We broke up, but he still cared about me and told me not to think about what it meant

Updated on psychology 2024-06-18
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    My personal opinion is that he doesn't mean anything, although he said that you broke up, but he still cares, but it's not as warm as you were together before, maybe he hopes that you can still live well, although it's not a romantic relationship, but he still cares about you, it's just an ordinary friend, but I still don't believe that you can become an ordinary friend after breaking up, generally I've only seen it on TV, he told you not to think about it, then don't think about it, since you all broke up, he doesn't have any thoughts about it, then let him, care about you, be good to you, can't explain anything, can only say that it hasn't changed all of a sudden, it's just used to it, used to being like that to you before, now separated, but it will be naturally good to you, if there is no change after a while, it won't be like this,

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's normal, the water is boiling, but I turned off the heat immediately, but the temperature of the water won't go down for a while.

    So people are like this, although separated, but the habit of always caring about you still can't be changed, since the separation is not love, but he doesn't want you to think about it, maybe we will get back together, so tell you in advance, "don't think about it".

    After all, if you love it, you still can't let it go.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    jiushi literally. Caring is simply caring, which means that he has a good character.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Some people often sigh that they are really tired of living. Tiredness is mental pressure; Tiredness is a heavy psychological burden. Tired and not tired is always relative, if you want not to be tired, you must learn to relax, life is expensive.

    Tiredness makes people fall into a sub-healthy state for a long time; If you are tired, you will lose your spirits. Don't get too tired, learn to free yourself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Summary. Your boyfriend's message didn't mean to break up, but just took your current stage to make him hold back a little. So if you're going to stay together, you and your boyfriend need to change themselves.

    My boyfriend said a lot to me today, meaning to break up, but he told me not to think about what it meant.

    No. Just said a lot of things.

    I don't know if you want me to change, or if you're really disappointed in me.

    Is it still there? Your boyfriend didn't mean to break up, but he just took your current stage and made him a little back-off. So if you're going to stay together, you and your boyfriend need to change themselves.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Summary. He should be more conflicted now, and he doesn't want to give you a positive answer, and he wants to leave himself later.

    I don't know what he meant by that now? Don't want to break up?

    He should be more conflicted now, and he doesn't want to give you a positive answer, and he wants to leave himself later.

    Posterior. In other words, if the business is successful, it may be replaced, and if it is not successful, there will be you.

    It's not a loss for him.

    I've said that I've broken up many times, but he just doesn't face me positively, so he diverts the topic.

    So, I'm talking about this kind of possibility.

    Girl, if you want to know the bottom of your heart, you have to go to him.

    Besides, you can't gamble your youth on an uncertain future.

    If you lose, you'll lose all the way, and he'll have nothing to lose, he's going about his own thing.

    He just didn't want to break up and asked so many times.

    You can ask him, can he give you security, can he give you peace of mind?

    He won't say so sensual words, and he's in his thirties.

    If you are numb, it doesn't have much to do with age.

    At least he has to remember your birthday.

    I told him, and he knew it.

    So at least he has to say that for his birthday.

    Also, no matter how busy you are, you should come back and take a look.

    As long as he has time for letters, he will come to see me. The last time he saw me, he said that when the time comes, he will see if he has empty pants or if I have time, so he can take me out to play and go to the movies together.

    Girl, do you find this difficult?

    It's a long-distance relationship, after all.

    The last thing that a long-distance relationship can give is a sense of security, if you can't even talk online, then patience will be smoothed out.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Maybe he has his own hardships, you should understand him, since he broke up, he can still be friends,

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I guess there is a problem.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Love don't wait until you lose your hand to know how to cherish, if you can find a person you like, love each other, it's not easy, but also what a great honor, maybe everything is not what you think, not so perfect, maybe not as good as you think, it shouldn't be so bad, life is not so good, all happiness must be cherished and cherished, more caring words, less reproachful words, people need to understand each other.

    No matter how strong love is, it can't withstand the erosion of busyness. You're so busy, so busy that you forget to care, and you're so busy that you're physically and mentally exhausted! Wealth is a deposit, and no matter how much money you have, you can't take it to the coffin; Position of power is a kind of deposit, no matter how powerful you are, you cannot escape the final succession.

    Love is not to wait for you to be free to cherish, we meet, it is fate, for this fate, we may be trying to adapt to each other, everything just wants to go with the flow.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    He should be straightforward with him about his problems, saying that he needs to be cared for, if he realizes that he can try to learn to care about people, try not to break up, if not, say that it is not suitable, and then find the one who suits him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Sit down with him and have a good talk, tell him about your problem, see what he says, and break up directly if you are not satisfied.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Did you two come together because of love? Let's start with good, only good feelings don't count.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Then communicate with him directly.,Sometimes you don't say that boys won't find out.。。

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There are several possibilities:

    1) He indirectly rejects your request to break up.

    2) He emphatically emphasized that the reason for the breakup lies with you.

    3) Agrees to break up, but he wants to show his helplessness.

    Maybe he knows in his heart that you can't change your decision.

    4) He was hesitant and entangled in his heart at that time.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    What he means is to say that you propose to break up.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    He still loves you and doesn't want to break up!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It means that you can go, I still love you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The point is that he broke up with disagree.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I don't want to break up with 4 dead skins. People who say this kind of thing are generally more egotistical.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Shows that he still has you, tactfully refusing to break up

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