After the separation, will there be a gap between the feelings and the reconciliation?

It depends on whether both parties really understand the mistakes contained in the last time, there are many reasons for breaking up, and it is not easy to really reconcile, and fate really needs to be cherished by each other.

I think the reason why you have done it all over again is probably to give yourself a chance or a chance to the other person first.

Estrangement. Do you think you're still embarrassed or remembered the reasons for the breakup? If there really is still a gap, then why rebuild the old one? When you are in love, you need to love with an understanding and a new heart, see your heart clearly, don't be afraid, and love bravely.

First of all, it depends on the reasons for the previous breakup, so the clues you give are not very comprehensive, different reasons have long had different consequences, no matter what happened, I always hope that the landlord can deal with all aspects of work and life normally.

Rather than looking at fate, it is better to grasp the beautiful things in front of you, don't get dizzy after you are happy, throw away happiness, treat the people you love as a part of life, everyone will make mistakes, it depends on whether you can accept the mistakes you make, whether you can face them.

Advice for you:

As long as you still have love for each other, then love well, because love is really not easy to come by, feelings are very beautiful, and they are also very hurtful, remember, don't hurt others, and don't be exposed to others

Then it depends on why you are divided, whether it is a substantive problem, and it depends on whether you are reconciled again, it should not be a big problem, then be humble to each other.

Maybe he, she, and she are the same as you think. Communicate well and find time to travel more

The relationship with the estrangement can be reconciled, but it may not return to the previous state.

Because there is a gap when he says the wrong sentence, is this because he said the wrong thing, is it because the values shown in this sentence are different from his, or because this sentence has attacked him as a person and made him unhappy. In fact, there are often things that say the wrong thing, who hasn't said the wrong thing, sometimes there may be a lack of consideration when speaking, so it leads to hurting someone, which is quite normal, it doesn't matter if there is an estrangement, as long as we apologize seriously, coax the injured object more, and then don't mention this matter again, and it will slowly pass after a long time.

If you have been worried about this matter, you might as well wait for the two sides to calm down and have a good chat about their thoughts on this matter, and when you talk about it, you can say it if you are unhappy in your heart, and of course you must show your repentance for the party who said the wrong thing, and you will never say this kind of thing again in the future, this time it's all to blame me, it's me who speaks without thinking about it, which makes you so sad and angry. You can send him something to make up for it, and the two parties agreed not to mention this matter in the future, couples, it's always noisy, there's nothing that can't be overcome, you can't break up because you don't like this person because of a word, unless it's a very excessive personal attack. Every couple will have their own way of solving problems, talk well, two people together is more important than anything else.

Landlord,My situation with you is simply copy and paste.,I've been with him for three years, and I've quarreled many times, most of which I provoked.,Didn't understand him.,Now he's not like I used to be.,I also like to ask him if he's married.,Love me or not.,Ask him to be numb.,He's really cold to me.,But I want to seize this last opportunity because I'm reluctant to him.,I understand a lot.,I'm slowly changing.,I hope to grow old with him!

When he said this, it meant that he was really tired. Two people are together to bring happiness to each other. If two people are not happy when they are alone, they will definitely be tired after a long time.

You are now faced with a problem that is very difficult to solve. First of all, you have to change your temper from the heart. Not temporary, but forever.

Because even if you pretend to be good-tempered, and you are still bad-tempered when he marries you, then he will not like this family no matter how much he loves you in the first place. You should talk to your good-natured friends more often to see what they think about the problem and really absorb it. Second, you have to work hard and behave a lot so that he can see that you are changing, not only changing, but also making some extra compensation.

For example, be more gentle and considerate with him, and let him see your empathetic side. Before he completely forgives you, his nerves are also tense, so you must not be sick during this period**, even if you lose your temper again, even if there is a sign of it. Let him see that the change is radical.

When he feels that your temper has really improved, you are sensible, and your nerves have relaxed, and your initiative and dedication can end, and you can return to the situation where he pays more and you pay less. It's a long run, and before he lets his guard down, be sure to hold on to yourself!

Can understand your current mood, in this case you should deal with it calmly, you don't always ask him if he loves you, this is not confident and boring questions, you can start from the following aspects:

1. Talk to him frankly, try to be emotional, say some of your thoughts, your plans for the future, as well as your shortcomings and gratitude to him for tolerating you over the years, thank him for letting you grow, recognize your own shortcomings, recall how you met, some unforgettable things in the process of knowing, etc.

2. Don't ask him if he will get married, he will only feel scared and afraid, because you are not suitable for marriage at all in this state, and if you have a good relationship, he will naturally propose marriage without asking.

