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It is said that if you know your mistakes, you will change them, and it is very good. So how should we change it, the method of correction is given in the "Four Teachings of Liaofan".
1.Be ashamed.
Have a sense of shame and smile at what you have done wrong, so that you will want to change it. You can't have no remorse when you do something wrong, which will make you gradually become a "beast" and get by.
2.Be in awe.
People are doing it, and the sky is watching. We must believe that there will be a god in the world, and even when no one is around, we must always review the rights and wrongs of our actions, gains and losses.
3.Be courageous.
If you know your mistakes, you have to change them, and if you realize your shortcomings, you must immediately start to improve yourself. Don't try to wait until everything is ready, because there's never a time to be completely ready. Don't hesitate to do anything, just do it, sometimes it's okay to be reckless.
With the three hearts of shame, awe, and courage, it is inevitable that it will be changed as soon as it is wrong, just like the ice in spring can melt when it meets the sun, so why worry that it will not disappear? ”
These "three hearts" touched me somewhat, especially the "brave heart". I had a big problem before. I often make a lot of excuses for myself before doing something big, such as:
I won't", "I can't do it", "The chances are too slim", etc., so that before I started, I gave up.
I don't do that now, and although I still think about it occasionally, I at least start doing it. This is a small first step, but it is for me to break the "demons".
The most powerful blow. I still believe that when I start planting, there will be a chance of flowering and fruiting. Encouragement
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There are many categories, which can be briefly summarized into ten, and the next is the explanation of the ten-point outline.
Be kind to others, give the example of Shun to illustrate.
In the past, Shun saw that fishermen occupied deep pools rich in fish, and only the old and weak were in places where there were not many fish, such as rapids and shallows. When he saw people competing for resources, he didn't criticize their faults, and when he saw people who were humble to each other, he vigorously promoted them for everyone to follow suit. It didn't take long for everyone to stop fighting for the deep pool and be humble to each other.
A wise person like Shun, why doesn't he preach to everyone? Teaching not in words but in deeds is a well-intentioned approach.
Those of us who come after us, don't use our strengths to overwhelm others, don't use our kindness to compare with others, and don't use our abilities to make others tired. Restrain your talent and wisdom, and be humble as a valley; Seeing the mistakes of others, be lenient and help others cover up, firstly, to make the other party change, and secondly, to make the other party have scruples and dare not indulge; When you see that others have a little strength to be gained and a small good deed to be recorded, you must give up yourself to learn from the other person and spread the good name for the other person everywhere.
Every word and deed every day is not a thought for oneself, but a standard for external things, which is the bearing of a noble person who is public in the world.
Most of us are ordinary people, and we can't be saints, but we can work towards them, first change ourselves, and then change the world. So, be kind to others first.
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Golden sentences:1Observing the words and deeds of a person's worthiness, it can be inferred that there is nothing unsuccessful in his good fortune and misfortune.
2.The auspicious omen first sprouts in the heart, and then manifests itself in words and deeds.
3.The first step to change one's destiny is to correct one's own mistakes first.
Ways to correct mistakes:
1.Be ashamed. Shame is very important, and shame is the key to distinguishing the sages and beasts, and it is also the key to making amends.
2.Be in awe. There are gods in the first three feet, and it is necessary to change the way as soon as possible, and to realize it as soon as possible, and once it is enlightened, it is not possible to slack off.
3.Be courageous. Small faults are like mangs piercing into the flesh and should be removed immediately.
4.No matter what is right or wrong, it actually comes from the heart, and if you don't have delusions, how can you make mistakes.
Sense: I lose my temper easily when I encounter something, if others do not do well, I should be sympathetic, if I go against reason and fight each other, it is not good for me, there is really nothing worth losing my temper, I am not good enough to do it maybe because of my virtue, ability is not enough, and the sense has not yet come.
The need for self-reflection, even if others slander me, I regard it as a hail of self-respect, a tempering and a test, and what is the anger of gladly accepting it.
Xing: Cultivate one's own mind.
The four teachings are divided into four parts.
The first article, "The Study of Life", encourages people in the world to work hard and never give up on themselves. Because the fate of life is determined by the creation of the previous life, but the good or bad of the fate can be changed by your good thoughts and good deeds in this life, or evil thoughts and evil deeds. >>>More