What is the experience of having the whole family in a daughter s control?

In my opinion, the whole family is controlled by daughters, and it is a very happy experience for me as a girl, because I feel like I am living in heaven and loved by many people.

We have two children in our family, my brother and I, and everyone thought that in the countryside, parents, especially the older generation, would definitely favor sons over daughters, but in our family, it is the opposite, our whole family is controlled by daughters. I remember that when my mother said that she gave birth to me at that time, everyone was very happy when they heard the doctor say that it was a daughter, and they were so happy that they invited their relatives to share this joy at a banquet. However, my brother was not treated like this when he was born, so my brother and I were treated differently from each other.

Every time I ate, my dad would give me meat and give me all kinds of delicious things, and then my brother would watch me eat quietly, as if no one saw his presence. I grew up being spoiled, no matter what I wanted, my family would almost follow my thoughts, because the whole family is a daughter, and I am really happy to think about myself, born in such a family. Every time I quarrel with my brother, other people's families say that my sister wants to let my brother or something, but my family is the opposite, my family will say that my brother wants to let my sister, and my sister is a girl, and a boy should spoil a girl.

This concept has been deeply ingrained in my family, our family is a typical girl to be rich, boys to be poor, anyway, I remember from childhood to adulthood, I grew up under the care of the whole family, I cherish this happiness.

Therefore, being controlled by the daughter of the whole family is really a happy thing for me as a girl, but it may not be a good thing for a boy to start.

Are you talking about my family's situation? Our whole family is really controlled by daughters, giving birth to a daughter is really the happiest thing in this life, to the moment my daughter is born, the whole family is ecstatic, and it is also a moment that my husband and mother-in-law have been looking forward to for a long time.

Now my five-and-a-half-month-old daughter is the palm of our family, and the focus of the whole family revolves around my daughter. My mother-in-law said that she dreamed of giving birth to a daughter in her life, and she didn't want to have another child after giving birth to my husband, because she wanted a daughter, so she had the mentality of trying it out, but she still gave birth to a son, and she was very annoyed.

So my husband has always said that there have always been men in the family who can't see women, and when I was in love with him, I kept telling me that I wanted a daughter, and later after getting married, my mother-in-law kept saying that it would be nice to have a granddaughter.

Then when I was just pregnant, my belly was very sharp and thin, and everyone said that I was pregnant with a son, and our family shook their heads when they heard it and said that it must be a daughter who is a daughter, and it really made our dream come true.

Now the daughter is the heart of our whole family, basically the family's food and clothing, all are daughter-based, like the two days of double 11 when we shop, everyone's shopping cart is the child's things, all kinds of food and play are hers, although the economic conditions in the family are average, but they are trying to buy the best things for the child.

Will I tell you that the whole family hasn't bought clothes for a long time? It's not that there is no money to buy, but I can't think of buying things for myself, and I can't take steps when I see the baby's things, so I want to buy them for her, and I want to give her anything cute and fun.

It's nothing.

It's a normal thing.

I also like my daughter's.

First of all, the face has grown, and I want to bring it out every day to let the family know that I am very proud of my heart, and the child's appearance is like the report card of the two parents to be surpassed by their own offspring. I remember that I had a friend who gave birth to two daughters, the eldest daughter was born very beautiful and white, everyone liked it, she also liked it very much, and always took her daughter out, and when she saw people, she showed her daughter, and the circle of friends was full of her eldest daughter's **.

Later, I gave birth to a second child, and the second daughter was born that will be really unforgettable, I just went to the hospital to see her second daughter, so scary and black and ** full of that kind of red spots. At that time, she almost threw her second daughter in the hospital, she said that there was no such ugly child, and then a ** of her second daughter was not put on, when I went to her house again after two years, her second daughter looked white and watery, and the eldest daughter was disabled, and their husband and wife always did not let the second daughter come down and walk and hugged it like that, his grandparents also loved this second granddaughter to the extreme, and the delicious food on the table was first taken to her second daughter, and she always stroked his second daughter's head, and she went to accompany her when she fell asleep. In fact, people like beautiful things, and they always have a preference for good things, and it's the same.

Everyone loves good-looking people. As long as she talks about her second daughter, she is called a pride, and the happiness on her face is happy. I believe that if I have a good-looking girl, I must be very happy and I will dress her up very good-looking, comb her all kinds of good-looking hair every day, and then cultivate her temperament from an early age, daughters are always much more intimate than boys, people do not often say that daughters are parents' little padded jackets.

I'm a cute face control, what's wrong with Yan Kong, I'm proud.

Now that I'm 20 years old, my grandmother has already had my mother, and I'm in the fact that there is no man who can make me change from a girl who has nothing to do to a woman who still has charm, do you have an opinion? I made a blood vow before, I must give birth to a boy, dress him up handsomely, hook up with a beautiful little girl, and bring me a group of daughters-in-law back, so that I don't have to earn money to support my son, it is enough to have a daughter-in-law. Hahaha.

Another reason is that my daughter will become someone else's daughter-in-law at that time, and I will be jealous if I call another person my mother. She suffers from her great aunt every month, and if she unfortunately inherits me, she will bleed for more than a week, and she can't stop at all. Although it is very happy to be a mother, but when she is pregnant in October, she has difficulty moving, her lower abdomen is swollen, she has lost her ability to take care of herself, and the pain of giving birth to a child is unbearable for men.

I must not give birth to a daughter, although my daughter was born to inherit my beauty, and she is also a great beauty who has brought disaster to the country and the people, but I am reluctant, she suffered my sins again.

Recently, however, I have changed my mind. It's also good to have a girl who will be the whole country and the city to harm those little boys.

