Anxious: Can anyone tell me whether I should listen to my family or my own when it comes to emotiona

When deciding whether you want to love this person, you might as well put everything aside, first ask yourself if you are really attracted to this person, whether you will have a lifetime of regrets if you lose yourself, if so, then be brave to love, why sacrifice your love for some of the no? Love is not complicated at all, the complicated thing is that people have too many purposes for a relationship, such as: marriage, property, future, vanity, and even others.

One of the important sayings is, leave when you don't have the information to start doubting.

Parents are from the past, and there is nothing wrong with believing it. Vigorous love can't resist the reality of a moment, if your parents who have lived all your life can't understand it, they will live in vain, you still have to leave early, everyone is good!

The road is your own choice, once chosen, no matter how bumpy the road is, you have to finish it

It's better to listen to your parents, after all, they won't harm you, and there are some things that you don't know as much as they do when you're young. Maybe you're happy now, but when you get married, you will find that your parents are right, and then you will regret it, and your parents will be angry with you, and it's not worth it. If you really love each other, you might as well let him change for you!

Women should take control of their own destiny, have clear requirements and goals for the future, and not be carried away by unworthy people.

How much parents don't like it, that's your parents' choice, and it has nothing to do with your choice. It's just that you have to pay more attention to observe him, and there must be a reason for his parents' dislike. Remember, they're definitely for your good, not for your harm!

Listen to the analysis of the family first, if the parents are reasonable and reasonable from the character analysis, they should listen to the family, after all, the parents are thoughtful and objective. If there is no problem in this regard, if the parents dislike the poor and love the rich, they feel that in addition to their less wealth, they can listen to themselves. But, looking at the above situation, what is laziness, if it is lazy in life, and the work is diligent and self-motivated, then you have to be ready to do it in the future, and after getting married, he will not be able to help you do housework, he will concentrate on work.

If you are unmotivated, but willing to take care of you in life, if you are a contented person, that's okay. So, see what life you want to live in the future. However, if you are lazy with both, then it is better to say goodbye.

Of course, there are also good both, but it's not easy to come across, haha.

First of all, you have to ask your heart, whether you want to be with him for the rest of your life, put aside all objective factors, ask yourself whether his people are important or money is important, if he has no future you don't want to be with him, then I advise you not to waste everyone's time, no one can control their own thoughts, and neither can your parents, unless you want to do it...

Although love is said to be selfish, it still has to be divided into circumstances, and sometimes, it is necessary to listen to parents appropriately.

Don't believe too much, it depends on your actions!

This is a very real problem, many people are worried, I think, there is really no way to have the best of both worlds, but there is always a way to come out, don't give up on yourself, and don't give up on anyone easily. If you believe that he can give you happiness for the rest of your life, help him, and also help the two of you, through this difficult period. I think, you should look at his attitude first, if he really loves you, he will do everything he can to do what you want him to do, if it is really he can't do it for the time being, then you can help him, I think, this time is also an opportunity to see his attitude, if he doesn't even do this wholeheartedly, I think you should leave him.

The reality is so cruel, I don't want to give up love or give up my family, and money has become the biggest problem. If people could pay less attention to money, maybe love would be happier. However, your parents are always good for you, and they also hope that you may be able to live a life without worrying about food and clothing.

It's really hard, but don't give up, things always have to be dealt with slowly, don't get upset, there will always be a way.

I think you still have to trust him......Since you say that he is very promising and is struggling, it means that you are willing to be with him and you support him. In this case, you should show your determination to your mother (not to hurt your mother, to quarrel with your mother, to communicate, to do your best), after all, if he has paid a lot for you, you will give up on him because of this decision, and it will be a pity if he becomes a talent in the future?

Honestly ask yourself, are you willing to go down with him?

I remember when you got married, if you were a pastor, he would have asked you this question: ... No matter rich, poor, healthy, sick, are you willing to love him, protect him, and be by his side for the rest of your life?

Many people impulsively answered "I do" for the night of candles in the cave room that night, but later found out that the home is not as beautiful as the outside, and the outside is not as beautiful as it gets...

In love, no one tells you that it is always sweet. If you think so, then I think you've read too many fairy tales ... To run a relationship, or even develop it into a family, what is needed is hard work, patience, mutual acceptance...

Love, for me, is a person who has been with me all my life. He has money, we work less and play more. He has no money, so we work more and play less.

Nothing bad ... At most, I don't wear famous brands, don't use famous goods, don't eat extravagant food, in fact, it's not bad... The main thing is that I am with him, we are happy, just ...

Being together for money, perhaps, will be happy at first, but he will never know whether you love his money or his people? I'm afraid you don't know, right?

Pity the hearts of parents all over the world, in fact, parents also think that we will be better, so we must seize the proof of happiness to show our parents, so that the second elder can rest assured

Whether this relationship continues or not depends on how you deal with it. I think you can go to his house for the New Year, divorce is indeed a harm to children, but children are children after all, the reason for the matter is clear to adults, you can say anything about children, for example, friends or something, and then the child can explain the situation when he grows up, of course, you and the child can get along very well, that is the best, if your boyfriend really minds this matter, he just doesn't want you to go, then you can't understand it, then it will be difficult to continue. When two people get along, when they encounter problems or disagreements, there is always one person to tolerate and give in.

