What should I do if I have a 90 year old man in my family, and I have children and daughters, but I

If the 90-year-old mother is supported by herself, and the other brothers and sisters are not responsible, then I will definitely complain, this is human nature.

If my wife only has one child, then there is no problem at all to support me alone. But if the old lady has children and daughters, then it is completely unreasonable for me to support them alone. Take 10,000 steps back and say, if the other children really don't have the manpower, they don't have time to take care of them.

Then those who have money will pay and have the power to contribute, and it is impossible to take advantage of all the advantages.

This is the problem that most families face when there are elderly people who need support, the eldest pushes the second, the second and the third, the son pushes the daughter, and the daughter pushes the son. has lived a lifetime and raised a large number of children, and should have lived a long life and enjoyed the joy of family. But I once thought that in the end, no one is really willing to provide for me, sad!

The reason why I feel this way is because there have been a few such incidents around me, and most of them are in their nineties. Their old age is not happy, and even one of them is very bleak, not without children and daughters, but full of children and grandchildren. But he lived alone with a missing leg.

The eldest daughter marries and goes home from time to time to see her old mother, the eldest son goes away to work in a foreign country in order to escape the responsibility of supporting his parents, and the younger son will not go to see it for a few days, although he lives close to his mother. In the end, the old man passed away alone on a midsummer afternoon, and no one knew when he left.

Another neighbor of mine is now in his nineties, and has four daughters, three of whom are married, and one of whom is a son-in-law, with the purpose of supporting his two old men to the end of his life. However, there are unforeseen circumstances, and the son-in-law passed away due to an accident in the first few years, and the responsibility of providing for the elderly has returned to the hands of several children.

In the past two years, the elderly have been getting worse day by day and need to be taken care of. But except for one daughter, who is farming in her hometown, the others are working outside the home and cannot come back to take care of them. Eventually, the sisters negotiated that the elderly would be supported by the four sisters in turn, with the daughter who stayed in the countryside taking care of the elderly and the rest of the children giving money.

If the elderly are sick and hospitalized, all of them must be present, no matter how big they are, because one person cannot take care of them in the hospital.

It is said that "if there is an old man in the family, there is a treasure", and now it seems that the old man in the family is no longer a "treasure", and it is a drag in the eyes of many people. Moreover, the older you get, the greater the drag, and the greater the resentment of your children.

I think someone should take his children to court, because it's our duty to support the elderly, and we have to fulfill it.

If you refuse to raise your children, you can let the elderly go to a nursing home to live, and if you don't give it, then go through the legal route.

I think the elderly can take them all to court, because it is their duty to support the elderly, and they cannot be hindered.

The elderly can go and sue their children. Because according to the law, children are obliged to support the elderly.

I don't think that's right. Because children should not let the old people who have worked hard all their lives be desolate in their old age and cannot be taken care of by their children because of various excuses.

Because these children did not know to be filial to their parents when they were growing up, and they thought it was a burden for them.

Because they don't want to be burdened. When parents are old, they need someone to take care of them, and some unfilial children treat them as a burden.

If the child does not fulfill the obligation to support the child, the parents may mediate through the people's mediation committee of the neighborhood committee or the village committee, or file a lawsuit with the people's court. The judge shall make the child perform the maintenance obligation in accordance with the law through mediation or judgment. If the child refuses to do so, the court may take compulsory measures in accordance with the law, such as freezing the child's account, directly transferring deposits, etc., to force the child to fulfill the obligation of support.

If the child refuses to support him, and the circumstances are heinous, he will be suspected of the crime of abandonment and face criminal punishment.