What if the husband and wife are awkward, stiff, and cold in life?

One side is high-senior, take the initiative to reconcile with the other party, just say we don't make trouble, after reconciliation, the two sides draw up the gauge, quarrel is not a cold war, it is best to draw up the gauge distance is not allowed to quarrel, one side has fire, the other party to let. It's much better that way. Or get into the habit of the Cold War.

My wife just no matter what kind of quarrel, how angry she is, she will call you immediately, and if she doesn't agree, she won't see it, and over time, I corrected her habit of ignoring people when she is angry. So we didn't have a cold war.

Don't cold war and hurt feelings. Taking the initiative to communicate and solve problems is the right way. There is nothing to be ashamed of opening the first sentence, otherwise, you can break the ice with actions.

For example, when it's cold, hand him a piece of clothing. Or boiled eggs for him in the morning. Naturally, he will be grateful and take the initiative to talk to you.

It is best for both husband and wife to calm down first, during this time, both parties think about each other's fault, if it is their own fault, then they should have the courage to apologize, if it is the other party's fault, they may as well give each other a step, so that they are good to themselves and him, after all, the husband and wife are harmonious, and the family will be harmonious. You tell me.

The Cold War hurts feelings, since everyone is not happy in the stalemate, you just take a step back and relax, so how good it would be for both of you to be happy, why bother? If you let him this time, he will also remember your good, and it will be fine slowly, I am right, I wish you happiness.

There will inevitably be some bumps and bumps between husband and wife, both sides calm down and think about it and communicate well, just say what problems there are, I think the cold war is the most unsolvable way to solve the problem and the easiest way to rectify the situation.

The Cold War should not be too long, a few days is OK, let everyone calm down, at least better than quarreling and attacking each other, because when quarreling are all ugly words, it is easy to turn over old accounts, if you are a gay man, grasp the scale, within 3-5 days, you should take the initiative.

There is definitely a need for one party to bow their heads first, and I think that whoever bows first at this time is who cherishes this relationship more. The Cold War actually hurts the feelings of husband and wife very much, and they will not ignore each other for the rest of their lives, so why not cherish the current time.

Marriage still has to be run-in, communicate more, give each other a step, don't take a lot of unpleasant things to heart, be tolerant, hehe.

This is the legendary cold violence, which is very hurtful and hurtful. If Bao's mother still wants this home, let's talk to Bao's father, and talk calmly. My family often quarrels because of my in-laws, but every time I quarrel, I will calm down with my husband and talk about it thoroughly.

Which couple doesn't make a little conflict, see if it's a big thing in principle, if it's just a small thing, just accommodate each other a little, of course, if you say sorry to your face, just write a small note.

Be more coquettish, take the initiative to answer each other, and care more about each other!

The two of them have an awkward quarrel, there has to be someone who bows their heads first, speaks softly, don't feel faceless, be more tolerant, so that the husband and wife will be harmonious.

Two people find a day to sit down, talk calmly, and let each other know what each other thinks.

The Cold War hurt my feelings the most, let's have a big fight, it's okay to vent.

Whoever is weaker will bow his head and speak first, but if you are a woman, you will stick to the end and never compromise.

Have a romantic dinner and melt her heart.

It is necessary to find the reason, if it is not a matter of principle, everything is easy to say.

The Cold War will make the relationship tasteless, and the Cold War is also the most common and most difficult way to adjust the quarrel. The Cold War was very physically exhausting and would cause direct psychological damage. Most of the Cold War is due to the unwillingness of one side to apologize to the other side and admit mistakes, which then leads to a tense relationship, and the longer the battle line is stretched, the greater the resentment of the two people, which will cause different degrees of damage to the feelings of the two people.

During the Cold War, both of them were angry, no one was willing to bow their heads, no one was willing to admit defeat, but after a long time, they would reflect, even if they were not right and wanted to take the initiative to find the bottom of the stairs, they couldn't pull down. At this time, as a man, we have to take the initiative to take the initiative, take the initiative, you can pretend to find a piece of your own item, and you can't find it for a long time, at this time turn to your wife, I believe that your wife at this time has also lost her anger, and will lend a hand to you, so that you can ease the relationship between the two people, and you can also take the opportunity to say sorry to her, we are okay.

Girls are always irritable and irritable when they have base pants for a day, and they grab each other's pigtails and don't let go, in fact, women can also take the initiative to ease the atmosphere, for example, if you want to unscrew a bottle of water, but we can work softly and gently say to each other can you help me? Usually, men will immediately help you when they hear the shout and help you unscrew the cap. This is a woman who can exert the tenderness in her nature, give her a big hug, and the two of them will talk and laugh and stop the cold war.

When two people don't want to say a word, they don't even want to see each other, but two people are afraid that this will hurt the feelings between the two, at this time we can change the way of thinking, we can't open our mouths, but we can communicate with each other through socialization, talk about their feelings and problems, two people open their hearts in this way, you can ease the conflict.

1. The Cold War attack must be dealt with in a timely manner, and the shorter the time, the better it is. 2. Gay men must first put down their bodies to accommodate women. 3. Be sure to give each other steps down.

4. Find a third party to help mediate. Do a good job of ditching and dignifying your worries, and then you will naturally not quarrel.

First talk calmly and brightly, and when there is a contradiction, you should resolve the contradiction calmly, rather than ignoring anyone. You can deliberately create a surprise and buy a bouquet of flowers, coax the other party to be happy, and give the other party the step button.

