How did you throw away your dignity? Dignity cannot be lost

To put it in layman's terms, after I arrived at university, I came into contact with more and more people, and I gradually understood a truth, if people want to be happy, don't pay too much attention to the face, the more you pay attention to these superficial things, the more you can't be happy, and in a big time, when you don't have the ability and strength to change the whole pattern, don't talk about any dignity, because no one will care about you at this time.

It is true that dignity is very important for a person, but it depends on the situation.

When I was in front of my girlfriend, although the two of us sometimes had a lot of arguments, it didn't affect the relationship between the two of us, but it made the relationship between the two of us go further, so I cherish every minute and every second with him. So I think that between boyfriend and girlfriend, dignity is not very important, so that two people can be together harmoniously and love each other enough, so what is dignity?

I am a person with no knowledge and no culture, so I entered the society and began to embark on the road of part-time work, let me engage in the longest job is still selling shoes in the mall, I remember the first time I sold shoes, I also learned the appearance of other salesmen, bending down and squatting down for customers to the trouser legs, at that moment, in order to be able to sell a pair of shoes to earn a little more money, I really gave up my dignity, but the reality is so!

When I first joined the army, I thought I was like the pampered child at home, but the discipline of the army taught me that I must obey orders and complete tasks even if I give up my dignity.

Dignity is what we call face.

Before I found a girlfriend, I always felt that my face was very important. But since I found a girlfriend, I found that the face had been lost by myself, and every time my girlfriend was angry, I would always pull down my head to apologize to her, and I couldn't coax it, it was my own fault.

What is dignity in front of one's lover? Completely unknowing.

Originally, my father was mentally ill and couldn't take care of himself, and my mother was suddenly cerebral embolic and paralyzed in bed, and the two people who couldn't take care of themselves couldn't take care of anyone in their hometown, so I could only take the bus back and forth 100 kilometers a day between my unit and my hometown.

I'm not married yet, I don't have a house, and it's really difficult to bring my parents to work, but it's not easy for me to run back and forth every day.

In desperation, I put down all my dignity to beg the leader, and brought some gifts against my will, hoping that the unit would find a way to help me solve the practical difficulties. But the leader's words of all the rules made me lose my dignity at all.

It is no longer dignified to give gifts to people and beg for them in a low voice, and in the end, all the efforts are in vain and completely undignified.

Just this summer, sweating profusely looking for a job, running back and forth in the scorching sun.

In fact, most people pay a lot of attention to their own image, and I am no exception, but this summer, I have no image, my makeup is spent, my application is hit, and my dignity is shaky, but everything has to go on.

I am 31 years old, I am in debt for the failure of my business, and now I have nothing to think of but to find a way to earn money to pay off my debts, and dignity is now worthless to me.

For me, the day I turn over, the day I pay off my foreign account, that is the day I regain my dignity.

Dignity can be discarded temporarily, but the fighting spirit in the bones cannot be lost.

Now is a realistic society, no money is difficult to move an inch, and no money also indicates that you have no social status.

Friends, let's put down our dignity for a while, let us temporarily put down our identity, and work hard, the day you come out is the day you regain your dignity.

In the movie "Green Book", classical pianist Tang is invited to a hotel to judge and transport out. It was the sixties in the United States, and racial discrimination was very serious, and Don was black.

After arriving, the person in charge led Tang to change clothes, not so much a more digging-up beam wardrobe as a storage room. Don changed his clothes and went to the restaurant with his assistant Tony to eat, but was rejected by the person in charge, saying that there had never been a precedent for blacks to eat in the restaurant, and asked Don to go to a nearby restaurant to eat.

Unexpectedly, Tang, who has always been forbearing, did not accept it this time, but let the person in charge choose: either let him go in for dinner or cancel the performance.

As a result, the person in charge sticks to his principles, and Don and Tony resolutely leave.

This plot is deeply impressive, and in the face of other people's discrimination and difficulties, it is not enough to just blindly accept it. At critical moments, we must defend our dignity with action.