There's no need to be with him, even if you're together, because you and he won't be happy because of this child, it's human nature to care about your child, if he really cares about you, he will definitely formally introduce you to his child, and say good things about you in front of the child, so that you can get along with the child in the future, you have thought of it, he didn't think about it, it proves that he didn't want you to integrate between him and the child, and there is no idea of going down with you, leave this man who only wants you to sacrifice.

Your sadness is justified, but your boyfriend did not propose to break up with you, it is estimated that you are usually doing well, but there is a disagreement on whether to take you home for the New Year, and the mainstream of your relationship is good, and it should continue. There is some truth in the difficulties that your boyfriend said, but the difficulties he said can't last forever, his children will have to face this matter after all, and your status should also be confirmed in the next year or two by going home, and your boyfriend will negotiate on this issue and clarify a specific timetable, if it has been delayed, then you can't continue your relationship.

Since you know that he is divorced and has children on the premise of dating him, you should have predicted the problems you will encounter in the future life with him, although the child has been with his ex-wife, but after all, it is his child, even if he marries you, he will not ignore his ex-wife's child, now it is just a matter of going home to meet during the New Year, you will feel uncomfortable, and whether you can afford it when it comes to other issues such as the economy in the future, Live with him in the future, because what may happen to this child needs to be thought about in your own heart, and if you can't accept it, leave him as soon as possible.

Why did you find a divorced man in the first place?

Since he cares about his children, why should he divorce? The divorce of two people is not the fault of one person. It takes two to tango.

In his heart, you can't compare to a child. The child is related by blood, you are an outsider, and if you are replaced by someone else as a girlfriend, you are also an outsider. Bloodline is important.

I advise you to give up the relationship.

You don't need to continue, see the reality clearly, and think about yourself, are you really happy in this relationship?

I don't feel good, since I've been divorced for three years and I've been dating you for a year, what else can't I face, I feel that he doesn't have you in his heart, and you're just playing on the spot, if there is you, the child is not a problem. There is no need to use the child as an excuse, it can only be clear that he is playing with the relationship between you. So I'm telling you not to continue.

Find someone who truly loves you! I wish you happiness.

Giving up is also a beauty.

Entanglement is often more painful.

It may be a relief to just leave without contact.

Everyone will meet many people in their life, some will stop for you for a while, some will pass by you in a hurry, whether these people bring you joy or sorrow, in the end they only become a passerby in your life.

There is nothing wrong with him caring about children, and it is okay to show character from another angle.

I think you should tell him how you feel, tell him how sad you are, and of course communicate well.

After getting along for a year, you propose to go home for the New Year, and he should have responded. Talk about how you plan for the future.

He did this, he also has his bitterness, two people divorce, the most hurt is the child, since you know his situation, you should be prepared to be with him at the beginning, of course, for you, there is nothing wrong, but don't fight with a child, if you want to be together, accept everything from him.

It's better not to be together, otherwise you will be more miserable in the future. is divorced, and there are children, and I am sure that I will still have contact with my ex-wife in the future, and maybe I will remarry because of my children, and I really don't know where I will go when the time comes.

Don't continue in this way, there is no need to continue! This shows that he only cares about himself, and he is more selfish and does not consider your feelings! Your continued suffering will only increase! I don't want to tell my children that divorce is not a reason, the older you are, the more you can't say it!

shouldn't be together, since he can't introduce you to his family, it can only mean that he doesn't really want to be with you, saying that he is afraid that the child won't accept it, it's just an excuse

Since you don't want your child to be sad, you shouldn't start a new relationship, and if you decide to start a new relationship, you have to face and resolve all difficulties.

I don't think you need to waste time, why do you have to look for this kind of person with children, let me tell you, stepmothers are not good, if you are not careful, you are Zhu Bajie looking in the mirror, and she is not a person inside and out. Besides, judging from what you said, the man himself is not ready, he has a child, and you don't, he can afford it, you can't afford it, give up decisively!

Think about what that. You're great. Give up quickly, it has to be.

emmm, I think, he still doesn't love you enough, since he handed over you, let alone more than a year, then he always thought about his child, it is impossible to say that you don't want the child to be sad when you propose to take you home for the New Year, no matter what, he is wrong to you so much, if the child is small, you should let him know, if the child is older, then you simply tell him clearly, the child will understand.

If you want to be emotionally involved, you don't have to have an explosive tune, lyrical is a good choice, and secondly, there must be obvious changes in the chorus. Such as: At least you, listen to the sea, tonight's loneliness makes me so beautiful, I finally lost you, these are very tests of your singing skills.

Single love song by Lin Zhixuan.

Kiss goodbye, onion, blooming life, keep the grief to yourself, I have finally lost your ......

You can listen to the hip-hop boy, time to cook the rain.

Xu Song's are all better.

Wang Feng's existence can be emotionally invested!

The queen of heaven, the brightest star in the night sky.

It depends on what kind of songs you like to listen to, and if you like it, of course, you will be emotionally invested.

Songs that resonate with your spirit will be good for you, so some songs that you didn't think were good for you are good now.

That song is more in line with your mood at the moment, and when you sing it, you will feel the same way.

"Sad Pacific" is a cover of Miyuki Nakajima, which Miyuki Nakajima agreed, and after the MV came out, she also sent it to Miyuki Nakajima, she recognized and liked it very much, and then Miyuki Nakajima sent the song of "Tianya" she wrote to Ren Xianqi, which is not the so-called plagiarism at all.