My aunt's family has a daughter, what is the point of seeing it? Every time my aunt went to pick her up after school, she would be followed by a sassy young man, like a little adult, and said to my sister seriously, be careful when you go home, and be safe on the road. I also told my aunt to drive slowly.

My aunt couldn't cry or laugh, and when she told me about it, I thought about whether I had this treatment before, like, no. Today's children are looking at their faces, and this society is degenerate. We were looking inward, uh, and it didn't seem like there was a little boy sticking to me because of my inside.

Looking up to the sky and howling, it's unfair. And my aunt said that the boy who was with my sister would change every few days.

Your sister and I are still single, you are surrounded by so many young men, is it appropriate for you to be like this?

Every time I take my sister out to play, someone will always say, "This is your sister, and I joke that it's my own sister." He looked at me in disbelief, as if I had lied a big lie. At that time, the shadow of his eyes on me was that I never went to his house to buy anything again, hmph, I was so stingy.

Obviously, they look similar to my sister, so you don't have good eyes.

Generally speaking, for both boys and girls, girls are considered to be the weaker side in terms of physical fitness, so girls generally do not have as much strength as boys, in other words, some heavy work still needs to be done by boys.

There is a species in Shanghai in the world, and in addition to men and women, it is the female man. People tend to call girls with a lot of strength, girls who don't know how to dress up, and girls who talk a lot as women. In fact, in my opinion, women in the eyes of others actually have a soft side in their hearts, but they want to rely on their own strength to complete their own things, they don't want others to help, and they don't like to be pretentious, showing their true side to others.

I had one roommate in my college dorm who was stronger than the other three of us, but I was the tallest in our dorm room in height and weight. Every time the bucket of water in the water dispenser runs out, I am responsible for filling the water, and then she is responsible for putting the bucket on top of the water dispenser, which is easy for her, but it is a bit difficult for me.

There is also during the military training, one of my roommates injured his foot, inconvenient to move, although she only has more than eighty pounds, but I carried from the canteen to the downstairs of the dormitory is also a little difficult, the strong roommate did not breathe and carried her from the 1st floor to the 5th floor, in fact, our floor is the sixth floor, because the ground floor is not the first floor, belongs to the 0th floor, I also admire her very much, according to me, her family is doing rural work, her father is engaged in construction, so often help, the strength has become relatively large.

Girls have a lot of strength, boys stand aside, there are many times, we can only rely on ourselves, just because there are external forces to rely on, so we don't want to try on our own, and when there is no one to help, we can only really rely on ourselves.

Just like there are two sides to everything, having a beautiful daughter is both joy and sorrow!

It's very uncomfortable, it's very disgusting, it's very angry. Because they are your elders, you can't disobey them, and they are unreasonable.

You have to listen to your parents' opinions on how to deal with it, maybe they have something in the previous generation, you have to figure out what is going on, generally some families love their daughters a little bit This is not too much, if you are embarrassed everywhere, like this kind of old man is dead and no one remembers, see it and send it to the nursing home.

There is nothing to love, but you have to be a good child. On the surface, I want to follow them, but in my heart I say that it is because I love you that I choose to perform this kind of fulfillment.

It's that your family has an experience of Xie Guangkun.

Everyone will grow up, and after copying you to bai, they will also become an elder du, and become what you call "unreasonable."

zhi elders", so you dao

Empathy is required.

Reasoning is reasoning. However, the public says that the public is reasonable, and the mother says that the mother is reasonable, and it is not clear who is reasonable at all. If you think your elders are unreasonable, your elders may think you are unreasonable.

So don't think that you are a victim and that your elders may be more wronged than you are.

If we can't understand it, then we need to move it. At home, we should be unreasonable, we should be interceding. Empathy, if you were an elder, what would you think and do, and think more about each other.

If you mean parents by "elders", I believe that there are only one parent who is not good for their children.

Home is a place of warmth, and it is unreasonable for your parents to be good to you, not asking for reasons, not being reasonable, and there is no "reason" at all that can explain the parents' efforts for their children. So as a child, don't always reason with your parents, maybe you and your parents are just too reasonable and don't intercede. When your family relationship is maintained by "reasoning" like two strangers, the family is already cold.

Unreasonable and intercede at home.

I don't want to go home for the New Year.

Super annoying. As soon as I see you, ask questions.

It's better than coming.

If one thing descends to another, find the person who descends to him, and have a good relationship with that person!

The eternal saying: I am for your good.

Or: You're young now, and there are many truths you don't know.

I didn't understand it, because I have always been relatively independent since I was a child, and I will do what I believe will be done even if they are against it. Therefore, I can listen to the words of the elders or not, and I don't feel that anyone can control me.

Try to have as little conversation as possible. I have it at home, and when I was a child, I had no choice but to go against the grain, but now that I have grown up, I will move immediately.

Living away from oneself is not unfilial, but there is really no need to go back. Now I don't speak more than 5 sentences in a year, and I don't have anything at all. I used to do things every day.

By the way, that's my mom. I respect her very much, but I can't live with her, I tried, and within 1-2 years I started looking for things everywhere, and I couldn't be at peace, and finally I gave up, and now it's nice to have my own family. My sister lives with my mom and is now divorced.

Therefore, it is better not to experience unreasonableness, try to make yourself strong, and move out to be self-reliant.

Scare him, scare him, I don't care who it is, I only stand on the side of justice and truth, fortunately my parents understand me very well, except for my parents, everyone dares to be unreasonable in front of me, I dare to tear my face in front of you, I really can't go directly. Drop a sentence: Damn it gave you face?