In such a social background, black people are already struggling, and the decision made by Don is brave and correct, and only in this way can racism be overthrown more quickly. Because dignity is earned by oneself, not by the charity of others.

In military training for college students, people with standard movements can demonstrate their movements in front of everyone. I've always felt that my movements are standard and excellent. also often ridiculed the students on the side of the instructor for being criticized by the instructor for their non-standard actions.

But every time I asked someone to do a demonstration, the instructor always didn't choose me, and I was very puzzled. Finally! Until!

After a series of positive kicks, the instructor spotted me. Let me go to the front and demonstrate. In this way, everyone sat down in the 1st position and prepared to watch me demonstrate.

I'm so excited! The heart is pounding. I thought I could finally become famous!

As soon as the instructor gave the order, I began to stride forward with my head held high. But the more I walked, the more wrong it felt, and many of my classmates were snickering. I'm starting to feel a little weak.

The instructor said aloud very seriously: Don't laugh! I thought it was an affirmation of me, and I moved forward more confidently.

One step, two steps, "Flutter, hahahaha" The instructor couldn't hold back his laughter, and the people below couldn't hold back when they saw the instructor, and they immediately let out a deafening laugh. It turns out that I don't go up to demonstrate because of the standard of action, but because the action is super non-standard. The instructor said that my walking was like a cat's walking.

Later, I became famous in the military training team.

His dignity was trampled on to the point that he was powerless to resist and gave up completely, so he was always so cautious in front of others in life, but the more he was like this, the more he couldn't hide his weakness, and in the end, he couldn't talk without talking, and he couldn't understand what others were saying when he could only nod and smile stupidly there.

The second grade of primary school is not sensible, and I turned out a pack of sanitary napkins at home, and I don't know what to do for studying for a long timeI remembered that there were classmates in the class who broke their knees on a vaulting horse, and then I went to school, and the scene of the students getting together to play with sanitary napkins was very warm, and everyone said that they had injuries that needed to be bandaged, so more than a dozen students were pasted, until the parents of several classmates found the head teacher, I was still very popular and proud ......

When I was in the first grade of elementary school, I woke up late and didn't wash my face and brush my teeth to go to school, so my mother came to the classroom with toothpaste, toothbrushes and towels, and I washed my face and brushed my teeth in the sink at the entrance of the classroom in front of all my classmates. Since then, my classmates have laughed at me, and whenever I mess with them, they will say "Wang, come to class without brushing your teeth or washing your face" Alas!

It hasn't been long since I broke up with my ex, and I've always had expectations for her, even if she has found a boyfriend, I'm still pestering her with a dead face. The most embarrassing thing should be to say to her, "Can I be your spare tire?" "That's it.

In the end, I managed to get her back, but unfortunately, she left me again a hundred and twenty days ago, and never returned.

Dignity is a very illusory thing, if you give up for something very practical, such as life, money, status or other material things, but it is precisely because of the illusion that you can feel that you have found something after you have obtained something. You know why?

For example, kneeling, you kneel, that's because you have to kneel, you have to kneel, you have a last resort, whether you are forced or voluntary, you must have the reason and necessity to kneel in your heart, even if you kneel, you feel worthwhile, because of this, even if you kneel temporarily, give up your dignity, but change more things, in your heart, the pain and sadness of this point can make you have a more sense of honor in the future, and more lofty goals and costs can be replaced, so that you find a balance, Today's price is prepaid for tomorrow, so at the same time, I have found my dignity from my heart.

Civic dignity 60" dividing line, hit it -- I think: it's civic dignity touched, you can give it up!

Civic dignity 60" demarcation line, bump it out! I think:

It is to kill the dignity of citizens once, and you can't give it up, at least find it once!

In the animal kingdom, especially in animals like wolves and lions, where there is a leader and a leader, the dignity of the leader of the lion king or wolf king is very important, and that is their inviolable reputation as tribal leaders. If one day a rising lion or wolf covets the throne of the tribal leader and wants to take the position of the current king, then he will continue to challenge the dignity of the king, such as fighting with the lion king for food, and getting involved with the wolf king's spouse. In this case, most of the provoked lion kings are fighting their lives to teach this little thing that does not know the height of the sky, and they can't have a trace of sympathy.

