How do you get yourself out of remorse? What can I do to avoid regretting it later?

If you want to get out of this regret, you must have a good attitude, slowly go to the amend, to correct, there will always be regrets in the long road of life. But there is still a long way to go. Either make up for the mistakes you made now, or keep the mistakes in mind and don't let yourself make the same mistakes again.

If you really want to forget the past, you have to start a new experience. Time will dilute everything, and everyone in this world will live the same life without it, just like the sun rises the next day. Now that we are adults, we should let go of the patterns and influences of the past and fully accept ourselves!

Don't punish yourself. Life has its ups and downs, and it's normal to encounter setbacks.

Don't always regret and blame yourself, don't always look at how others are, the important thing is what kind of result you want, give yourself a time to sort out, whether it is the other party's problem, or you are blindly looking at yourself with different eyes, what pressure and troubles to say, let yourself face happily, as long as you are willing to believe, you will definitely take care of it so that you have a happy and sunny mood.

Re-examine all your values. Carefully analyze which values you believe in and which you only pay lip service to, list those false values, and do your best to act according to your own moral standards without harming others.

Life is originally a drama, it hurts others, it hurts yourself, but it's because you care, the person you hurt, it's just because he cares, no matter who hurts whom, he has it in his heart, whether it's good or bad, whether it's a conspiracy or a trick, because he has it in his heart, it's nothing more than fairness or not, be yourself, it's all over, true kindness has the power to protect yourself.

Distinguish guilt and remorse from learning lessons. No matter how much damage you have caused, you have to admit that there is no way to go back to the past, and guilt and regret can neither change the past nor move you forward.

Objectively analyze the various consequences of one's own behavior, do not judge right and wrong in life only based on intuition, and the criterion for judging should be whether one's spirit is happy or not as the selection criterion.

You might as well ask yourself, is there anything that you are afraid to touch because of the past? If you face it again, will the consequences really be as serious as you think? Why not try again.

Regret is a negative emotion, usually due to dissatisfaction or regret caused by one's own decisions or actions. Here are some ways to help us reduce or avoid regrets:

Careful consideration and decision-making: Before making a decision, we should fully consider and evaluate various situations and options to avoid the consequences of hasty decisions.

Face up to problems and difficulties: If we encounter problems and difficulties, we should face them positively, not evade and avoid, and look for solutions and strategies to avoid making the problems more complex and tricky.

Learn to reflect and summarize: After experiencing some events and experiences, we should reflect and summarize in a timely manner, understand our strengths and weaknesses, and look for the direction of improvement and improvement.

Gratitude and cherish the present: We should cherish the current life and experience, be grateful for the people and things around us, and look at our life and growth from a positive and positive perspective.

Acceptance and release: Sometimes we can't avoid disappointments and regrets, so we should try to accept and release, not to dwell too much on the past, but to try to look forward and rebuild our confidence and motivation.

In short, not allowing ourselves to regret requires us to actively face life ideas and problems, respond to challenges and difficulties with positive attitudes and actions, cherish the current life and experience, learn to reflect and summarize, and accept and release in a timely manner.

It's impossible not to regret it!

If you think about it from the perspective of personal development, you should spend more time on work, because work itself is a good learning process, put yourself in the process of work, and the process will lead you to grow and improve. Similarly, if you're happy with the job now and have a good future prospects, focus on your work. The times are changing, the market is changing, and the technology is upgrading, which makes us feel uncertain all the time.

Only when we keep up with the trend and have the ability to make the tide will we not be eliminated.

In other words, if your current job is what you have wanted for a long time and that is your interest, then it is meaningless. You can achieve your dreams, gain recognition, and improve your life through work, which are all the meaning of work.

You don't have to be like this for the rest of your life, but you have to have a period of time (about 3 years) when compared to your almost 35 years of working life.

Judging from my personal growth experience, there is no shortcut in life, and the harvest of other people's filial piety that you see is not formed overnight, but a process of accumulation.

The other day, when I was consulting with a client, I gave an example of wheat. In our hometown, wheat is sown after October every year. After October, the weather will only get colder and colder.

After the wheat sprouts, it grows a few leaves, but it is only 10 centimeters high, and it is very weak, and it has to meet the coming winter, including the coldest time of the year.

During the long winter, the leaves of wheat do not grow and can even freeze. If the weather is dry, you see the green layer of wheat on the surface, but the leaves are already dry, and they will crush if you pinch them with your hands.

But, don't worry. When spring arrives in March of the following year, these wheats will grow rapidly, tiller, and turn from a weak seedling into several seedlings, or even a dozen seedlings, and then tassel and fill until they mature, which only takes 3 months.

To sow one mu of wheat, no more than 10 kg of seeds are needed at most, and the yield per mu is generally 500 kg after maturity. The output is 50 times the input. The core key to achieving such a high input-output ratio lies in the coldest three months of winter.

At that time, although the leaves did not grow and were even freeze-dried, the roots of the wheat were still growing slowly in the ground and growing into a large patch. In this way, when spring comes, they will have enough roots to absorb nutrients, and they will complete their life's mission in 3 months. These three months are the coldest and most difficult moments, but they are also the most important moments.

The same is true for human growth. Whatever you want to gain, you have to put in the hard work and effort to deal with it (except in the case of family wealth inheritance or other fortuitous outbreaks). Even if it is practiced deliberately, it takes 10,000 hours to become a talent.

If you want to achieve more than 90% of the results, you have to work so hard for a period of time that it takes root like wheat to ensure that the nutrients are absorbed in order to ensure that you can harvest later.