How can you forget to give up on her if you fall in love with a colleague but can t be with her?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-02
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You know what you can't do.

    You're coming to your senses now. That's a good thing, there's no need to panic.

    Either start a relationship or find more things to do. It's good to play games. It's okay to go out on a trip with friends. It's okay to donkey yourself. In short, keep yourself busy. Naturally, I forgot about it.

    Time is the best medicine for everything.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you can, then change jobs. In a different working environment, after meeting some people and things, that person will be in the corner of memory. Maybe when I meet her many years later, I can say what I didn't dare to express back then, and then I have an unforgettable memory.

    If you can't change jobs, find something to distract you, such as fitness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Reduce contact, focus on work, and have more contact with other members of the opposite sex.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You can't drop a forest for the sake of a small tree, you can have more contact with other girls, talk, have fun, and when you fall in love with another her, it's okay.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Go try to like another person!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    To put it bluntly, people are cheap.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You don't have to force yourself to forget, the more you deliberately forget, the more you can't forget. You need to accept the current dilemma and slowly resolve it.

    You need to keep your distance from her, try not to meet and not to interact, not to care, and to avoid her care.

    It may take a long time for you to get used to it, but don't be tempted to turn back halfway through, long pain is better than short pain.

    Then, turn your attention to other people and engage with them more. It's best to start a new relationship.

    You may unconsciously go to her shadow and compare others to her. This is all normal, don't be upset.

    It is important that once you start a new relationship, you must treat it with care, be honest, and don't hold the grievance mentality of imminent compromise.

    Every girl has her charm and deserves your love.

    But don't transfer for the sake of transferring feelings, and it's okay to have a new relationship that you can't start for the time being. Keep yourself busy, concentrate on your work, concentrate on studying, and strive to enrich yourself, so that you can't be idle. I didn't want to do it before, I didn't have time to do it, I didn't do it when I should have done it, I started to do it.

    There are so many things in front of you that you should do, how can you have time to stop and complain. Gradually, you will find that you miss her less often, and you have grown a lot, so it's good.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Like her, how do you know you can't be together? Have you tried? If you really try, then you can forget about her. Usually you change the topic more often, work hard, and slowly fade away the things about him in your mind until you forget them.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Why forget that loving someone doesn't have to be with her, silently bless her, and help her the best in life.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Forget. The best way for a person. Time and new love.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Time. 2.New love. 3.Less to see her, see her.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Love is to be spoken out loud and not hidden.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Confess to him and then he rejects you and that's it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you really love her, go and chase her bravely! If you can't be together because of some important factors! Wait! Or go after the real one! Sometimes give the people who love you a chance! You're going to change.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Everyone will have an unforgettable person in their hearts.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    LOVE AT ITS HIGHEST LEVEL ... Not explained.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You can try to fall in love again and forget about him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Just get used to it slowly and give it a little time.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Imagine you have a computer, there is a ** on the desktop, and then click **right-click to delete.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Perhaps, depending on how much you like her.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Does she love you? You are a crush, if you are in true love, you still care if you work together!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You also call it love, do you have to forget it when you quit.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You must have a bad mentality, you have said that you are responsible, why don't you do it yourself, and expect others to help you. When you eat food, do you want to divide your food in half?

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Directly express your dissatisfaction. There is no need for such people to be so scrupulous.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    He thinks of himself as a senior, and if you don't do it, someone will do it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I kind of like to remind it, I didn't think much about it, and you shouldn't think too much about it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Treat him as an ordinary colleague, and slowly get used to it.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Keep your distance. Slowly, it faded. And then it was forgotten. Thank you.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    There is a feeling that is always recognized as lovesickness when there is insomnia, there is a fate that is always recognized as eternal after waking up from a dream, there is a kind of gaze that is always seen when breaking up is attachment, and there is a mood that is always understood after parting is lost

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You don't have an opinion, since you know that you can't be together, you will categorically separate, don't get entangled. It will not affect the rest of your life.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Let it go! Unless you like her.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Love will act, and if you don't let it, you will let his pull and pull will be robbed.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Since you don't want to live next to him, be sensible and try to keep your distance! Tachibana and him are good friends, probably good for each other. If you really can't do it, you have to quit!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Now that they have decided that they don't want to live with him, it's better to change the environment and another day.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You love him! Don't you want to live with him! Does he love you?

    If Pei Ru just wants to have fun! Just give up! Don't miss the number of people you love! ~

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    You love her and want to give up on her, don't you think you're like a spear and a shield

    Since you love her, treat her well. If you want to give up, Brother Jukai deleted those three words. After Ran Laxiang, he changed his envy to call a unit, or he didn't turn a blind eye to her.

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In fact, sometimes you don't have to tell her if you like someone, you can watch her silently, but this will test your ability to endure, but you can also take the initiative, the key depends on what you think, if you really like it, why not give it a try, not necessarily tell her what you think right away, but you can approach her through other methods, without her mobile phone and Q can ask her a good friend to play in private, there are many ways, you say that your friend also likes her, That's nothing, why bring your own, it's not necessary, he has his advantages, don't you also have your advantages? Why do you only see the good in others and forget your own? I haven't tried it, how can I fail again, it's hard to talk about emotional things, maybe the girl appreciates you like this, in fact, it doesn't matter how others are, the key is what you really think in your heart, like to try, others say that the road of feelings is difficult to walk, but you at least have walked it, if you want to do it and because you don't have the courage, it is a failure, even if the final result may not be very good, but at least you will not have regrets, try it will become a good memory in your lifeIsn't it?