Because the very likely outcome is that if you lose the battle for a while, then you will be expelled from the tribe to live alone, and sometimes even directly bitten to death by other male lions of the tribe, which is the end of losing your dignity.

In the same way, this mode of getting along is also applicable to modern human society. It is likely that we will not be able to be the leader of a group of people in our lives, but as ordinary people, our dignity is just as important. If someone dares to challenge our dignity in society, then what we need to do is not to forgive him, but to teach him a hard lesson, and not to lose his dignity at all.

Many times what we do is not just aimed at the person who provokes, but the meaning of killing the chicken to show the monkey, reminding those who are also impatient in their hearts that they are not a good bully. Once the dignity is swept away, it is likely to face a desperate situation where the wall is falling down and everyone is pushing, and some irrelevant people also want to come over and get a piece of the pie.

Dignity is important, why?

People, live a lifetime, don't fight for a breath, be a person in vain! A person without dignity will not be respected by others, and will only make others laugh, because you have given up on yourself, so why should others treat you as a human being. Chinese have hated traitors since ancient times, why?

They abandoned their dignity as Chinese and went to sell the motherland, so they were despised by the countrymen, and foreigners also looked down on such people, treating them like dogs, although it was said that they were for survival, but people lived like this, I have to say that it is sad and hateful!

In fact, everything is easy to say, but hard to do. As far as I'm concerned, I understand that if you don't have dignity, you can't stand in the world if you talk about others respecting you, but I also gave up my dignity, and this incident has also bothered me and affected me for a while. Probably what happened in junior high school, I liked a girl at the beginning of my love, because of her, I inadvertently hurt a friend, the cause was that this friend of mine quarreled with the girl, and finally implicated me, and the two wanted me to stand in line, forcing me to not maintain my dignity, and chose to stand on the girl's side.

This incident affected our friendship, and although it was later repaired, the rift still existed. Now I sometimes think that if I had been neutral, maybe a lot of things would have been different. Under the womanhood, giving up dignity and friendship, and finally getting nothing, can be described as a failure.

People need dignity, and a life without dignity is cruel, humiliating, and unbearable, and that kind of life will be painful and a failure. If you give up your dignity, you lose a lot of things, such as friendship, affection, love, and more.

Dignity is the foundation and guarantee of the complex interpersonal relationship and social existence of a human being. If you don't even want your own dignity, then who can be expected to respect your existence. To put it bluntly, dignity is a person's face, and the so-called good face is a manifestation of caring about one's own dignity, of course, the definition of dignity is much broader than this.

But today we will not talk about dignity in the academic definition, we will talk about dignity that needs to be maintained in real life.

There were times when I put down my face, and it was when I fell in love in college, and I felt that my life was not for myself, but for my lover. Therefore, my female classmates, including my best friends, looked down on me and felt that I had no dignity in my life. Because in the process of falling in love, there is a process of psychological boundary fusion, two people stick together all day long, as if they are a conjoined person, and slowly the strong party will first pull out, and then form their own psychological boundary, and the weak party is easy to be sucked away by the other party, and the psychological boundary is established very slowly.

The psychological boundary is also the so-called personality bottom line, your bottom line is gone, what kind of dignity and self-esteem are you talking about.

At that time, people were very fragile, and if they were a little dissatisfied with the other party, they would have a great sense of pressure, and then all kinds of adjustments were made in order to cater to the other party's hobbies and try their best to make the other party satisfied with themselves. But there will be friction when two people get along, but at that time, I had forgotten about this, and tried every possible way to please each other, but in exchange for the other party's disgust and disgust, what dignity do you have at all, he doesn't love you anymore, and you are still entangled and don't let go. The boundaries of love need to be clear, the bottom line needs to be a person, and for those who don't respect us, we should stay away, please maintain your face and don't fall off your own shelf.