She really couldn t think about it, and my heart sank

Indeed, this world is so tired of living, but it's a pity that I can't give myself anything to like a woman! Very helpless!

You have mental illness.

Don't always try to get into the nitty-gritty.

It's a day to be unhappy, it's a day to be happy, so why not make yourself happy.

Be cheerful, think about something that makes you happy, communicate more with others, be kind to others, communicate more with people, and you will be happier.

There are several solutions, you can give them a try:

1. Broaden your horizons, jump out of your narrow thinking space, and shift your attention to another open space, which can be everything you are interested in or curious about, such as the mystery of the universe.

3. Make your life full and busy, and don't give yourself too much leisure time.

4. Pay attention to the people around you who are having difficulties and confusion and do everything you can to help them. You can do some volunteer work, or you can volunteer in the hospital to help those in need.

5. Think about your parents and relatives and friends who love you, make a ** with them, express their care and greetings, and think about how much they care for you.

6. Watch some realistic documentaries, wartime or major disaster events. You will find out how lucky you are, how unworthy, and even ridiculous, it is to bother with such a thing.

It's all because of the problem of your own mood, you have already recognized, it is the basis for correction, and then you have to be magnanimous, communicate, make more friends, and make happy friends, friends who are progressive, friends enlighten themselves to be in a better mood, and your happy friends have been together for a long time, and naturally think about happy things. In fact, there is nothing in the world, mediocre people disturb themselves, we all know that most of the things can be solved, don't always think about unhappy things, and know how to enjoy life happily.

Because nothing happy has caught your new attention.

Happiness, many times, also needs to be created by yourself

Do something else and remember that now he's yours

Change the environment and adjust your mentality appropriately.

You're a bit depressed right now.

Proper self-regulation, so as not to lose the love for you and him, make your life richer, and you will have less time to think!

Self-control! Nothing else can do!

I dare to say, judging from age, is it menopause? Psychological fluctuations during this period may affect the person's mood, and there are medications such as Mrs. Jingxin Oral Liquid. In fact, it is more a matter of personal attitude towards life and philosophy of life.

It is true that love is the most beautiful feeling in the world, and some people even think that without love, people cannot be called people. However, love is not the only value of human life. Pei Duofei has a very famous poem:

Life is precious, but love is even more valuable. If it is free, both can be thrown. This shows that life, love, freedom, health, career, ideals, happiness, and joy are all values of life.

You're always thinking about the unhappy things right now, but you're ignoring the more happy things. The compliments of parents when you were a child, the certificate you get from school, the first salary you get after work, the sweet hug from your lover, the first time your child calls you mom. These ordinary things are all happy and happy, and I believe you can list many more, and you can't list them all.

It's just that lately, for some reason, your attention has been drawn to unhappy things, and you have become depressed. I have a way, you write down some of the things that make you most happy and excited, and in the face of these, it may be your brilliant memories, it may be your beautiful future, which will naturally dilute your unhappiness; If writing less doesn't help, you can write more, take it with you, and put a copy in a prominent place at home, in the office, and other places where you often are, and pick it up often, and you will be reminded that you live happily. In addition, no matter whether your husband really doesn't love you anymore as you say, you don't have to rush to divorce, even in marriage, everyone is independent, you can live your own charm and live your own wonderful life according to your ideal lifestyle, even if he really doesn't love you anymore, how can it not be possible not to be attracted by the love of life and the flowers that bloom again?

Be optimistic and happy! I wish you a smile and all the best!

Then go out for a trip, go to ** It's good, forget the troubles first, first get out of the current life from the perspective of the sidelines, you will find that there are many beautiful things in life, travel will make you discover your inner self, find yourself more important, then you will be truly happy. As for husband and wife quarrels, that's too normal, give each other some space, and tolerance is more important. Go out and relax, and find your heart as you walk.

Menopause is advanced, you will feel that no one is sorry for you, women generally enter menopause between the ages of 40 and 50, the length of time varies from person to person, menopausal women need more help and companionship from their families, it is recommended that you communicate more with your husband, try if you have a dream that was not realized when you were young, divert or distract your attention, travel more, or go home and stay with your parents for a while, go to see your children, communicate more with friends, are good ways. Of course, in the end, you still need your husband's support and understanding, and communicate well.

It's not normal for a couple not to quarrel, sometimes quarrels can become the spice of the relationship between husband and wife, depending on how you look at it, how to grasp the scale of quarrels, two people together, always learn to tolerate each other, learn to be tolerant. I am also a person who thinks a lot, and later I will find that I always think too much, so I suggest that you can find something to do when you have nothing to do, such as climbing mountains, exercising, and it is best to have time to go out with your husband, and it is a good choice to travel. Life in the world is very short, so why think about unhappy things, think more about how to make yourself happy, and think about how to make both husband and wife happy.

