruling despite the ability, it is suspected of the crime of refusing to enforce the judgment or ruling.

The law stipulates: Article 313 of the Criminal Law [Crime of Refusing to Enforce a Judgment or Ruling] Whoever refuses to enforce a judgment or ruling of a people's court if he has the ability to do so, and the circumstances are serious, shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than three years, short-term detention, or a fine.

If you don't have 80,000 yuan, you will say that you have given 80,000 yuan, and you will deduct 30,000 yuan from the interest on your loan in advance. They didn't take out a loan of 80,000, but he said it was 80,000, but in fact he gave 30,000 to the younger. They didn't give you the 30,000 yuan, so they all wanted you, and you repaid the 30,000 account loan.

This is a loan shark, that is a routine that is too extensive, if it is really a legitimate bank, he will definitely close the door if he engages in this fraud and extortion, you will take the relevant evidence bills and the recording of their speech to the court. According to the court, they will find someone who understands the law to help you file a complaint.

In this case, you can submit an application directly to the bank, please explain, and then you can repay the loan in advance, and it does not need to be too complicated.

Don't take advantage of what you shouldn't take, it may be that the boss is testing you, if you are greedy for this little advantage, maybe.

As long as you remember it clearly, you must return it. If you pay it back, there may be more room for you to develop. I have a friend who has also experienced a similar thing, because his company's purchaser was "sick", the boss asked him to buy materials, and told my friend when he took it away, this material is about 2000 yuan per ton, as a result, my friend went to inquire, 1800 yuan per ton, and rebates, he ordered 50 tons at a time, in fact, if you don't tell the boss, my friend can earn tens of thousands of dollars at a time, but he finally told the boss, the boss didn't say anything at the time, and within a few days, he was promoted to sales manager, in fact, The boss knows that the material costs a ton more, but he thinks that my friend is very talented, and he wants to test his character?

Don't fall for it! Ha ha.

En well, she must have done it on purpose, how nice it would be if I had such a good boss.

Good people!

If she was like that, you're sure you're not mistaken. I feel that I can't get over it, so I can invite her to dinner or sing or something. This way you will at least feel more comfortable!

It may be that I don't want you to pay back the money, I want to help you but I'm afraid that you will be embarrassed, so I deliberately remember it wrong. Hehe, if you have the ability, you will continue to pay it back, if you can't pay it back now, keep the boss's kindness to you in mind, and repay her well in the future. You have to know how to repay it.

Your boss is interesting to you.

It may be that I don't want you to pay back, and I am afraid that you will be embarrassed, so I deliberately remember it wrong. If it's the opposite sex, it may have a crush on you.

It's called a debt dispute.

The plaintiff is a creditor, and the debtor is a debtor.