What eye opening parenting education have you seen?

My cousin-in-law taught her little niece that she would ask her opinion on every little thing, and after she chose it herself, she couldn't go back. The vegetables must be eaten and the porridge must be drunk, and there must be no leftovers. I'm really amazed, a child less than three years old, not only can eat by herself, but also eat clean, she will pick up the rice that falls on the table and eat it, it is really sensible and cute.

My aunt took her nephew to play, and saw a beggar on the way, and generally parents will educate their children to study hard or they will become beggars in the future, but my aunt saw it and said that in the future, she should study hard so that beggars have jobs and don't have to be down.

When I was in middle school, a girl in the class was bullied by a gangster, and the director called the girl's parents and accused the girl of misbehavior with the sentence "a slap doesn't make a sound". It's awesome.

My classmate was cheated of a lot of money by his ex-girlfriend using his feelings, and his parents didn't say anything when they knew about it, and silently made up for his living expenses. Tell him a long time later, some girls are bad, but the vast majority of girls, they are gentle, kind, and need your care, we don't want you to think that women are ** because of this matter.

My cousin would give flowers to my cousin every festival, and now that my little niece is grown up and in elementary school, she will also give gifts to other children, and she will also give gifts made by herself to her parents on holidays. Education that leads by example is the best education.

Walking on the street to see a father and son, the child said that he would be a sanitation worker when he grew up, the father did not reason with the child like an ordinary parent, but calmly told the child to study hard, and he could do anything in the future.

My cousin was in early love, and she also told my aunt and my sister-in-law, and my sister-in-law and sister-in-law didn't say anything when they heard it, so they just said, talk about it, don't quarrel, don't affect your studies. This family is all God-men.

My mother said that many times poverty is not caused by laziness, maybe others do not have the same good educational conditions as you, or maybe there are no good opportunities, so don't easily criticize other people's lives.

My cousin has been very well-behaved since he was a child, and he has never said a word against him, my aunt is really invincible, and my brother scolded her as a "stinky mother" when he was a teenager, and she was so happy that she finally had a rebellious son. Hahaha, didn't laugh at me.

My mom used to hate the hassle of signing my homework every day, so she let me practice imitating her handwriting and signing, so I never panicked because of my test results, and my mom would encourage me if I did bad.

There are flowers planted in the community park, which are often stepped on and picked. A little girl said Mom, I want to pick flowers.

Her mother said: You can't pick the flowers, the flowers will hurt.

Parents take the child who steals money directly to the police station to educate, when the child hits some children, the parents will hit the child, when the child and the parents talk back, the parents are there to watch the child, the child breaks someone else's toy, the parents will give the child's toy to other children, when the child occupies other people's things, the parents will directly buy another one for the child.

When the baby is crying, parents don't care about the child at all, when the baby makes a mistake, the parents use the way to encourage the child to educate, when the baby does the right thing, the parents will buy the child the gift he likes, the baby is not in school, the parents stay at home with the baby, these parents' education methods are very eye-catching.

After the child makes a mistake, the parents are willing to take the initiative to take the responsibility with the child, and are willing to apologize to the victim with the child, or after the child makes a mistake, the parents suppress their temper, let the child think about it by himself, and usually communicate with the child will be very sincere and not perfunctory, this kind of education will make my eyes shine.

Always respect the child's ideas, and often encourage the child, will also explore their potential according to the child's interests and hobbies, will not compare his own child with other people's children, and will often accompany his own child, will also play some interesting games with the child. If the child makes a mistake, they will not scold them at all, and will discuss it directly with them. I think these parents' parenting methods are able to make my eyes shine.

Accept the negative emotions of the other party, digest them by yourself, pass on the positive energy to the child, and maintain the emotions all the time. In fact, everyone should control their own emotions, not by others, but should be respected. Although the father was a little unhappy on the plane, but the mother ignored it, and after a while, the father adjusted himself, and I think respect for each other is too important to manage a healthy and good marriage.

And a good marriage is also important for children.

Leading by example and handing over noble character to children is more successful than teaching them any knowledge and abilities. Teach children from an early age to learn to share, and not to be a "selfish ghost" who only cares about their own feelings and does not take care of the emotions of others. Give people roses, there is a lingering fragrance in your hands, and the beauty you have shared will be given back to you in other ways.

Learning to be a fair and honest gentleman from an early age is more worthy of the respect and trust of others than being a hypocrite who is hypocritical and inconsistent. Don't be stubborn and listen to your child's voice appropriately.

Don't teach children big truths, treat children as independent individuals, instead of being self-centered and treating children as objects. When a child sees what the spiritual world of his parents is like, what he absorbs is what it is. Therefore, the level of parents determines the height of children.

Therefore, we should start from small things, treat educating children as a normal thing, and infect and influence them from the minutiae of life. Give them the right direction on the road to growth.

Smart parents never spend time and effort on education, they will refine education to the moment and treat it with a normal heart. I've always felt that education is the most important thing"Teach by example", your usual way of dealing with people and doing things, even if you don't say it, children will see it in their eyes and remember it in their hearts. Parents are the earliest teachers of children, and children's horizons are too small to fit anyone, and parents are the whole world to them.

How you usually do people and how you do things, children will subconsciously think"This is true of all people in this world", and it is natural to develop this habit.

Idle every day. Eat, drink and be merry. The east has a mouth, the west has a mouth...The family is not harmonious. Parents quarrel every day. will be amazed to learn.

Be sure to learn homeschooling! Be sure to research educational methods! This is the best way to behave yourself and your child!

