My boyfriend s house is going to open a store and I want to help, should I go?

Don't go, girls have to have principles when they fall in love, and they can have a common career with their boyfriends, but they shouldn't have a common career with their boyfriends' families, because then you will find that the help they say is really just help, the kind of pure obligation.

Women need to have their own careers, and they can also start a business with their own men, but their boyfriend's shop is always their family's, and as a girlfriend, she can help out after work, but she can't help at his house full-time. When I go to help after work, I can understand that I am a more diligent girl, and I can also increase my score in the eyes of my boyfriend's family and elders, and in front of relatives and friends, I will also increase my face in various ways.

But if it's a full-time job to help them, it's completely different, if the business is good, maybe they don't have anything to say, if the business is not good, they will say that they are difficult, the girlfriend that the son is looking for is a lazy, don't go to work, ask them to raise, just help look at the store, and it is still the kind of easy work that collects money (if it is really a cashier), so it becomes not a person inside and out.

Girls can help their boyfriend's family when they are free, and even on some projects they understand, they can give them analysis, give them some suggestions, and make the store good, which is based on their own other careers, it is a matter of course, if you don't have a career to help, you will find all kinds of difficult to do.

This kind of experience, if you don't touch it, don't touch it, otherwise you will find that every penny you spend, you have to look at their faces, because you don't have your own income, you will always feel inferior, and you will even find that even if you spend money, the monthly spending is much lower than that of normally recruited employees.

Let me start with the benefits of going!

If you are very diligent, then try it, and stay for a few days, but try not to stay too long, after all, your boyfriend is not married yet, if it becomes a bad thing because of help, it will outweigh the loss, you can go to help for a while, do things diligently and quickly, and try to talk as little as possible, because if you say more, you will lose, which must be remembered.

Try to be polite to your future mother-in-law and father-in-law, after all, a large part of the money will be taken by people in the future, if you are not honest, how much money you will take in the future will not be necessarily, so you have to pay more attention to yourself during this time, say less, do more, you can buy some small gifts for the elderly to bring over, uncles and aunts called desserts, don't be reckless in doing things, ask, it is good for you.

Say no again!

Whether you have passed the door or not, as a daughter-in-law, your mother-in-law may not like you too much, after all, the daughter-in-law and mother-in-law are eternal problems, in my opinion, I will never be alone with the old woman, maybe you still have your husband, they are all from the past, always feel that they eat more salt, educate you a few words, but you, and pampered, will inevitably have disputes.

So if you don't go, don't go, you can say that you are busy with work, or have oil at home, and occasionally go over to see if it's okay to help or something, and don't remember to touch money, don't do work like cashier, in case something is short, things will become bigger.

You have to remember that you are always an outsider. And your husband and his mother are their own people, you have to correct your attitude, if it were me, I would never go, let alone free help, even if I don't pay a salary, I won't join the excitement, I can let my future parents-in-law take a look, I can leave after reading it, after all, it is his son who likes me.

Depending on the situation, if you have a satisfactory job now, then don't go, if you don't have a job now, you can go and help.

I think a woman should have an independent personality and the ability to work, and if you have a stable and satisfying job now, then you don't need to give up your job and go to your boyfriend to help.

After all, you are not married yet, and your boyfriend's shop is only your boyfriend's, and you give up your job to help your boyfriend, you may think that because your boyfriend is hard, you want to help him, but what will outsiders think, they may think that you are a jobless vagrant who has no ability to work, and you come to your boyfriend to eat and drink.

Of course, if you really don't have a job, it doesn't hurt to come to your boyfriend to help, but in the process of your help, you can't be looked down upon by your boyfriend's family, you have to show a woman's ability to work, let them know that you can work in **, and you can come to your boyfriend's store just to give your boyfriend face.

It also depends on your personal thoughts, if you think that you can make yourself happy by being with your boyfriend's family every day, then you can go, if you feel that it is awkward to help your boyfriend, and it is not good to get along with your boyfriend's family, then you will not go.

You don't have to force yourself to do anything, just do what you want, you are just in a relationship now, your boyfriend has no right to interfere with your freedom, no matter how much he wants you to help, you have to have your own independent ideas, according to your own ideas, you don't need to live for your boyfriend now, if your boyfriend can't understand you, then you don't need to be with him.

It's okay to help in the past, but if you want to hit your idea of savings, you can't be used to it, and you can't move, and if you don't want to be blind, it's better to go outside and find a job by yourself.

Hello, according to what you described, it is not suitable for the two of you to open a store together, because you are together with the idea of "your money is mine, my money is still mine" from the root, and you always want to get more from your boyfriend. Your boyfriend has already identified you and him as a whole, and the money they have is not divided between you and me, which is contrary to your philosophy.