3. Get along well, what to do, don't worry too much about this, try to go out more to relax your mood. Do more things that interest you together.

4. Change yourself appropriately, such as occasionally changing the style of your outfit to make him know you again.

5. Only when your own mentality is calmed down, and you usually feel good when the two of you are together, will you infect him.

Finally, bless you, of course, as long as you do your best, don't regret it, because sometimes you don't have fate, everything has a certain number in it, the so-called things are man-made, success or failure is in God, as long as you do your best, some people around me have been talking for 5 years and are divided as usual, but I hope you can get along as before, no matter what the result is, this is an opportunity for you to grow, although sometimes painful.

You didn't make it clear because of what you quarreled about.

He calls you and sends you a message. In fact, he has compromised. Even if it's your fault, if you pick up that **, he'll apologize to you or call you home.

I don't know how many messages he sent and how many **s he sent to you. And then you never come back, if you get married in the future and you are like this, shouldn't he be looking for you everywhere at night. I'm afraid you won't be able to think about it, or something will happen anyway, a lot... I don't think anyone wants to live this kind of fearful life.

It's hard to find a boy like this with a lantern right now.

What you say, he's not as nice to you as he used to be. This is completely psychological, he just talks to you less, and he talks less because he is afraid of saying the wrong thing and making you angry, and then he doesn't answer the ** and doesn't reply to the message. He was afraid of that. (He's worried about you, don't do that in the future).

I think your boyfriend must be a very honest person. And he doesn't speak much. Hehehe.

Solution: You can find a chance to eat, talk to him, and he will start to affirm, um, a few words. Don't want to talk more, then you can imagine it at will. Or crying, or coquettish. He would definitely compromise. And you're sure you'll still be the same as ever.

Here I wish you eternal happiness. Hehehe.

To be honest, I'm so afraid that in the near future I will be like you, and my boyfriend will be very good to me, but I am always very willful and always quarrel with him. I'm really afraid that one day he will be as tired as your boyfriend, I really love him, and I can't bear to break up, hehe. So I think it's best for you to go to the places you have been to before, and reminisce about the happy memories of the past, in fact, such a boy is also very coaxing, so you have to grasp your happiness and try to regain his love for you, I believe he is just afraid of being afraid, he is afraid that you will be hurt together when the time comes, and he still loves you very much, so be kind to him in the future, and I will be kind to my boyfriend in the future, bless you.

Lou Lou and her boyfriend, I'm just like you, my boyfriend is very good to me and cares about me, but we quarreled and separated, and now we just got back together, and I mentioned it when I got back together, he was very cold, and I don't know what to do.

actually broke up, and will continue to break up if they are reconciled. My boyfriend and I are like that. We have been together for three years, but we have divided and combined too many times, I used to say it, and he said it for the last year.

This time, we really broke up, he found a girlfriend again, and I, but I have always loved him and called him a lot, but he didn't answer, and he never replied to text messages. When a man breaks up, it is impossible to get it back. Now he still says that he is annoyed and disgusted when he sees me.

Two months ago, he said I was the woman he loved most in his life. Therefore, the man's words really can't be believed, but he said that you must believe it when you break up, otherwise you will only be hurt.

I would like to ask, how are you doing now? I'm in a similar situation to you.

I've also been such a girl, and now that we're back together, there's really been a long run-in in between. Fortunately, we accepted each other again, what I did at that time was to give me 3 months to see me slowly change my personality, and you also reminded me to accommodate me, if it is not coordinated after 3 months, then we will be nine. It turned out to be good now.

In fact, women are like this, and only when they are about to lose do they remember to cherish it. Since you feel that you can't do without him, you should change your temper, in fact, forbearance is the most important thing for two people to get along, and they will definitely feel very tired when they quarrel all the time. To really change your temper instead of feeling that you should cherish it now, you should stick to it, two people are equal, you may feel that you seem to have been accommodating him now, afraid of losing him but feel that the relationship has become farther away.

In fact, two people often talk about their hearts, go out to play more, and relax their mood will ease the atmosphere.

I hope you can get through this and grow old!

Don't be willful, cherish it, don't always let him pay, if you really want to redeem it, you don't ask for anything in return, do it for him sincerely, don't talk about marriage or anything, as long as you talk to him he will take care of you, this is your greatest happiness, try it again with such a mood. Only in this way can it be redeemed.

It's all good to calm down, and when he sees that you've changed, it's fine.

Normal There will be a lot of contradictions after a breakup.