It will give children the psychology of escape and luck, and let them know that even if they make mistakes, they will be helped by others to go unpunished. Then there is no way to teach. I was faced with this problem, and the result was a quarrel between adults, for the sake of children.

In terms of personality, it will be more or less affected, and the personality aspect is also easy to affect work, and it is really sad to beat a child who can become a mediocre talent. I always feel that I am always wrong, and I reflect on myself. I have read a lot of books, and I hope to control my emotions and work hard to educate my children.

What about even doubles? Humans are not small animals, and the damage is irreversible. We must set up each other's stage, control each other's rhythm, and don't lose control.

Say "no" to some things and encourage you in others. In this way, the child will develop a sense of rules, resolutely say "no" to certain things, and encourage some things. In this way, children will have a sense of rules, children will inevitably make mistakes sometimes, and it is normal for parents to criticize and scold appropriately, but at the same time, they must comfort the child's psychology, but they can't protect him all!

Respect children's choices, let children develop freely, give full play to their creativity, instead of growing up, follow their own wishes, and let the children do whatever they want, but let them play their own and give full play to the creativity that belongs to the children, so as to promote the development of children more and yearn for the future.

As soon as parents hear that their children are suspected of early love, they should remain calm, do not restrain or abuse, treat their children as equal and independent personalities, and give them full trust and respect.

on TV! Realistic parents will have flawed parenting methods. It is impossible to achieve a particularly good way of education, because people are emotional creatures!

Personally, I think the biggest impact is that learning is everything. Parents want their children to succeed, but most of them are hungry for success. Compared with the education methods of Western countries, Chinese education often leads to rigid thinking of students, and today's Chinese have such a characteristic:

Hierarchy determines character, education determines value, such an idea is very wrong, many parents give their children a variety of interest classes and cram schools when they are very young, without taking into account the feelings of their children, which is likely to cultivate their rebellious psychology, parents mostly dote on their children, so now children are more and more willful, more and more inclined to individualism, and there is a very important point, that is, small details will not be harmful. Parents often ignore what they promise their children, and parents always think, "What can the little ones understand?

It's just to coax the child, otherwise he will keep making noise" Parents always hurt their children like this, even if they will be affected and gradually break their promises.

What amazed me the most was my friend's parents, who completely trusted her, listened carefully to her ideas, and didn't force her to say things she didn't want to say.

My friend's father said something that touched my friend very much: As long as you don't say it, I won't ask, if you want to say it, I will definitely listen.

In the end, the impact on friends is: people who are very warm and quiet, who are gentle as water, girls who have their own opinions, and dare to express themselves. Her personality, whether it is friends or leaders, likes her very much, and the opposite sex is also very good.

On the subway, a grandmother was saying bad things about the child's mother to her five- or six-year-old grandson, and she was spending money indiscriminately, regardless of her family or something.

The little boy listened for a while and said, "Grandma, Mommy has shortcomings, and she won't know until you tell her." ”

Grandma said, "I still tell her? Silly boy, how can you say this in front of her! ”

The little boy continued: "Mother said, if you can't say it in front of people, don't say it behind your back, otherwise you won't be a gentleman in the open." ”

The people in the subway laughed when they heard it, and the child's grandmother ...... embarrassed

It's right to listen to your mother, don't talk too much, do whatever your mother tells you to do, and if you don't listen, you will deduct pocket money.

Answer: The kindergarten class did not go on for a few days, and in the first grade, I grasped the children's habits, such as: memorizing the texts is required to be word for word, if not, re-memorization. When you grow up, let your child set his own time for homework and other things. Thank you.

People are born with a blank mind, and their personalities are influenced by their environment and education. If you don't understand, you can learn + be trained in all aspects.

Beating is scolding and love, I am good to you, and you have to thank me for loving you if you beat you to death

I'm all for your good, good for s i. Okay y ao life.

Well, actually, if you want to say that your education method is amazing, each family has its own different education methods, and my parents' words, in fact, use a very old way to do this ancient way, which is to hit when the parents think that we are not doing things right, and then what? It's about constantly educating us in this way, remembering. I think the way this experience is still for us.

I once saw on a TV series how a child's grandfather taught his grandson, and I thought it was amazing. One day, the child's whole family was cleaning, and the grandfather asked the child to do something he could, but the child refused, and the grandfather said angrily that he could not eat if he did not work, and the child said loudly, if he did not eat, he would not eat, and ran back to his room angrily. The child's mother and grandmother were afraid of starving their son and grandson, so they secretly gave food to the child at night, and happened to be caught by the grandfather who knew what they were thinking, so he sighed and said to them:

If you give him food now, he will feel that you are begging him to eat, he will feel that he has done nothing wrong, and he will get worse in the future, and when he grows up and enters the society, who will spoil him like this, you are not loving him, you are harming him. They felt that they had made a mistake and gave up on their plans. The next day, when the child was hungry, he took the initiative to help his mother work, and the grandfather was very relieved to see it.

I think grandpa's approach is too right, you are spoiled when the child is young, what to do when you are older, others will not.

My mother's approach to education is amazing.

I have poor learning ability, I am slow to learn everything, and my comprehension is not very good. Things in elementary school were very simple, most people got a perfect score, and I almost never got a perfect score.

However, every time I came home from the exam, my mother never scolded me once. She even said, it's okay, the test is good, just don't be wrong next time. Several times, I sadly asked her if I was really stupid.

She said, "You know what? The larger the pot, the slower the boiling water. Their pot is small, so it opens quickly. But your pot is big, you have to boil it slowly. You may not be as good as others now, but you will do better than others in the future! ”

It's a textbook education!

She encouraged me like that, and she always encouraged me. And then eventually, I was admitted to the National People's Congress.