You and your boyfriend need to talk, and the two of you need to separate work and the relationship, not because of the intimacy of the relationship, it is you who start to sell the stool in the workplace. I suggest that you work on the AA system, store profits in the public account, and two people together to manage the accounts, at the end of each month reconciliation, who uses the money in the public account, who needs to make up at the end of the month. If you want to get dividends justifiably, then you need to invest in the store and clarify the amount of dividends before you have the confidence to get what belongs to you.

You can do anything with your money, and it is a matter of course to take care of your father, but you can't do that with your boyfriend's money, because he is getting married and letting you use his money, after a long time, your boyfriend's heart will be unbalanced, and the day this imbalance erupts, you can't bear it. It's your business to fix your phone, it's something you need to spend your own money to do, and when you want your boyfriend to do it for you, you're not separating public and private, which will make your relationship more complicated.

To sum up, between you and for marriage, your boyfriend is not obliged to pay anything, when you can't fully accept your boyfriend, you don't want to let the store profit deposit into your card, but go to the public account separately, only in this way can the public and private be clear.

I think that no matter what two people do together, you can be prepared to do it, and you have to charge for helping in the past, the most important thing is your money, don't invest it randomly. Otherwise, when the time comes, people and money will be empty.

I don't think you need to help.

After reading this passage you wrote, Liang Changzi. I feel that your boyfriend is so stingy, to put it bluntly, you are like Duan Hengguo Oak Burning Away, you are a clerk who helps him look after the store. There's no need to settle for a boyfriend like that.

I think I can help, but one yard is one yard, and he wants to pay you back, and he will never give it.

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Summary. You can reply like that, sorry, baby, I can't go.

My boyfriend opened a shop and asked me to help, and I didn't want to go, how to tell him.

My boyfriend opened a shop and asked me to help, and I didn't want to go, how to tell him.

Excuse me, hurry up.

You can reply like that, sorry, baby, I can't go.

And then there's something going on in my house.

I'll definitely be going to help you next time.

This one doesn't work. There is no more.

Or you can reply like this: Baby, I don't want to go, I have been feeling sick to my stomach recently, and my aunt is coming.

Just use your period as an excuse.

Then I was in a lot of pain.

That doesn't work at all.

Then you just refuse.

Said he didn't want to go. You are also not obligated to help him.

It's still you who are tired.

He's the result or anything.

You end up with nothing.

You just said, there is a young lady in your store, I am afraid that I will be jealous, so I won't go, in case I get rid of it.

Summary. Hello, dear, your boyfriend asked you to open a store, he will come to help you when he is free, such a boyfriend is really good, he has planned your future life for you, he wants to make your life easier.

Hello, dear, your boyfriend asked you to open a store, he will come to help you when he is free, such a boyfriend is really good, he has planned your future life for you, he wants to make your life easier.

So what movie did your boyfriend tell you to drive? It should be easier, right?

He didn't go to work right now, so I asked him if he wanted to go out and open a shop with him.

And he said he didn't want to open it, and if he wanted to, I'd go to work later, and I'd come and help when I had time, or I'd go with my mom and open it in front of his house.

What he means is that he still wants to go to work, and then you open your own store or give it to his mother, and he will help when he is free, which shows that he still likes to go to work, after all, you don't have to worry so much about going to work, it is your own store, and you must have to worry about it.

Then every time they have something in the house, he avoids me to talk about things, and after they talk, he doesn't say anything, he says he doesn't remember what they talked about, and he talks to his sister, too, I'm not their local, and I can't understand their chat, and sometimes his mother tells me that I don't understand, and asks him about it, and he says.

He thinks that they are talking about their own family affairs, there is no need to tell you, he doesn't want to add trouble to you, he doesn't want to make you unhappy because of these little things, he is thinking about you. You tell me?

It's all about the family, and it's really doing anything, and it's an outsider.

I'm sorry, the teacher is late<>

Because you are only boyfriend and girlfriend now, and you are not officially married, the teacher suggests that you don't ask for these troubles yourself, and he will naturally tell you what you need to tell you, what do you say?

My boyfriend opened his own shop and asked me to come over to help, and the family knew that we were talking, had met him, and told me not to go to work with him until I got married.

Hello, your boyfriend opened a store and called you to go over to help, the family knows that you are in love, so you are not allowed to work there, your boyfriend opened a store, before you got married, you are the reason for it, although you are in addition to the object, but your life has to go on with each other, you go to your boyfriend to work, first of all, he wants to pay you a salary, what is the salary, I am your family, I don't allow her to go to work there, no salary family, your family is also right, afraid that you will go to work there will be his when, I think it's okay for you to work in the company there, so you should be careful yourself, ask him to pay you a salary every month, in the company, you are employees and bosses in life, you are boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, you are like this, you just need to go on a blind date, this relationship is fine.