I don t have any friends, and I don t have anyone I know. How to live such a life?

Whenever we come to a strange city alone, our friends and acquaintances are not there, we feel lonely and sometimes feel powerless, that sense of helplessness.

It doesn't matter, if we don't have friends, we make friends, if we don't have acquaintances, we turn strangers into mature people, and the city with busy traffic will also become a city we are familiar with.

I remember when I first came to Wuhan, my classmates and friends were either in the province or out of the province like me. But I was not lucky enough to come to the strange Wuhan alone.

In the beginning, I also felt lonely, unfamiliar with the place, and everyone came from different places. I'm afraid that I won't get along with them, and I'm afraid that I won't be able to integrate into everyone's life. <>

Fortunately, everyone is the same, and they don't know each other. They are all kind and friendly. So, I started trying to open up and try to be friends with them.

In fact, the more unfamiliar the environment, the more possibilities. Here, I met my current roommate and met my current classmates. Because I don't know others, my courage is much greater than before, and now I dare to show my advantages in front of strangers, dare to break through myself, on the contrary, I am glad that I came to Wuhan at that time.

However, not all of them are like me. In an unfamiliar environment, the more opportunities there are, the more difficult it is to grasp. Maybe, you will run into walls everywhere, maybe, you will be used by others. You may lose some qualifications because you are not local.

It's so unfamiliar to us, everything is so unfamiliar, and sometimes you may get lost because you don't know the route. Maybe when we encounter setbacks, we can't talk to our friends like before. It may feel depressing.

There was more pressure on my heart.

But if these hit us, it means that we are not suitable to stay away from our familiar environment. In fact, the environment is slowly becoming familiar, except for the place where you grew up, other places are unfamiliar to us, so don't be afraid, take brave steps to meet the new life. <>

The colleagues around you, the classmates around you, with time together, slowly they will naturally become your friends. But you also have to learn to protect yourself from being taken advantage of by others.

Today's society is complicated, and not all people treat you sincerely. But not sincerely, you should feel it. Don't be too afraid, if you don't step out of your heart, how others will enter your world.

Let things take their course, and don't chase after anything. When you stay in one place for a long time, you will naturally become familiar with it.

Optimistically, I think that not having friends is only temporary, and one day you will meet your true friends. Remember, don't close yourself off at this time, because if you really close yourself off, you really don't have friends, and you will really fall into loneliness.

When I first started high school, I had no friends and no one I knew, and I felt that the world was gloomy, and I was thinking about who I was going to eat with, who I was going to go shopping with, and what I was going to do. However, when you really enter that environment, you will find that there is nothing at all, and all your so-called loneliness is an illusion that you have created for yourself. You tell yourself that you don't know anyone here, how can I talk to them, what should I do.

In fact, if you think about it carefully, there are people you were born to know, aren't they all known one by one through your own interactions? Success is in people, there are no friends you can't make, and there is no life you can't adapt to. <>

So there is no such thing as no friends, as long as you open your heart to talk to others and recognize Allah, I believe that your life will be very exciting. The decision of whether you have friends or not is also all in your hands, and all people have met on your way to growth. Don't set yourself a scenario and repeat over and over again that you don't have friends, if that's the case, I can only regret to tell you that your life will definitely be bad, and you will never make friends.

On the contrary, if you show the positive side to anyone, I think people will like you, and you have to tell yourself that they are my friends, and I think you will be able to make a lot of good friends and adapt to your new life happily. The quality of life is not determined by whether you have friends, but by your personal mentality, believe me, as long as you are optimistic enough, cheerful enough, you will be able to quickly adapt to all life.

Some people's loneliness is only because of their own loneliness caused by their rejection of the outside world, which is a problem of people's inner thoughts, or low self-esteem, or too introverted. They lack a lot of autonomy in dealing with the world in their daily lives, and usually put themselves in a closed, personal space, afraid of outsiders walking in.

However, there are also some people whose loneliness is a problem caused by their own thoughts. This kind of person should be extremely self-centered, or too arrogant, and will not integrate himself with everyone and everything around him, and then get along well.

But often friends are indeed the biggest companions in our lives, and the life with friends is the most fortunate and memorable life. Therefore, if you don't have any friends, or if you don't have anyone around you who you know, we should take action, take the initiative to make friends, and let one or more people in your life share weal and woe.

Some people have just arrived in a strange city, have no friends, no acquaintances, and at this time, their hearts are usually very at a loss, because everything around them is new. Some people are good at socializing and communicating, so they will soon be able to have their own circle of friends. However, some people are not able to make friends in a short period of time, or even do not have a close friend for a long time.

So, in my opinion, people's social skills are particularly important. In any case, there are ways to improve our language communication skills and abilities, which is an essential skill for people in the world. Work, study, the existence of the circle of friends is very much needed, if we just blindly close ourselves when we are alone, then, it is difficult for us to survive in such a realistic society.

How does a person who has no friends live? Whether a person can live or not depends not on whether he has friends or ability, but on himself, because "I" is the root of all problems. As long as I work hard, there are no obstacles in life.