You don't have a hobby of your own? Go for some recreational activities and try not to give yourself time to think about those things. In this way, you can not only improve your temperament, but also make more friends and enrich yourself! Hope you are happy.

Why do you think that you are either 39 or a 19 child, I think more and more that women in their 30s are feminine and attractive, why are you still so unhappy?

The cold war can hurt the feelings of two people, what's the matter, I think about it for a long time and it's not as good as each other's words.

You are both married, your trust in each other should be firmer, I believe that your husband can help you untie your heart knot, try to communicate with your husband, communication is really a good way to solve the problem, it depends on whether you are willing to try.

Find more things to do and enrich yourself. A man doesn't like women to quarrel with him all the time, it's not that he doesn't love you anymore, it's just that he has been married for too long, and he is too lazy to coax or express it, the best way is to improve himself, find things to do by himself, and he will come to you by himself again.

A quarrel doesn't mean that your husband doesn't love you, it just means that you disagree, which is not surprising, sometimes you and yourself still disagree. Let's seek common ground while reserving differences, think about his good places, and life will have a rush.

The best way is to find yourself, not rely on him, find your circle of friends, and regain the feeling of youth! Do what you love! Keep yourself busy and full!

That way, you don't have to worry that he doesn't care about you! He will also slowly get to know you again and treat you as before!

People are like this, thinking about unhappy things, happy things don't remember a few, breaking up is just an escape, you have to face it rationally, analyze why you are like this, don't just find each other's fault.

No matter who you are, never look backwards, there is no horse spoon that does not touch the edge of the pot at home, sometimes the two of them are together, and there will be a change in life if one person takes a step back first. If two people have been together for a long time, it is not love, it is family affection, I don't think your husband will lose that family affection. Have fun!

Nostalgia is nostalgia, life must be lived! Leaving and not being able to solve things perfectly!

Make your life more fulfilling and keep yourself busy! I don't have time to think about unhappy things!

Everyone deserves to live in the moment. No matter what you think about every day, there is still so much time, and the days still have to be like that, so why not spend every day happily. It's not a big deal to quarrel with your husband, as long as you don't quarrel too much.

Have you ever seen a cat and a mouse? How did they end? A small story, a big truth!

A drama is boring without the protagonist, cats and mice have countless opportunities to kill each other, he still doesn't have it in the end, as long as you want to be happy, it's not that he doesn't love you anymore, it's that you have lost confidence in him! Everything is replenished! (I'm nineteen).

Ignore her husband, treat him as air, treat him as a passerby, treat him as a puddle of mud on the side of the road, step on it casually, and when you step on it, you have to say fiercely: "Let you be angry with me, let you be angry with me again." ”

Shift your attention, don't limit yourself to the space you live in now, get in touch with new things, and expand your hobbies.

When you are helpless, never run away and don't talk to someone right away The best thing to do is to calm down and ask yourself what you want in the mirror You will definitely be able to find yourself The world is too noisy Please listen to your own thoughts.

Quite simply, this is the disgust of people, who always feel that there is nothing to cherish, but when they lose it, they find it painful.

It's a matter of mentality, and not if you're optimistic. Otherwise, go out to travel together, and by the way, maybe you will change your mind.

If there is anything unhappy, two people can communicate together and face it together. Quarrels do not solve the problem, let the child hear, and it is not good for his development. The most important thing is that two people are open and open, communication is a bridge to resolve conflicts, and there is no problem that cannot be solved.

Look ahead, there is always a reason for quarrels, the two of them communicate well, and there is nothing that can't be solved. There is love to quarrel.

Since it's nighttime, the best thing to do is to sleep.

Speak from the heart.

If it's just a momentary disappointment, that's normal.

Because when things don't go well, people think negatively.

If this is the case all the time, it is recommended that you go to see a psychiatrist, and it may be that you have a problem in your heart.

Listen to ** at night, don't think about anything.

Then you can find something unhappy to do!

However, people still have to be happy, aren't they?^

On the one hand, you are demanding too much of yourself, and you should think about many things when you haven't done them, and just pass them when you have done them. On the other hand, you have too much time to do, and when you are idle, you should do something meaningful and not let yourself have time to think about it.

I was thinking about it again, which means that I didn't think about it once or twice. It seems that unhappy things bother you, but you must adjust yourself to get out, one is to look down, look down on unhappy things, and let him go. The second is to divert attention and do something practical and meaningful, or something concrete, to pass the time of boredom.

Or, just think about it, but think about it just as a memory, without judging right or wrong, without asking whether you regret it or not, just reminiscing about the past like a movie. Then, summarize the lessons and take the next step.

I know it's hard to adjust, and finding someone to talk to is a good way to deal with it.