You can talk about topics that interest both parties, or give each other a gift, which can set the mood.

Active dialogue. The most important first step is for both spouses to take the initiative. After the Cold War lasts for some time, someone needs to take the initiative to stand up and clear the gap.

It doesn't matter who is right and who is wrong, things have to be settled. You can explain to the other person how you felt at the time and what you thought afterwards. After all, it is impossible for two people to be husband and wife for the rest of their lives and never talk again.

Finding the right time to talk to each other is a key to getting out of the Cold War.

Good communication. When there is a problem between couples, don't just keep silent, but when you are emotional, it is unwise to blame each other all the time. Only when both parties calm down can they come up with a solution peacefully, give each other time to think, and get better communication.

If the other party has shown an indifferent attitude, you must communicate with him carefully and don't hurt his feelings anymore, because the party who is not good at communication is usually afraid of communication, and is also afraid that he will blurt out hurtful words when he is most angry, so he chooses not to speak, and is used to locking himself in his own world to digest emotions, heal himself, and settle himself. So he can't realize that this has affected the other party, and he has to let the party who is not good at communication go step by step.

Conclude an armistice.

During the Cold War, both husband and wife were reluctant to admit their mistakes and succumb to weakness. Both people are caught up in their emotions, indicating that both people expect the other to understand themselves first and do not want to take another step. Relationships are likely to slowly cool down in such a wait.

At this time, we can ask ourselves whether the relationship is important or right or wrong. You know, unless the other person makes a mistake of principle in the relationship, there is no need to win or lose. If you think the relationship is important, you can discuss an armistice.

In other words, in the Cold War, the people who can put aside right and wrong and distinguish between winning and losing are angels. For example, in the armistice, the angel can make a request, which can be to ask the other party to clean up, bow their heads next time, or dance, etc. But pay attention to this requirement, which is reasonable and achievable by the other party, for the purpose of enhancing the relationship.

1. Do more self-criticism. If there is a conflict between husband and wife, no matter who is right or wrong, you can no longer blame it at will, which will add fuel to the fire. Instead, you should do more self-criticism and find your own mistakes, which will help ease the tension in the relationship.

2. Confide appropriately. Husband and wife can find someone to talk to, and the friend will analyze the reasons for the cold war between the two, and then tell the couple the solution separately, so that the problem can be solved as soon as possible.

3. Open your heart and have a good chat. In this familiar environment, the couple can open their hearts more and tell the before and after of the conflict, as long as they talk about it, it will be much better.

4. Use children to convey ideas. It's even better if you have children, and during the Cold War, couples didn't want to talk first, and they were in the way of face, so you can let your children convey each other's concerns.

5. Stay away from the center of the Cold War. If the emotional foundation is deep enough, the two parties can be separated for a period of time. Give each other more space, husband and wife can be temporarily separated for a while during the Cold War, and each other can be quiet.

6. Don't speak ill of each other. During the Cold War, in order to avoid emotional intensification, it is necessary to speak less, preferably not at all, so as not to hurt others. During this period, both of them were very sensitive, and once they spoke badly to each other, it was easy to get into trouble.

To give the other party a step, you can't always take the initiative alone, you can buy the other party a favorite gift and take the initiative to communicate.

Many times, when the husband and wife quarrel to the end, no one cares about each other, and the two fall into a cold war. What should I do now as a woman? Today, I'm going to share with you some tips for dealing effectively with my husband's Cold War. Let's take a look!

1. A coquettish woman is the best, and learning to show weakness can often solve problems.

Men and women have very different attitudes towards things. It's a biological decision, and you have to know how to use it. So once two people quarrel, the man will reason in the matter, while the woman will pay more attention to the other person's emotions, emotions and attitudes.

Therefore, in the eyes of men, women are unreasonable, and in the eyes of women, men do not know how to be gentle. Therefore, you should show weakness intellectually and calmly think about who is right and who is wrong. If you are wrong, then a gentle apology will immediately give the man immediate relief, but it will not hurt your feelings.

Take a step back, as long as it's not a matter of principle and the other party is wrong, it's good to forgive the other person occasionally and leave some feelings for the other person. After all, it's a lifelong thing for two people to live together, so why should they distinguish between right and wrong?

2. Sincere discussion and care.

If there's nothing right or wrong, it's just an emotional impasse. A wise woman will make the coping feel more tactful through "genuine care". Even though the two of them are already in a cold war, you still care about him.

At this time, anyone with a mind should know what to do. Therefore, your sincere concern will give the confrontation the dawn of reconciliation and may take the initiative to break the impasse between the two and put an end to the cold war.

3. Use your sense of humor to break up this serious atmosphere.

If a person is humorous, he is most likely to take the initiative and settle the Cold War. Unless it's really angry, or not in love. Therefore, most of the people who were able to fight side by side with their wives in the Cold War were honest people.

For straight men, then you have to learn to be humorous, otherwise both of them are straight men, how do they live? A proper joke is a great way to break the ice, because humor is the lubricant of emotions.

You can take the initiative to communicate with the other party, give the other party a step, negotiate on this issue when you are reconciled now, and quarrel when you are angry, but try not to have a cold war.

First of all, we must find out the cause of the Cold War, and then solve the problem with the right solution, and at the same time take the initiative to apologize to the other party and discuss the problem in depth, so that it will not be repeated next time.

The husband and wife should communicate calmly, and they must solve the problem through communication, and do not have a cold war, which will affect the relationship between the two of you.