My mother in law is seriously ill, and my sister in law says that she refuses to take money when she

Your sister-in-law didn't do something right in this matter, you can go to your sister-in-law to theorize, sister-in-law is the daughter of her mother-in-law, and she didn't treat her mother, which is really unreasonable.

Of course, you should take measures to fight for the property you deserve, and the sister-in-law does not take money when her mother-in-law is seriously ill, and the mother-in-law should know in her heart that there should be an accurate decision in this matter.

Then you should choose to refuse to share the family property with your sister-in-law, because she has not fulfilled her filial piety at all.

This depends on your financial situation to decide whether to give or not, and how much to give, it is not your sister-in-law who has the final say. If the financial conditions allow, it can be given. The reason is that the sister-in-law is her husband's sister and is about to become a relative.

No matter how good my husband is, he will inevitably think of the love of blood and bones, and I hope that my sister's life will be better, and it will be better to give a little bit of marriage. No matter how domineering the girl is in her mother's family, when she gets married, her mood will change a lot. Even if the sister-in-law is pampered, she will soon be woken up by married life, but life is not so simple, and not everyone will endure her difficulties.

My sister-in-law is young and has not experienced much in the world, and I believe that she will soon realize her guilt and thank you for your sister-in-law's tolerance and generosity. Of course, maybe not, there are many women who are more patriarchal than men, and always regard themselves as masters and look down on the so-called "outsiders" in their eyes. After getting married, he still regarded himself as the master and pointed fingers, which is mainly related to family education.

As you grow in experience, you should change after experiencing the world.

As a mother's family, no matter whether you give money or not, it is necessary to talk to your sister-in-law calmly. As the saying goes, my brother and sister-in-law are grandmothers, and no matter how cruel and willful my sister-in-law is, she should be cared for as an eldest sister-in-law. Guiding her sister-in-law with her own life experience, she told her that she must understand, tolerate and respect each other after arriving at her in-law's house.

Your in-laws can't tolerate all your shortcomings better than your parents, and not all sisters-in-law and siblings can tolerate your difficulties, otherwise your life will be a mess and you won't be respected.

There is also a possibility in the middle, that is, the sister-in-law and the brother have had a very good relationship since childhood, and they have congenital hostility towards you, the intruder, but they don't really hate you. It's that he didn't realize his identity at a young age and how he should get along. If this is the case, the sister-in-law's mother-in-law also has a sister-in-law, so she should be reminded and told that she should be as generous and tolerant as you are when telling her about this situation.

I think your sincerity will definitely make my sister-in-law realize her mistakes, and will untie the knot between you, and you will love each other after being relieved, especially for the happiness of your sister-in-law.

In short, family members, especially the elderly, should be more tolerant of the younger members and those who have less experience in the world from the perspective of understanding, and be patient and inducing, treat life with heart, and learn to behave in the world. In this way, family members, relatives and friends will get along with each other and achieve a win-win situation.

OK. As a sister-in-law, you should give your sister-in-law a wedding gift or a red envelope, but you don't need to pay for the marriage, because the marriage is your parents-in-law's business.

You can refuse, but I don't think you should refuse to call Que Min, if you give this money, it will definitely make your family and Zhi's family more harmonious, so that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be better, and you will also have a pure status in the family.

You can refuse, because the sister-in-law does not have the obligation to marry the sister-in-law, it is all voluntary and should not be persecuted.

I can refuse, but I am likely to have a stiff relationship with my sister-in-law and mother-in-law, so I think I should compromise.

The mother-in-law scolded the sister-in-law, and the father just left, she didn't care about her mother's mood, but worried about property, hurt her mother's heart, and was an unfilial daughter.

The mother-in-law probably replied directly to her sister-in-law, and her father didn't think about remembering it when he left, but thought about dividing the family property

In fact, if the case is handled well. You can also ask this sister-in-law to pay alimony.

The mother-in-law responded that she would not give her a penny, and she should sweep the floor out of the house if she is such an unfilial person. I have to say, this one is quite domineering.

Many people are not happy in marriage, not only because of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but also because of the relationship with their sister-in-law. The harmony of a family is inseparable from all people, and honoring the elderly is what we should do, and we should not do it for the sake of profit.