There are also dead ends in life, and people have different abilities. As long as you are diligent and can endure hardships, you can live no matter what your ability is.

In real social life, we can see some physically disabled and physically strong people doing what they can. They exchange their efforts and sweat for the harvest after paying, and live a self-reliant and carefree life. As long as you can bear hardships and stand hard work, have no ability, and have no friends, you can still live.

There will be no pie in the sky. Only hard work can be rewarded. Even if you can't get rich, a normal life is still guaranteed, and it doesn't matter if you can't live without friends.

As the saying goes, the more friends you have, the easier it is to do things. You're not good at socializing. If you have a circle of friends.

It's small, and you can only rely on your own efforts. If no one helps you, it's all up to you. They all rely on manual labor to sustain them.

As long as they work hard and endure hardships, they will live. Sometimes, our lives are like a game. Before participating, you will find it boring, but when participating, you will be careless.

It's really fragrant and there are some people who can't participate because there is a barrier between them and life. This disorder can be caused by circumstances, upbringing, personal personality, etc.

I believe that not many people in this world have friends, at least they don't have real friends. Some say punk for friends.

The character comes from the main city next to the meat moon, which means that in addition to the wine and meat friends, there are also interests. There are too many such friends, not only good for life, but also without rewards and losses. Also, if you can't do anything, if you have friends, you can't help you.

People's success depends on you. It's useless to have friends. Everything is on your own.

If you have the ability, you will have friends, so work hard. It doesn't matter what skills you need.

These people live very boring lives, and they don't have any social activities in their lives, so they are very lonely.

It's lonely and lonely, but I don't think there will be anyone in the world who doesn't even have a friend.

Make more friends and treat others with sincerity, so that others will be happy to be friends with you.

Ask why you don't have friends.

Answer: There are some people who don't have any friends, which has a lot to do with his personality, he is very introverted, he doesn't like to communicate with others, and he doesn't like to go to those crowded places, and his personality is more withdrawn, so such people have no friends.

Question: What should I do? This kind of person.

How can someone like this become a friend?

To change yourself, you need to change a few points, the first is to communicate more with others, talk to others more, the second is to participate in more parties, speak boldly at the party, exercise your courage, and third, among the people who talk to others, exchange hearts for hearts, and communicate with others with your sincerity, in order to win the favor of others.

Asking questions is something you don't dare to do, and people don't pay much attention to communicating with others, which is so uncomfortable.

Talking to one person and responding to you is the most basic courtesy.

Then what do you say, others are so impolite, this attitude towards you.

Asking a question is to tell others that people don't hear it, or they don't respond much when they hear it, and they do things in a targeted manner, and if this situation occurs, it must be the feeling you give to your colleagues, that is, you are a very honest person, and others look down on you a little, so he doesn't pay attention to you, and he doesn't want to deal with you when you say it.

When you are usually with them, do they never take the initiative to talk to you, and you rarely talk to them?

Question: Yes, what should I do if I am too honest to be looked down upon?

Answer: Let me tell you a story, in fact, when I was a child, I was also a very honest, timid, and non-talkative person, and my classmates around me looked down on me at that time, and always thought I was a bully, and at that time, I was also very unconfident.

But now I have changed a lot, it is very different from before, now I am very confident, dare to do things, so now the people around me are impressed.

Can you understand what I'm saying?

This kind of person will be very lonely in the first place. Then there will be some willfulness in the personality and some selfishness in the heart.

Withdrawn and untalkative. Because those who don't have friends don't usually have someone to talk to, they will talk less.

Likes quiet, doesn't like to be busy. Because they have no friends, they are usually used to being alone, and when there is a sudden noise around them, they will be very unaccustomed and even bored.

A person who has no friends will live a lonely life, and they feel that the whole world is only themselves, abandoned by the world.

Probably a very withdrawn, unsociable person. In fact, there are many such people. They may not be unkind, and it may be difficult for them to blend in with the crowd because of their personality.

Those who say they are withdrawn and have a bad temper, don't talk nonsense if you haven't felt it.

After graduating from college, I can say that I didn't have any friends in real life.

QQ friends have been from elementary school to college, but there are few contacts, and there are no deep friends. After graduating and growing up, who will work hard for you and listen to you? There are mutual benefits, and I can do you a little favor.

Usually you need help with something, you want to borrow money, come to you, you think about whether your so-called friends are like this, or whether you yourself are such people.

On the surface, they are called friends, but in fact they are just superficial brothers and plastic sisters.

I have a lot of friends online, and I was the big brother when I started black games, why is it easy to make friends online? Because there is no profit driven on the Internet, and there is no need to be responsible for each other, everyone has a good time, and they are friends.

In reality, if there is a person who has no friends, then such a person is very sad, and such a person is also more introverted and does not like to communicate with others.

Such people are relatively withdrawn, they are also more introverted, and they are reluctant to socialize with others.

Then there must be a big problem with this person. When I was in high school, there was such a person in the class, and the whole class didn't like him because his words and deeds were really unacceptable.

Maybe it's the kind of person who is particularly independent, who doesn't want to cause trouble to others, and doesn't dare to take the good of others for granted, so others are gradually estranged.