How to communicate if the elderly are reluctant to go to a nursing home?

According to relevant scientific survey data, among the 1,000 elderly people randomly surveyed, only less than 20% of the elderly are willing to care for the elderly in nursing homes. No matter how good the conditions of the nursing home are, most of the elderly people prefer to live a "poor" life with their children. This is based on a number of factors, the main of which is the family "link".

This kind of link is pinned on the cultural tradition of the Chinese nation for thousands of years and decades of time running-in, which is irreplaceable for the elderly.

In the current domestic pension system, nursing homes occupy a very important position as a major way of providing for the elderly. With the continuous improvement of the domestic pension system, the nursing home has reached a certain level in terms of facilities and services. This level is definitely superior for the elderly who cannot afford to provide for their children.

Moreover, with the popularity of the Internet, pension networks such as pension networks have gradually been established. However, nursing homes have never been able to fully meet the full recognition of the elderly. The main reason for this is the attachment of the elderly to their children, and they are reluctant to dismantle the concept of this home.

Decades of family life have made the old people invest too much affection in this home, which can be said to be deeply rooted. Once in a nursing home, it means that the home is taken apart. This is the main reason why the elderly choose to care for the elderly at home, and it is also the biggest system defect that the nursing home system cannot make up for now.

This kind of problem arises not only in our country, but also in nursing homes in various countries around the world. This is a common problem in the pension system, and it is also a problem that cannot be solved under the current situation. This disconnection of family ties is the biggest obstacle to the development of nursing homes.

Nursing homes are gradually satisfying the material needs of the elderly, but they are powerless in terms of spiritual needs. The most likely way to solve the problem is to establish a way of connection between the nursing home and the home, so that the children and the nursing home also have a certain connection, so that this family link can be integrated into the nursing home. Of course, there is currently no effective method for this approach, and further research is needed.

It is believed that in the near future, the nursing home will be able to fill the vacancies here, so as to become a pleasant place for the elderly.

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There are a lot of this kind of old people want to care for the elderly at home, but also want to get some help from the children, if the children's work needs is not there to take care of these old people, indeed these children are also no way, this is the need for children and the elderly to have a good communication, some old people will feel that the children are too much of a drag, they to some better nursing homes is no problem, or take the old people to the nursing homes to visit, to see which of these nursing homes is more suitable, Which one has better conditions, some old people will be willing to go after going to see it.

Recently, there was news that the staff of a nursing home beat the elderly, which attracted a lot of attention and related discussions. ......For this issue, the specific analysis includes that nursing home pension is a very realistic choice, the nursing home pension conditions are not as comfortable as children's support for the elderly, and relying on children to support the elderly is not a perfect choice.

1. Relying on nursing homes is a very realistic pension option.

In real life, relying on nursing homes is a very realistic pension option. ......On the one hand, there are already many elderly people who have chosen to go to nursing homes for the elderly, and on the other hand, there are many old people who are ready to choose nursing homes for the elderly because other ways of caring for the elderly are not suitable for them. ......Therefore, relying on nursing homes has become a realistic pension option for many elderly people.

2. The pension conditions in nursing homes are not as comfortable as those for children to support and care for the elderly.

Judging from the actual situation, the old-age conditions of nursing homes are still lacking compared with the support of children and daughters. Stupid didn't shoot ......For example, the accommodation conditions of the nursing home are not as good as at home, for example, the food conditions of the nursing home are not as delicious as at home, etc., and more importantly, the loneliness and loneliness of the nursing home cannot be resolved, which makes the nursing home is not the best choice.

3. Relying solely on children to provide for the elderly is not a perfect pension choice.

Although most people still want to be supported by their children, this type of pension is not perfect. ......The reason for this is that, on the one hand, young people nowadays are very busy with work and have no time to take care of the elderly, and on the other hand, many families now have only one child, and the pressure on him to support their parents is too great. ......Therefore, for the elderly, what kind of way to choose to care for the elderly also needs to be combined with their actual situation to make targeted choices.