Wang Xuan's husband's family conditions are average, he is a rural guy, and his name is Liu Zhi. Liu Zhi's job is very average, and the salary is not high. Although Wang Xuan is also a girl from the countryside, her family conditions are better than Liu Zhi's family.

Liu Zhi is also a poor person, and the whole family depends on him. Although the family still has some land to plant, my sister is still in school, and my mother has to take care of my father, who is sick all the year round. Wang Xuan knew the conditions of Liu Zhi's family, but felt that Liu Zhi was an honest and honest person, and finally married him.

Wang Xuan is a very righteous person, after getting married, she took out her own money to let Liu Zhi do business, Liu Zhi opened a small shop, and the business was not bad. In a few years, the two also saved some money. At this time, the sister-in-law also began to look for a job.

Wang Xuan has always disliked her sister-in-law, because Liu Zhi took the money for her sister-in-law's schooling, but her sister-in-law didn't mean to be grateful, and she took it for granted. The sister-in-law is looking for a good job and the salary is very high. She also met a wealthy man, and they soon got married.

When the sister-in-law got married, Wang Xuan and her husband took a total of 30,000 yuan, but she didn't expect that she felt that it was too little. Wang Xuan felt that her sister-in-law didn't know how to be grateful at all, and since she had a job, she hadn't bought any items for Wang Xuan and Wang Zhi. Wang Xuan is not that kind of material girl, she just thinks that her sister-in-law is too ignorant, at least she has to express it, after all, all these years, Liu Zhi has been earning money for her to go to school, but she doesn't know how to be grateful.

During the Chinese New Year, my sister-in-law came to the house and said that she would take her parents to live in the city, and they would come to support the elderly in the future. Wang Xuan and Liu Zhi felt very relieved and felt that their sister-in-law was finally sensible.

Wang Xuan never thought that the sister-in-law had ulterior motives. The village chief came to the house, and it turned out that this piece of land was favored by the developer, and some buildings were to be built here, and the mother-in-law's house could get 650,000 yuan for demolition. Wang Xuan and Liu Zhi were very happy, thinking that they could buy a house in the city in this way, and this money could be used for a down payment.

But Wang Xuan suddenly thought that her sister-in-law must have known about it, and she took her parents over and definitely wanted the demolition money. She immediately asked her mother-in-law, and as expected, her mother-in-law was already planning to give the money to her sister-in-law, because the sister-in-law said that she would provide for her for the elderly. Wang Xuan called her sister-in-law **, and didn't let her in-laws go to her house, and her sister-in-law couldn't do anything.

Honoring the elderly is originally a traditional Chinese virtue, but if it is filial piety with ulterior motives, it is not worth advocating. The sister-in-law is obviously an unfilial person, and she is suddenly willing to provide for her parents, there must be a problem, she did it for the demolition money. It is the responsibility of children to honor the elderly, and they should not do such things for their own selfish desires.

Wang Xuan's approach was not wrong, she should refuse her sister-in-law's request.

There is nothing wrong with that, because you are defending your mother-in-law's interests, and my sister-in-law must have other intentions for taking your mother-in-law over.

That's right, my sister-in-law doesn't have her own mother in her heart at all, she doesn't care about her mother on weekdays, but she wants to be a good person during the New Year, which is really angry.

I think it's wrong, because after all, the sister-in-law wants to be filial to her mother-in-law, which is human nature.

If you want to come back, why should you give your money to others, and you also speak ill of yourself, and she takes the benefits but is not grateful to herself, this kind of person is not worthy of you to be good to her.

You can discuss it with your husband, after all, your dowry money is given by your parents, and these dowries are also earned by your parents, and your sister-in-law should let her mother-in-law give it if she wants it

You should fight for your money back, which is the living expenses that your parents gave to your young couple, and it belongs to your private property.

I think you should get your dowry back, because the dowry is very important for every woman, it is something that the mother's family accompanies to marry, and it should not be given to the sister-in-law by the mother-in-law.

You should refuse. Because you have no responsibility and no obligation to give money to your sister-in-law, these things are imposed on you by your mother-in-law, so you have to bravely refuse to be deformed and reason with your mother-in-law.